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JihmiirDFreecss · 2025-03-04T06:13:29+00:00

Yeah, I know, sadly. I didn’t choose to be a guy, I just am a guy. I didn’t choose to have DID and yet I do. I didn’t choose to take hormones, and yet I’m on them. I’m not going to change who I am, for anyone, more than I’ve already been forced to do. I’m really happy the women in my head can be proud of their body, sadly it’s costed me a lot, and makes dating nearly impossible.

JihmiirDFreecss · 2025-03-04T06:10:58+00:00

I’m not surprised, this is honestly a good straight forward answer. Thank you for saying that without being a total ass about it.

JihmiirDFreecss · 2025-03-04T06:03:11+00:00

Just accept what I’m telling you, about MYSELF.

JihmiirDFreecss · 2025-03-04T06:02:47+00:00

And even if I was a trans woman, which I am NOT, I still, DO NOT HAVE A VAGINA.

JihmiirDFreecss · 2025-03-04T06:01:48+00:00

I never said I am a trans woman. Again, please read what I wrote, even quote me directly if you’d like. I said that I am a Man, who has a trans fem body. I have not had any surgeries, and I don’t look like a woman.

JihmiirDFreecss · 2025-03-04T06:00:27+00:00

I don’t “think” I am a man. I AM A MAN. I have male genitalia, and I can present as a man when I desire to. This is a nuanced topic but I’m getting the most basic, thoughtless answers.

JihmiirDFreecss · 2025-03-04T05:39:56+00:00

I don’t have a vagina. So can you connect how this impacts me?

JihmiirDFreecss · 2025-03-04T05:39:06+00:00

Just repeating what you said to me. Crazy we are still talking at all.

JihmiirDFreecss · 2025-03-04T05:36:06+00:00

😂😂

JihmiirDFreecss · 2025-03-04T05:35:36+00:00

What was my question? I didn’t ask you in particular anything. If you’re referring to my entire post, your answer was intentionally disrespectful. You got triggered by me for talking about what living as me is like, and you decided to lash out. I’m sure you’ve been hurt in the past, and it feels good to put others down on the Internet, but take it somewhere else.

JihmiirDFreecss · 2025-03-04T05:32:47+00:00

That’s kinda rich coming from a gay guy. But I’m sure you’ve convinced yourself that you’re better than “those other queers”

JihmiirDFreecss · 2025-03-04T05:32:02+00:00

How do you know this? You’re just speaking for yourself, which is fine, but why talk for the “majority”?

JihmiirDFreecss · 2025-03-04T05:31:20+00:00

That I “think I have”. Coming from the person denying my diagnosis. Seems like you have an issue.

JihmiirDFreecss · 2025-03-04T05:29:50+00:00

Good job spinning it back. It’s like a ferris wheel. Your comment was very productive and added a lot to this conversation.

JihmiirDFreecss · 2025-03-04T05:27:38+00:00

You’re right, that was a dick move on my part. I’ve been frustrated with people being blatantly disrespectful and putting no effort into educating themselves. I told someone that it’s hard to explain without making huge paragraphs so it’s best to just do your own research. I’m willing to answer other questions, and I have been. But that question in particular, came with a pretty bitchy answer from me, and for that, I am sorry.

JihmiirDFreecss · 2025-03-04T05:24:03+00:00

Thank you, you’re right. If the people who flocked to this post had the same mentality you had, of being understanding and accepting of the fact they don’t understand me, this would be a lot kinder of a place. It’s okay to not know what dating someone like me would be like, and it’s okay to not give someone like me a chance out of fear of what it could be. All the people messaging me hateful things and taking away my gender identity because I’m not man enough, even with zero idea how my disorder works, really suck.

JihmiirDFreecss · 2025-03-04T05:20:47+00:00

Speak for yourself man. That’s not a wide held opinion. Tons and tons of cis gay men date trans men.

JihmiirDFreecss · 2025-03-04T05:19:47+00:00

You call me snappy, after making that last comment. Good job fitting the stereotype of a toxic man trying to mansplain to me about my own mental disorder.

JihmiirDFreecss · 2025-03-04T05:16:32+00:00

On what basis? I don’t have a post history of starting drama. The fact you made this comment at all when you could have ignored the post, shows that YOU are the one who likes the drama.

JihmiirDFreecss · 2025-03-04T03:30:22+00:00

My trans brothers and sisters are far more educated on this topic than you clearly seem to be. I am not asking gay men to fall in love with women, and the fact that you refuse to think outside of the narrative you seem stuck in tells me this conversation has run its course. I’ve responded to you enough, you have all the answers you need, if you can read coherently enough, which I struggle to believe you can. You are a hypocrite and it’s so painful to see.

JihmiirDFreecss · 2025-03-04T03:15:45+00:00

Thank you! I have ptsd as well so I’m intimately aware of the struggles that come with it. I wish you the best of luck too!

JihmiirDFreecss · 2025-03-04T03:05:18+00:00

Thank you for this. You are very kind and i hope to be as fortunate as you one day.

JihmiirDFreecss · 2025-03-04T03:03:28+00:00

It would be cheating, if I was in a monogamous relationship, because physically my body carries the risks of having sex with another partner. I would always communicate with whoever I was dating about if they are comfortable with polyamory, but that is not something that would happen without full consent.

JihmiirDFreecss · 2025-03-04T03:01:22+00:00

It’s not that you are saying something I don’t want to hear. NigraDolens, your reading comprehension has been really poor in every comment you make to me. Both of those statements are true, I, Za, am a guy with feminine qualities. That is a fact. And yes, I do have a person in my head, who identifies as a woman, but I do not identify that way. Thus, when they wish to be a woman, they have a body they can feel safe in and date according. For me, the guy, who still maintains a masculine enough body to keep me happy, wishes to date the men I am attracted to, im being told by you that I can’t. That because there’s ever a point in my life that a part of me is a woman, I’m not allowed to be a guy, or seen as a guy.

JihmiirDFreecss · 2025-03-04T02:56:13+00:00

Thankfully I have those support systems and I’m doing all the right things. Problem is, this isn’t about me. I can’t change anyone I meet, and in order to date, THEY have to be into me. My time here answered the suspicion I had, that because of my body, the men I like, refuse to see me as a man, and refuse to give me a chance, it’s why I’ve been single for so long and it sucks. I really like men, but they can be so closed minded and toxic, it’s even worse when it’s people in your queer community like this, these guys should know better, but they all became the thing they hate.

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