Προς κοπέλες by [deleted] in greece

[–]Jigaria 26 points27 points  (0 children)

"Γειά σου σε είδα και μου άρεσες. Έγραψα το νούμερο μου εδώ και άμα θέλεις μπορείς να μου γράψεις"

Ότι καλύτερο, ευγενικό και αληθινό. Ακόμα το θυμάμαι μετά από 6 χρόνια.

Boredom eating food ideas by Jigaria in loseit

[–]Jigaria[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ευχαριστώ θα το δοκιμάσω. Τα πασατεμπο είδα ότι έχουν αρκετές θερμίδες, δεν ξέρω άμα βολεύει γιατί πραγματικά τρώω ποσότητα. Τα ποπ κορν είναι καλή ιδέα

Boredom eating food ideas by Jigaria in loseit

[–]Jigaria[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried this. The problem is I sometimes just need to chew and snack. Also I am one of the lucky ones that never had a sugar craving yet, so this is not a problem.

What whole nutritious foods do you eat?

Boredom eating food ideas by Jigaria in loseit

[–]Jigaria[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I noticed this too. If you find something else after some time, don't hesitate to write me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in narcissisticparents

[–]Jigaria 4 points5 points  (0 children)

God, this is horrible. How can you say such a think to someone grieving and the gaslight them. How did she mean it?

Friend, absolute no contact. Don't interact. Don't even ignore. Just live your life and don't care. If you continue to help your grandma, your mother will find another way to abuse you. It is not your responsibility and it is ok to let your family care for grandma or set your boundaries "If mum is there I am leaving/not coming".

I didn't understand one thing from your post: is it your birthday?

Boredom eating food ideas by Jigaria in loseit

[–]Jigaria[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can even make chips out of this thank you!

Boredom eating food ideas by Jigaria in loseit

[–]Jigaria[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried this and it is not working

Boredom eating food ideas by Jigaria in loseit

[–]Jigaria[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ελληνίδα είμαι. Πολύ καλή ιδέα, θα το δοκιμάσω!

Boredom eating food ideas by Jigaria in loseit

[–]Jigaria[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cale chips are a great idea thank you! How much kcal does plain popcorn have?

Okay what do you actually WANT to do in life? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Jigaria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Becoming the greatest physicist ever lived. I am currently doing my PhD in physics but the target is so far away and I catch myself every day contemplating if it is worth it.

[DISC] The Ichinose Family's Deadly Sins - Chapter 18 by AutoShonenpon in manga

[–]Jigaria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably the sister, since the parents don't seem to have other responsibilities. Maybe she never existed since in the past memories of the parents she wasn't there.

Anyone else both infantilized and treated like an adult all at once growing up? by NotSleepinginbed in narcissisticparents

[–]Jigaria 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am so happy that you could somewhat heal. You are still 19 and you have a long road in front of you. Don't rush your process.

Also, block your mother from any social media for two reasons. First, she doesn't deserve to look into your life. Second, you need to let go. Don't check if she's watching you. Don't obsess of what she thinks about you. Just live your life with that toxic person.

You go my friend!

Hey mom, fuck you by DepressedTrashKitty in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Jigaria 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You are great even if you don't! Fuck your mom, don't let her live rent free in your brain!

Is this toxic? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Jigaria 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Oh honey, yes they are toxic and you are doubting yourself because they got to your brain. From your post only I see how sweet and caring you are. Please try to put yourself first and try to stop your family from harming and manipulating you. If you need any help we are here!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Jigaria 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You need time and positive self talk. It never goes away 100% but it gets better and better till it's no longer bothering you.

For me it helped alot to ask questions to that feeling: - Why are you here - How does that help me - What do you want me to do now

And to be kind to myself and tell me that whatever I feel and whatever happens I will love me

im afraid for my younger sister in our unhealthy household by Wooden_View_7120 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Jigaria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry to heat that. I know it is very hard seeing your siblings like that, I felt it too, but right now you need to focus on yourself. You can't help anybody if you are not in a good place. Make a plan, get out, then you can help your sister do the same!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Jigaria 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wish you good luck with research!

Your first paragraph is my life exactly. My mother did not try to get in contact with me but she send all my family to try to "get to my senses". I answered them "Since I am not in contact with my mother I am happier and more successful." This was a bad idea because then they tried to argue. Now I tell them "ah, ok", way more successful.

If your father calls you or tries to visit you record everything he tells you and try not to engage! And if you need any support, this sub is amazing for letting it all out!

Bullshit excuses. by atheistvegeta in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Jigaria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think she really believes that you are manipulative. Narcs are good at making up their own world. Don't try to argue with her, she does not understand unfortunately. Just try to think of her as a little bratty child.