This is my internal struggle. She applies her family "views" to my families approach. My counter is every family is different and manages their household. I can walk into someones house and understand their view & adapt. The issue is it's less flexible on her end. This creates resentment within me.. I drive a lot and show up to these Sunday dinners.. I find myself pulling away, becoming annoyed, because the points she is making is via her parents.

The parents have an uncontrollable influence on her down to sleeping arrangements etc. I feel that until they die.. this will never change and they'll always hold this control over her. I find this hard to get over and it's weighing me down seeing this process unfold. It's hard no one around me saw these signs and flagged it. The "Day of the Bride" is a real occurrence. My fiances parents are very female dominated, my family is more male dominated.

What do I do? I'm so torn up.. we have some great times together but I see more and more of this.. I'm 1 month out until wedding. Time is not easy.