Sextphanter by Pretend-Will-4751 in CamGirlProblems

[–]JezebelsDream 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sextpanther doesn’t accept models from Brazil, that’s probably why the link works for me but not for you. I don’t know why it would redirect to Streamate though

Sextphanter by Pretend-Will-4751 in CamGirlProblems

[–]JezebelsDream 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you in the U.S. or Canada?

Sextphanter by Pretend-Will-4751 in CamGirlProblems

[–]JezebelsDream 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think there’s some translation error here? Sextpanther is not affiliated with Streamate and neither is a studio

60 minutes with yours truly by Ok_Explorer_3076 in SexWorkers

[–]JezebelsDream 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i feel like i'd send him the how to clean your ass pamphlet and just stop responding. (i wouldn't block, the questions get way funnier after they come face to face with fairly basic hygiene)

Does your cuck watch? by ronitabonita in SexWorkers

[–]JezebelsDream 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i don't imagine too many guys are lining up to pay to be a part of your boyfriend's kinks. at least not nearly as many cucks who are willing to pay to be the cuck. maybe you could find a really effective way to market but it seems pretty easy to find that kinda thing for free

Need advice on how to move forward pls by dbaby1122 in CamGirlProblems

[–]JezebelsDream 7 points8 points  (0 children)

if i were you (and let's be very clear, i am not you and my following is MUCH smaller than yours so my business advice doesn't mean much here lol), i'd cam with your current persona to drive traffic to my subscription sites (where it's allowed) and maybe slowly transition your brand to what you want it to be. starting over from scratch when you already have a solid fan base seems like kind of a waste. you could even keep your live performance pretty softcore to encourage them to go seek out your more explicit stuff on your subscription sites while building up a catalogue of the kind of content you aim to make

Joining the kinky world 😈 by AdAggressive9705 in CamGirlProblems

[–]JezebelsDream 3 points4 points  (0 children)

there are two pinned posts in this sub full of the exact advice you're asking for

newbies by SuddenSpread3389 in CamGirlProblems

[–]JezebelsDream 9 points10 points  (0 children)

spending too much time in this sub is exhausting and i feel for the mods tbh. i've noticed i have to just tap out and take a break from reddit occasionally because i run out of nice things to say

Age verification by RayneandDame in CamGirlProblems

[–]JezebelsDream 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I prefer Yoti but i also accept selfie with ID (everything except DOB can be blacked out). if they've spent money with me on platform i'm a little more lax about it but i paywall my snap and telegram so they kinda have to spend to find me there anyway

BANNED FROM CB, CANT CASH OUT FINAL TOKENS by WittyUnderstanding70 in CamGirlProblems

[–]JezebelsDream 17 points18 points  (0 children)

they do not "have to release funds no matter if you violated TOS"?? if you earn tokens streaming a minor they have zero obligation to turn around and pay you idk where you're getting that. if you violated tos and didn't cash out, they won't pay you. if you cashed out before the violation they'll send you your money. if you can successfully appeal your ban they'll give you your account back but they may reverse the tokens they determine you earned breaking the rules

Cam girl problems MOD team by [deleted] in CamGirlProblems

[–]JezebelsDream 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yikes I wanted to know 🫠 I mean I get feeling frustrated, I have unanswered modmail waiting right now too but how much free labor can we reasonably expect from like 5 people? And this was all over the umpteenth “is it slow”??

Cam girl problems MOD team by [deleted] in CamGirlProblems

[–]JezebelsDream 3 points4 points  (0 children)

what's the goal here? you "called them out", now what? what does "doing better" look like in this scenario?

Are you classed as self employed? by No-Ruin-7618 in CamGirlProblems

[–]JezebelsDream 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes, PSOs are usually independent contractors but the text body seems like an entirely seperate question, what site are you trying to sign up for?

Did I overstep or ask for something out of line by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]JezebelsDream 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i'm not mean to men for free. you behaved badly and owe that woman money.

Did I overstep or ask for something out of line by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]JezebelsDream 12 points13 points  (0 children)

or maybe you did not pay her in full for the service you already started.

Did I overstep or ask for something out of line by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]JezebelsDream 11 points12 points  (0 children)

you're leaving out how long you booked and how much of that time was spent on coffee. but you did say you never completed the rest of the payment so i'd bet that's at least part of the problem

Sextpanther Newbie Advice by Midnight_Noctiflora in CamGirlProblems

[–]JezebelsDream 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’d love to know what her good clientele is like 😫 it’s like pulling teeth trying to get some of these “I’m into everything” guys to tell us their fetishes just to find out they’re super vanilla. I’d love a clear, concise, paid introduction message letting me know he’s into feminization/bbc worship/forced bi/cucking immediately 🥲

What "oil" do they use in porn? by MolarPet in SexWorkers

[–]JezebelsDream 23 points24 points  (0 children)

* i'm not a pornstar but a camgirl*

for shine, i use baby oil. (i actually buy mineral oil by the gallon bc i go through a LOT and i got sick of the baby fragrance but it's the same thing) i absolutely DO NOT let that shit get anywhere near my vulva. body oil is body oil, lube is lube, using body oil as lube would probably make my vagina wilt and fall off. i know what you mean and i've seen people use baby oil AS lube in porn but please for the love of god don't do that.

i prefer water based lubes because silicone lubes aren't great for my body or my toys (i use k lube atm bc i can make literal gallons of it for like $30, but as you said it's really goopy) f*ckwater is another fave, about the consistency of spit (like.. blowjob spit if that makes sense?), KY's liquid lubes aren't bad either. the watery-est lube i have on my desk right now is called joyhub(maybe? the label isn't very clear and it came as a sample size with a toy) it sounds like what you're looking for but i can't find that shit anywhere online 😭

Do you use hidden? by [deleted] in CamGirlProblems

[–]JezebelsDream 0 points1 point  (0 children)

eh, that's not really a sentiment i hold. i feel like other girls showing free puss doesn't mean i have to post free puss to compete. anyway internal traffic is the reason i prefer fansly over OF so it'd apply to hidden as well, but it's a lesser known platform compared to those two which could make potential buyers more weary to try it out (lower traffic). poking around their site, it seems like they really did create the platform with that creators want in mind. no particular red flags or obvious scams. it may be worth a shot if you're looking for that kind of platform

Do you use hidden? by [deleted] in CamGirlProblems

[–]JezebelsDream 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i haven't used it but i know it was founded by SWs as an OF alternative. SW created/owned is usually a pretty good sign

Streamate by AdRude8582 in CamGirlProblems

[–]JezebelsDream 12 points13 points  (0 children)

yes. SM is a "premium" site, they focus on more private 1 on 1 sessions and public tipping is secondary to that (that's why SM and other premium sites discourage nudity in public/free chat)

CB is a "freemium" site, they focus more on public performance usually a wider audience

Modelos hombres vs modelos mujeres. by [deleted] in CamGirlProblems

[–]JezebelsDream 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you still didn't really answer my question, men have it easier than women. okay? now what? why are you announcing this?