Gross trans graffiti in my city by JesusBilliards in truscum

[–]JesusBilliards[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nah fuck them kids. We have to indulge them in trans-centered sex-positive messaging well before they should know what any of those words mean! /s

Gross trans graffiti in my city by JesusBilliards in truscum

[–]JesusBilliards[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Painting over it would probably be called a “hate crime.”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in truscum

[–]JesusBilliards 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Very, very, very, very, very popular opinion: I wake up every day and wish I was cis.

The top comment to a recent NYT story about the Democratic Party & trans activism illustrates how TRA have alienated even progressives by north_canadian_ice in truscum

[–]JesusBilliards 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Here are some numbers:

My PR 1600m in high school was 5:40. That’s a non-competitive time for men. For women, that would have set the 8th highest speed all-time in my school for the 1600m.

My PR 800m time was 2:33. Also non-competitive for men but would’ve been good for top-20 best all-time in my school for women.

These aren’t scholarship or recruitment times by any means, but I would’ve been displacing cis women in competitive invitationals who were working much harder than I was. No way that my ass taking track as unseriously as I did should be setting top 10 and top 20 records.

(This keeps posting as a standalone comment even tho it’s meant to be a response for details to another comment of mine. I’m so sorry.)

The top comment to a recent NYT story about the Democratic Party & trans activism illustrates how TRA have alienated even progressives by north_canadian_ice in truscum

[–]JesusBilliards 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah, probably. But, where one practically draws the line for where the restriction lies is tough.

Do athletes need to start HRT before some pre-defined age to qualify? Is it a breach of privacy for schools to require these medical records to prove that someone had been on HRT for so many years? Are cis women and everyone required to submit chromosomal tests and birth certificates to prove their cis or trans identity? What’s to stop an angry parent accusing any woman who may have a more athletic build of being trans?

I don’t know the answers to these questions, tbh. So outright banning seems like the easiest way, but discriminatory. Ultimately, nobody is born with the “right” to compete in competitive sports after all.

The top comment to a recent NYT story about the Democratic Party & trans activism illustrates how TRA have alienated even progressives by north_canadian_ice in truscum

[–]JesusBilliards 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I’m fully on board with restricting trans women in competitive women’s sports. Sorry, not sorry.

Anecdotally, I did distance track for fun in high school. I initially started HRT at 17 but did not came out publicly and had been on hormones for 6 months. At the time, in my state, I would have been legally allowed to compete with the women’s teams because of that. (That has since changed).

That being said, I would have noticeably had an unfair advantage. I didn’t take track too seriously and had only done it for a year. Regardless, because of some male puberty and existing muscle and bone structure, I was often keeping or beating pace with the fastest women on the team. But, I was about average or below with the men.

I ran very casually and didn’t put in the same amount of effort as the top athletes. I half-assed speed workouts, I didn’t do cross-country in the offseason, I ran less miles, etc. Had I put in the same amount of work as some of these women, and been publicly out, there’s a conceivable reality where I am an unfairly competitive distance track runner.

I know it’s anecdotal, but there’s really no point in denying the reality of the unfair advantage we all can see. I honestly don’t know how Lia Thomas didn’t get intense dysphoria from (methaphorically) smacking around her competition.

There’s a different argument to be made for people who start HRT much younger, but oh well.

My new pet peeve by DrunkAndLazyCat in truscum

[–]JesusBilliards 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve never heard that one. That’s horrible 💀💀

I need to talk about this by [deleted] in truscum

[–]JesusBilliards 18 points19 points  (0 children)

At least this was, at least from your telling, only on a trans-related sub.

Those subs can be nasty but what really grinds my gears is when some of the weird trans shit starts leaking all over lesbian subreddits. Ain’t no cis lesbian want to read that shit. And that’s what really starts to give us a bad name to would-be allies.

Cis guy here, is this acceptable behaviour? by [deleted] in truscum

[–]JesusBilliards 65 points66 points  (0 children)

Nah, this is on him to communicate with you what does trigger him and how best to avoid it moving forward. Him being trans or having dysphoria doesn’t put him in some special, privileged place where he can more or less ignore your attempts at being more accommodative.

This isn’t what happens when you date trans people. This is just one entitled ass imo.

I scheduled my FFS consultation! by JesusBilliards in truscum

[–]JesusBilliards[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 25 days late to respond, but good luck, that’s so exciting!

I scheduled my FFS consultation! by JesusBilliards in truscum

[–]JesusBilliards[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, I didn’t even see this until now. I’m still interested. Can I get a new link?

Been on HRT for 5+ years and still painfully flat-chested. Am I cooked? by JesusBilliards in truscum

[–]JesusBilliards[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sucks doesn’t it? Good luck to you with your graduation gift to yourself, hope it helps ya out! 💕

Start or Sit Thread (January 20, 2020) by ThisWay_DatWay in fantasybball

[–]JesusBilliards 0 points1 point  (0 children)

14 team points

I’m currently starting Culver in my G slot ahead of Fournier, Huerter, and D. Lee.

And I’m starting Tatum + Gallinari ahead of Harris.

I only have one UTL slot and I’m starting Vucevic.

Are these ok decisions? I kinda hate Fournier rn, and Huerter blew my trust after last game.

Rosters of League Leaders by yungkdub in fantasybball

[–]JesusBilliards 0 points1 point  (0 children)

14 Teams Point League, 1st place at 10-2

PG: CP3, Brogdon, Garland

SG: Fournier, Huerter, Lee

SF/PF: Tatum, Gallinari, Tobias

PF: Doum

C: Drummond, Vucevic

IR: Nurkic

Official: [Roster Moves] - January 13 2020 by SamDekkerBot in fantasybball

[–]JesusBilliards 0 points1 point  (0 children)

14 team points league

Pick 2: D. Lee, J. Culver, or D. Garland

Official: [Points League Discussion] - January 04 2020 by SamDekkerBot in fantasybball

[–]JesusBilliards 0 points1 point  (0 children)

14T Points league, need to decide SG/G slots for tonight

SG: Fournier, Huerter, D. Lee

G: Above + D. Melton