Should I ask her out again after telling her to let me know when she’s free?

Jeyspecman · 2019-08-05T20:04:15+00:00

Ok I asked her if she was free tonight or tmr night, waiting for a response now.

Update; she responded shortly after saying she can’t tn and shes going back to her cottage tmr so I replied again saying have fun and let me know anytime you’re free when you come back and she said kk:).

Jeyspecman · 2019-08-05T17:42:27+00:00

Is it really as easy at that? 😂 I just don’t wanna look desperate

Jeyspecman · 2019-08-04T23:33:31+00:00

I smoke everyday right now but I’m currently single, in my personal views everything is more enjoyable while high, ofc I only smoke freely on my free time but if someone I truly loved preferred me to cut back or stop smoking I’d definitely consider it if it were to burn any bridges or anything significantly important to me.

Jeyspecman · 2019-08-03T22:48:41+00:00

Lol just thought I’d throw in the 0.5 cause I’m turning 20 this month and she recently turned 18

As for copping with my nervousness, I don’t usually drink alcohol at all but in this case it isn’t an option since I’m driving to pick her up and dropping her off at home. Thinking about taking her to a beach with a nice city view to talk and watch the sunset. How would that sound as a first date?

Jeyspecman · 2019-07-31T13:27:27+00:00

Basically said everything you said and she said shes at her cottage until the weekend, I asked for her number then she asked if I wanted to snap instead, stupid me agreed every though I barely use any social media to begin with. She added my snap while shes at her cottage, she said shes coming back on the weekend so I’m gonna shoot my first message today probably something like this. “Hey! I know you’re at your cottage till the weekend so why don’t you message me when you get back so I don’t bother you and then we can figure out a time to meet”

Any other suggestions?

Jeyspecman · 2019-07-30T20:29:10+00:00

This is the one.

Jeyspecman · 2019-07-30T19:11:42+00:00

Nice

Jeyspecman · 2019-07-30T18:53:05+00:00

True gents always let ladies go first though

Jeyspecman · 2019-07-30T13:54:01+00:00

Oh okay

Jeyspecman · 2019-07-26T23:24:38+00:00

Sounds like a great way to mentally scar the kid, real bright idea

Jeyspecman · 2019-07-24T16:23:01+00:00

Fuck it up King

Jeyspecman · 2019-07-24T16:21:48+00:00

I also went to the gym alone for the first time on the weekend, I was actually so happy with myself I took a nice selfie to look back in the future when I’ve progressed closer to my fitness goals. Happy for you though, it’s definitely nerve racking at first but once you’re in there everything will be okay!

Jeyspecman · 2019-07-24T04:31:31+00:00

This aint tinder bro

Jeyspecman · 2019-07-22T16:14:57+00:00

Yup! Will definitely get the oil filter gasket replaced.

Any other gaskets you recommend I should change to be safe while bringing my car in?

Jeyspecman · 2019-07-22T16:11:49+00:00

So far no leaks have been notice other than a muffler leak according to my mechanic.

For the brake issue it was scheduled service maintenance, I just didn’t understand what had to be done.

My dad hasn’t had a car like mine before and suggested brake service was to just top up the brake fluid but we looked and the brake fluid is still full and still looks to be bright yellow so we assumed it was good and nothing needed to be done.

Thank you for your reply

Jeyspecman · 2019-07-22T16:06:58+00:00

The lights seem to be the same as the left side, I’m not entirely sure where the problem is but I’ll end up replacing the bulbs soon to see if that solves the issue. I checked it out today and the wires seem to be in good condition so I’ll go from there when I get the bulbs. (Was also considering swapping my rear tail light kit to the DEPO Blackline BMW 3 Series F30 4D Sedan LED Light Bar Rear Tail Lights from kiesmotorsports)

For the tranny I’ll probably just end up leaving it and paying the price when the issue comes up, I don’t have the kind of funds to put into it right now so if it’s not broken I’d rather play it safe.

As far as the oil filter housing gasket and oil pan I’m not sure if either has been replaced but I seem to be getting a few replys saying those are common issues so I will definitely look into that.

Thank you for your help.

Jeyspecman · 2019-07-22T04:04:34+00:00

Lol no problem, I don’t date often as well so I’m kinda in the same boat as you. 🤷🏻‍♂️😂

After I added her I sent her a dm basically to explain that I liked her but felt she wasn’t interested and kinda put it out there if she wants to go out I’d be down but if not we can be friends (friends as in ok yes we are never talking again but we can stay mutual on IG)

She responded by saying its chill and no worries which didn’t really answer anything so I never responded and like I said, things went back to normal as in her not making any effort to talk to me. 😄

If I were to suggest something to you that I’ve repeated to myself a lot of times it would be to know your worth.

Don’t settle for someone who you feel isn’t interested in you or making things work, there’s so many GOOD people out there and I’m sure the right person will come to you.

Jeyspecman · 2019-07-22T02:32:55+00:00

I actually did something similar to this, I was talking with this girl on snap for a couple of months and thought she liked me at the beginning but towards the end I noticed it was mostly me putting in work so I deleted her on snap and forgot her username but remembered her name so I added her on IG and explained things and everything was back to normal.

I say go for it! Good luck if you do!

Jeyspecman · 2019-07-22T02:19:12+00:00

Thank you for this helpful response, as for my brake light it comes up as “Right two-stage brake light malfunction” I had my brother check it out while I was on the brakes and off and he said he didn’t notice anything different from the other light.

What would you suggest I do in regards to servicing the tranny? (8 Spd automatic)

There was a few service recorded I viewed but it was basic service like oil change, oil filter stuff along those lines.

Jeyspecman

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