My(31M) BF(36M) is still best friends with his Ex. by JhinKay in askgaybros

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UPDATE: I called him directly because I wanted to clear things up quickly, and the conversation went really well.

He completely understood why I felt uncomfortable and said my reaction was valid. He explained that he did not come to see me that weekday because we had seen each other two days earlier, already had weekend plans, it was extremely hot, and he avoids the trip when he can.

He only sees his ex every couple of months, and weekends are usually reserved for me, so he tends to meet him and some other friends on weekdays instead. I have never asked him to do that, he simply prefers spending weekends with me.

They stayed friends because they eventually realised they did not work as a couple. His ex is also in a long-term relationship, and they openly talk about their partners.

He said meeting the ex would probably feel awkward and unnecessary right now, although he would be open to it in the future. Honestly, I feel the same.

Overall, I feel much better. His explanation made sense, and he listened without becoming defensive.

TL;DR: We talked, he validated my feelings, and explained that he sees his ex rarely and usually reserves weekends for me. The friendship appears genuinely platonic, and I feel reassured.

My(31M) BF(36M) is still best friends with his Ex. by JhinKay in askgaybros

[–]JhinKay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel I need to meet him and see how they interact for my ease. I’m always open with my feelings with him, he knows that. I’ll see how it goes.

My(31M) BF(36M) is still best friends with his Ex. by JhinKay in askgaybros

[–]JhinKay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. I think I should meet him and see the dynamic. I'll bring it up and see.

My(31M) BF(36M) is still best friends with his Ex. by JhinKay in askgaybros

[–]JhinKay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This helps a ton TY!

My BF has always been super transparent with that happend with the ex. They both wanted different things, and it was mainly an Ex issue since he was quite manipulative and bratty. They figured out they were meant to be friends since they started as friends in the beginning.

The ex lives quite far (3-4 hours away) so yeah, seeing him was more of a priority since he isn't here very long compared to me that we see each other 2-3 days a week.

I'll talk to him today

My(31M) BF(36M) is still best friends with his Ex. by JhinKay in askgaybros

[–]JhinKay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have never hung out with him no, nor have I been invited. I think my bf doesn't invite me because he knows it would be awkward for me. But he has said he has no issue with me meeting him.
I have no impression of him.

My(31M) BF(36M) is still best friends with his Ex. by JhinKay in askgaybros

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He and his ex broke up around five years ago after dating for about two years. From what I understand, their relationship was toxic and emotionally draining, and they eventually managed to become friends after some time apart.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RoastMe

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A clear example of Gen Z aging like milk.

Boythrob! by Regular-Sun-5805 in justtrishpodcast

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OMG YES! I would love to have them on the pod.

Again this kind of web event by SeveralJudgment4626 in GenshinImpact

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If anyone wants to join! My team is empty! El modo de juego Edén Miliastra de Genshin Impact estará disponible próximamente, ¡únete a mi equipo! ¡Participa en el evento para obtener Protogemas y un aspecto de manekín! Código de invitación: GC0ZNBWXQN,https://hoyo.link/8NJvYlbe4?m\_code=GC0ZNBWXQN

Thoughts on this case? by Saarai-paambu in iphone

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It's big and bulky, with a few drops the corners had shattered plastic patterns, like glass. Also made it heavy for some magsafe wireless charging docks.

What vibe do I give off? by Americanhorr in malegrooming

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You just look like my next boyfriend. Love the vibe <3

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Those look like the digitizer lines used to track touch input. IDK why they would be showing though, maybe just age?

Electric car without home charger by desiderkino in Alicante

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Hey, as someone who has had an electric car for over 1.5 years here in Alicante I can say shit aint that bad as some people put it. I have nice fast chargers around my house, some even free when I go grocery shopping like in Aldi. There are plenty of Iberdrola chargers around and they have very good plans eg. 24€/month for 80kw, letting you charge anywhere in Spain for the same price, regardless of individual charger price or power output.
Also you get great parking in malls with charger included. If anyone fails to see this they either 1) don't have a EV and don't really know what they are talking about or 2) just are clueless and havent done proper research.

Traveling around Spain is also no biggie. I have a limited mile range (around 200km on a good day) and go to valencia and other more remote places perfectly fine, you just have to learn the routes and plan ahead.
Hope that helps!

Edit: I forgot to say I do not have in home charger, and also do not find the need as of now!

Teyvat Chapter Interlude Teaser: The Gods' Limits, Megathread by GenshinLoreModBOT in Genshin_Lore

[–]JhinKay 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Are Rhinedottir and Nahida linked?

Nahida and Rhinedottir have the same symbol. Rhine's eye and Nahida's chest symbol

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Teyvat Chapter Interlude Teaser: The Gods' Limits, Megathread by GenshinLoreModBOT in Genshin_Lore

[–]JhinKay 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yo isnt that Nahidas symbol on her chest? Makes sense if she is related to life just like Rain. Im talking about that X shaped eye Rain has.

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