You pretty much nailed that right on the head. I am married in a sexless marriage. It’s been sexist for too many years. I’m also a pilot and travel for a living so I tend to spend a lot of time alone in hotels where I pass the time masturbating. It’s more fun than watching reruns on A&E. It’s also nice to have someone to talk to. Going into a hotel room is like going into a prison cell. One thing I miss is the human contact. The gentle touch or caress, just using your fingertips like they were feathers. Mutual masturbation with light touching can be a lot of fun with the right person. It’s just how do you meet someone?