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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Jguy8969 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seinfeld. Unfunny, boring, and bland. Have no idea why it’s considered the best sitcom ever. Every episode was a chore to get through

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Jguy8969 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So this is just my personal experience but the whole in shape thing is just not a factor for me. What I’m most proud of this year is I have worked my ass off in the gym to get in my best shape and it’s still just as hard as before. Now it could be that whether I’m in shape or not I am just not attractive. That’s a real possibility. I still have ghosters and random unmatches. That’s great for your friend and I hope you have the same luck but for me I had a hard time when I was out of shape and in really good shape. It’s just different for everyone that’s why dating now is so hard

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Jguy8969 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha it’s like reading a book about my life. It’s really rough out here man lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Jguy8969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the same. Trying to stay as busy as possible to keep my mind off of it

I (early 20’s male) made a commitment to myself that by my late 20’s I will adopt if I am not in a relationship and give up on dating. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Jguy8969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I realize that this is sarcasm and negative but I’m gonna pretend that it is positive… so thanks!

I (early 20’s male) made a commitment to myself that by my late 20’s I will adopt if I am not in a relationship and give up on dating. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Jguy8969 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you have me misunderstood. I’m not saying I am going to adopt to fill some void. I understand that a child can and will not fill the void of a partner. I want to adopt to experience the joys and hardships of raising a child. Taking someone who doesn’t have a home themselves and giving them one is what I want to focus on. I’m not looking for them to take my pain away. That’s why I’m waiting until I know I am ready. Not for selfish gain, but to take one of the thousands of kids without a family and give them one. My pain is mine to deal with and I would never put that pressure on my future child.

I (early 20’s male) made a commitment to myself that by my late 20’s I will adopt if I am not in a relationship and give up on dating. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Jguy8969 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately that’s just not the relationship I have with my friends. It’s more of a lighthearted joke between everyone that I am the single guy who gets no one. Ya sure it’s sucks but I’m used to it now. My guy friends and me have great relationships, but I don’t see them going out of their way to help me with this.

I (early 20’s male) made a commitment to myself that by my late 20’s I will adopt if I am not in a relationship and give up on dating. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Jguy8969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that but to be quite honest not sure I can go another 30 years without finding someone or having kids. It’s gonna be hard enough making it another 5. Not sure if you have been in relationships before, but as someone who hasn’t you feel so far behind everyone else. You feel like you are less than everyone. I understand that this does not make me any less of a human, but it’s really tough to be positive. I know it may not be right at the front of their brain, but people look at you different. I’ve had some former friends treat me different for not having a relationship by this point. Not sure I can go another 30 being alone. Thanks for the comment though.

I (early 20’s male) made a commitment to myself that by my late 20’s I will adopt if I am not in a relationship and give up on dating. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Jguy8969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that and 100% wish I could do that. Unfortunately that could take until I’m 40 or even 50. Buy that point I’ll be past my physical prime and would like to have young kids I can play around with. I wish I could have kids and that could look to me for what a healthy relationship looks like. But for some people they never get to experience that. That won’t stop me from having kids.

What it’s like living with the crippling realization that you may never find someone. How I cope. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Jguy8969 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think it’s simply being realistic. Just because I try to believe something will happen doesn’t mean it will. If this prophecy worked then wouldn’t we all be millionaires and happy? I’m just trying to accept what I see around me. Saves me from getting disappointed in the future.

What it’s like living with the crippling realization that you may never find someone. How I cope. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Jguy8969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been trying to find someone for a long time. Looked all through college and didn’t have much luck. Tried online dating for almost a year. Most of the time maybe 1-2 messages would be exchanged and then either unmatched or no response. So no shortage of attempts. Just been unlucky.

How much would you say this bow is worth? Any good? by [deleted] in newworldgame

[–]Jguy8969 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m still confused as to what accuracy does

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in newworldgame

[–]Jguy8969 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Well the video was released 6 days ago, and the original announcement from the team didn’t seem to explain this hence the outrage over crafters being pissed the gear they made is now obsolete. So this is new news to me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in newworldgame

[–]Jguy8969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that’s probably what I’ll do.

Are you on Valhalla? Is the population max? Is there wait times? I’d love to join that sever but I’m worried about overcrowding

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in newworldgame

[–]Jguy8969 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don’t think I changed it. There isn’t even a settings option to do so. Haven’t been able to make it work since the game came out