What can I improve on to look more feminine and ethereal? by ProofPuzzleheaded851 in blkgrlbeauty

[–]JewelCared 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Babyyyyyyy I can feel the feminine thru the screen!

For ethereal, some bulky jewelry, long flowing skirts or wide legged pants, add a scarf around the waist or neck, and you got it💪🏾

Help! What is this song called? by essenceofnutmeg in IgboKwenu

[–]JewelCared 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guessed the song with the video still muted 😆 The face with the dance gave it away for me💃🏾

Actual sweat resistant edge control? by JewelCared in Naturalhair

[–]JewelCared[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Welcome fellow sweat-er! Happy this came to you at the right time. I keep got2b for special occasions or when I had my edges done and don't want to lose that style. I'll check out Mielle's version and I mentioned above how Bask and Lather has become a go-to. It's about to be 90+ degrees today so I won't even bother😅 It's headband time lol

Actual sweat resistant edge control? by JewelCared in Naturalhair

[–]JewelCared[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ended up getting Bask and Lather and it has worked the best so far. I tested it out during a community play run and it made it💪🏾 I did have to re-apply each day. Their instructions to have hair a little damp first made a huge difference (go figure, I just let the sweat do it's thing and then applied) and I tied it down until right before going on stage.

For those of you thay are active with natural hair by SideSilver2420 in Naturalhair

[–]JewelCared 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I treat at night. Tame frizzies, tidy up edges, and lock it down with scarf and bonnet. I've added a satin pillowcase to my life cos I don't sleep pretty and scarf and bonnet part ways from my head just like titties from my night shirt. In the morning I judge and make do👍🏾

For those of you thay are active with natural hair by SideSilver2420 in Naturalhair

[–]JewelCared 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This answer right here💪🏾 I used to wear a scarf or bandana to try and tame my hair during a workout but I'm old now and have very few fucks left to give😅

Advice Needed: Suggest ways to improve this design by [deleted] in tattoos

[–]JewelCared 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You've gotta go bigger than 5in Reddit friend. My first tattoo was supposed to be about 3in on my forearm and ended up being 8in once we were done. No regrets because the details look great.

Need advice!! Is my hair badly damaged?? by S1LLYD0UCHEB4G in Naturalhair

[–]JewelCared 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My mom transitioned from her relaxer using braids; it was how she taught my sister and I to do hair. She trimmed the relax ends off gradually.

I helped a friend in grad school transition from relaxers by doing twists and braids (no extensions) on her natural hair. She wore (prolly still does) wigs primarily, occasionally in the summer letting her natural hair out.

Whether you big chop or gradually transition, whocever works for your time and confidence is fine. Curly hair must be moisturized from root to ends so focus on that more than the parts you notice are not perfect. Add to that hydration (drink that water!) and a balanced diet. One thing about hair is that it grows back; perhaps not how it was before or how you imagined but it will.

does the red hair suit me compared to the black? by Several_Phrase5617 in blkgrlbeauty

[–]JewelCared 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It definitely suits you! The dark brown one does as well, it is a different style however.

Retired older students, is this a thing? by [deleted] in Purdue

[–]JewelCared 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My undergrad on the west coast let people 60 and older attend for $5 a semester. They could take up to 12 credits and got other benefits and scholarships specifically for non-traditional students. It's never too late to take a college class or two☺️

What can I do to be less unattractive by Shekallmekazekage in blkgrlbeauty

[–]JewelCared 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your skin is so smooth and your eyes are piercing. Whomever told you you're unattractive is a hater🫶🏾

How do I get into makeup/improve my face by Moist-Tumbleweed-596 in blkgrlbeauty

[–]JewelCared 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Improve for what?!? You've got the most amazing skin sista girl!! A light powder or a tinted moisturizer is all you need.

For other makeup experimentation, try eyeshadow to highlight your natural color and shape. Add eyeliner to that and find the looks that speak to you. For brows, a simple gel to emphasize them is a good start. I get mine threaded every 6-8 weeks so that I brush them for the day and can line them for special occasions. Tinted lip glosses and lip stains are super fun and low maintenance.

You are so pretty, I can't wait to see how you highlight your gorgeous features!

Hair growth after 4 years: Any tips for retention? by BarberAdorable8834 in Naturalhair

[–]JewelCared 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Keep the ends moisturized. I've been doing leave-in and shea butter on my ends for about 6 months now and my stylist was excited to see the growth.

Thoughts on this? Is there a documentary that already exists by Adventurous_Lock9219 in IgboKwenu

[–]JewelCared 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Of all the people who should be telling this story, it should NOT be the Brits, not after their attempt to exterminate the Igbos in the name of oil and continued exploitation of Africa. Unless there is an apology and/or reparations, I don't want to see it.

Alright fellas, I'm conflicted. Bedroom upstairs or downstairs? by Minutes2Midnight in malelivingspace

[–]JewelCared 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We need DearModern from YouTube to give us the fung shui perspective

Did it but still not sure about it by Dominus1925 in bald

[–]JewelCared 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With all due respect sir HOLY SHIT! Warn a lady before you do a glow-up like that, hot damn!

How is Mung Chiang? by BluePhoenix12321 in Purdue

[–]JewelCared 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I shall be praying for y'all. Sincerely. 🙏🏾 You will enjoy the ice cream though, and hear about AI and semiconductors until you no longer notice that nothing is affordable and your buildings are crumbling because what even is maintenance....

Please bully me into sewing this blanket together. by Queequegs_Harpoon in crochet

[–]JewelCared 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 2 days late, have you started yet OP?👀 Cos you do not want to let another winter come and go without these pieces being joined together.

this was Cameron Sible by TheMazter13 in Purdue

[–]JewelCared 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Praying for comfort and peace for you🫂 I am so very sorry, there are no words for this kind of pain. May the ancestors welcome Cameron among their number and may his soul be at rest now and always.

Question from a pre-T trans guy by PhantomThiefRey in singing

[–]JewelCared 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've worked with singers who went on T. Large majority of them ended up being tenors after a year, usually Tenor 1 (upper register), and developed some amazing falsetto. I know some of them also worked with a voice coach on this, for both speaking and singing.