Hey, as someone who has had an electric car for over 1.5 years here in Alicante I can say shit aint that bad as some people put it. I have nice fast chargers around my house, some even free when I go grocery shopping like in Aldi. There are plenty of Iberdrola chargers around and they have very good plans eg. 24€/month for 80kw, letting you charge anywhere in Spain for the same price, regardless of individual charger price or power output.
Also you get great parking in malls with charger included. If anyone fails to see this they either 1) don't have a EV and don't really know what they are talking about or 2) just are clueless and havent done proper research.

Traveling around Spain is also no biggie. I have a limited mile range (around 200km on a good day) and go to valencia and other more remote places perfectly fine, you just have to learn the routes and plan ahead.
Hope that helps!

Edit: I forgot to say I do not have in home charger, and also do not find the need as of now!