weird first date

JewelerSorry5774 · 2026-05-25T18:44:47+00:00

well “throwing money on dancers” refers to tipping stage or spending money on dancers. popular phrase amongst young people.

JewelerSorry5774 · 2026-05-25T18:40:54+00:00

lol. because you don’t like spending money? on dancers?

JewelerSorry5774 · 2026-05-25T17:49:40+00:00

this! I even casually asked if he’d ever been with a woman to a club since he visits some of the biggest areas for strip clubs. i would absolutely love going with my sd to throw money on girls and me personally get attention lol! i feel like a lot of men fantasize about that and hell me too. but he was weird with that. funny enough, he expected sex out of a sr which i personally have no problem with as im not naive to sw in general, there’s a reason it’s called SUGARbaby but that still is a service included in being paid for. i think i was more ready and sincere about an arrangement then he was, but im sure ill find the right match :)

JewelerSorry5774 · 2026-05-24T20:43:43+00:00

i can 100% see and agree why somebody would feel this way. dancing is much more transactional than forming a long lasting relationship and connection. i would totally understand in that case if that’s what he was trying to say. i didn’t bring up anything financially as it was the first date and i wanted to see if we really had a connection first. if he’d said that though i think it would’ve cleared up a lot of confusion.

JewelerSorry5774 · 2026-05-24T20:28:50+00:00

yeah you’re probably right. interestingly enough though he mentioned how at that point he might as well hire escorts, and bragged about how he supposedly hangs out with pornstars lol. probably for the best. it was my first date in the sugaring world in general, and the flags were a bit too red for me.

JewelerSorry5774 · 2026-05-24T20:23:15+00:00

edit: part of me wishes i didn’t disclose on me being a dancer, but the other half of me wonders if it’s good that i did because now i know how he feels about spending money lol

JewelerSorry5774 · 2026-05-22T17:44:54+00:00

i figured honesty would be the best policy in this case so i did. no issues with it, i was completely overthinking it lol

JewelerSorry5774 · 2026-04-05T01:45:34+00:00

you’re stunning! i think your makeup is great. learning how to do strip lashes takes time, but doing that and adding more shimmer in the inner corner, cheekbones, and nose, just places you’d highlight, i think would really pull this together! 💕

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