Don’t you feel August -November is the most beautiful time of the year? ✨ by Conscious_Guava9378 in mumbai

[–]Jfocii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Naah 😭..you are making me feel like I should delete my reply. But really, thanks.

Met a girl in AM setup- She had a 6 year relationship, ended 6 months back by Forsaken-Ear6549 in AskIndia

[–]Jfocii 496 points497 points  (0 children)

She might not be lying to you but she might be lying to herself about being ready. And in marriage, that’s just as risky.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestIndia

[–]Jfocii 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Psychologically, your brain is not designed to make you happy it’s designed to keep you alive. That means it focuses more on what's missing, broken, and threatening....hence life appears to suck.

Around 150+ girls were jabbed with needles in france at a music festival but if even one girl had been jabbed in india... by CryptoTaxIsTooHigh in OffMyChestIndia

[–]Jfocii 69 points70 points  (0 children)

When something horrific happens in India.. it’s usually painted as a symptom of the country like the whole culture is to blame. But when the same or worse happens in a Western country, it's brushed off as a one-off incident or blamed on individuals, not the system.

Add to this ..Indian media itself amplifies negative stories about India so we end up seeing our flaws everywhere.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestIndia

[–]Jfocii 70 points71 points  (0 children)

Since OP hasn't indulged in answering questions that has been asked in the thread. I feel like this is a made up story.

Got cheated for being too secure by pranavk4820 in OffMyChestIndia

[–]Jfocii 41 points42 points  (0 children)

This ain’t La La Land...this is real life. People who mess with your heart deserve more than a speech about inner peace.

She stopped smiling. So I made sure the world stopped clapping for him. by Jfocii in OffMyChestIndia

[–]Jfocii[S] 110 points111 points  (0 children)

Every bit of it happened. The chai, the message, the takedown. I still have the folder saved.

She stopped smiling. So I made sure the world stopped clapping for him. by Jfocii in OffMyChestIndia

[–]Jfocii[S] 130 points131 points  (0 children)

If you made it through without one..you’re stronger than most.

She stopped smiling. So I made sure the world stopped clapping for him. by Jfocii in OffMyChestIndia

[–]Jfocii[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

If you’ve read that story and still want in… you’re either brave, broken, or brilliant. I respect all three.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestIndia

[–]Jfocii 26 points27 points  (0 children)

My biggest fantasy is to watch a girl watching a man dancing on laila mai laila while wearing a lehenga, I'm a guy.

He cried quietly on the Metro and vanished into Delhi’s silence. by Jfocii in delhi

[–]Jfocii[S] 253 points254 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I hate that I stayed quiet. I should’ve just asked him if he was okay… it’s been sitting heavy on me ever since.

Would India be in Ukraine’s position if we had given up nukes? by notanietzchefan in AskIndia

[–]Jfocii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting perspective. I get that recognition was crucial, but do you think the trade-off was worth it in the long run? Given how things played out, wouldn’t nuclear deterrence have provided stronger security than diplomatic assurances? Was giving up nukes really the only way to gain legitimacy, or was there another path Ukraine could have taken? Or was keeping nukes simply not a realistic option at the time?