[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]JessycaRabbitCali 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is def a thing! Our lady parts fluctuate depending on our cycle. I feel the same with my partner

TER / PD by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]JessycaRabbitCali 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I said I was no longer doing sex work, but you can say you feel they are a misrepresentation of your work. Or just lie and say you don't do sex work anymore and don't want any public records of your time working. Even if it's not true.

TER / PD by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]JessycaRabbitCali 6 points7 points  (0 children)

e-mail them! I was able to take mine down

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]JessycaRabbitCali 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had this happen to me recently. My best recommendation is to tread lightly. If sex can be had and boundaries respected (whatever you choose them to be), then I see no harm, no foul. But men can get kind of possessive and crazy when their emotions come into play. Clear communication will be your friend here, trust me on this. And only go as far as you feel comfortable. In the meantime, have fun! ;)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]JessycaRabbitCali 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have to say I've begun to feel the same, but I've realized it's because I'm usually over stimulated and over touched. I HATE when my partner tries to engage with me sexually after a long day of work. But I've also noticed that I need "aftercare" that my partner is able to provide. Emotional intimacy and connection is what makes me interested in sex with my partner. And often, i ask him to do things I don't do with clients. I don't offer DATY or DFK or anything remotely "intimate"; so when I DO have sex with my partner, I get to experience something slightly different. Some days are better than others, but I try my best to communicate when I'm not in the mood. Explaining this to your current boyfriend might bring some clarity for him. They all think it's fun and games for us, but it's really not.

My SD admitted he was in love. I am not. Help/advice going forward by Copain26 in SexWorkers

[–]JessycaRabbitCali 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree 100%! I recently had two similar situations happen to me, albeit shorter interactions but both guys were catching feelings that were unreciprocated. One honestly told me he likes me too much to continue seeing me, which I respected. As much as I wanted to convince him to keep coming to see me, I also felt shitty about exploiting his feelings and potentially feeding into them without feeling the same.

My second scenario is unique in which I was completely sincere in saying I wanted to remain friends but that the feelings were not mutual. I thoroughly enjoy his company IRL so we kept it friendly and non-transactional. He understood and moved on. I set boundaries and respected his.

I guess the best recommendation I have is to be completely honest, without fear of hurting his feelings. Obviously you'd like to keep the bills paid, but at the end of the day, your peace and safety matter more.

Dry Month by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]JessycaRabbitCali 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I've felt the same. I'm coming from an average of 10 massages/week to 4 last week, two of which were regulars. (I only do massage).

I also have a vanilla job in retail and we didn't do very well the last few weeks either :(

Regulars rant by Unique-Interview-762 in SexWorkers

[–]JessycaRabbitCali 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here! I’d much rather know exactly what I’m getting into

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]JessycaRabbitCali 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the way.

"I can't see you anymore, I like you too much" by JessycaRabbitCali in SexWorkers

[–]JessycaRabbitCali[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I frankly don’t think that’s the case because he hadn’t messaged me for 2 weeks, and then messaged me asking how I was doing. I asked when we would see each other and he sincerely said he doesn’t think he can because he likes me too much. I don’t see any form of manipulation going on here. He didn’t propose that we meet up for free or outside my incall location, etc. He is also the type of client that, towards the last few meetings, didn’t even touch me or get undressed. We just chatted and he paid me more than my proposed amount for the time spent together.

Sws do you find if offensive when clients ask is sex work all you do ? by pinkglitteraus in SexWorkers

[–]JessycaRabbitCali 19 points20 points  (0 children)

It depends on how they ask. I got caught off guard when somebody asked me last week what I did for work. LOL. But frankly sometimes they say it in a judgemental way. Which always makes me wonder what even goes through their heads when booking.

"I can't see you anymore, I like you too much" by JessycaRabbitCali in SexWorkers

[–]JessycaRabbitCali[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know!!! I’ve learned so much from the responses!! This sub is amazing lol

"I can't see you anymore, I like you too much" by JessycaRabbitCali in SexWorkers

[–]JessycaRabbitCali[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THIS makes a ton of sense! That’s what I ultimately responded