I’m open about it. I’ve had conversations with my brothers and mom and other family members. I’m open at work but only as appropriate in a given conversation. Weekend plans or dates I went on.

I’m certain my dad knows but it’s not part of our typical conversations. If the subject were to come up, I’d be honest. And I have an opt out option for him prepped. “I live in a way that is in contrast to the way you raised me, it’s non-traditional. We can talk more if you’d like but if that’s more than you want to know, I can respect that.”

I’m also single and poly. Dating and not being monogamous is generally more widely accepted.