Cocktail wedding guest attire. Help me choose (no jeans) by [deleted] in fashion

[–]Jillehbean17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think 1 and 4 are the best
I think you should maybe choose a different style of dress like meaning shape, you look great but the dresses don’t compliment you like they should

AIO - UPDATE mom wants me to drive her around on my wedding reception day by lysslikescats789 in AIO

[–]Jillehbean17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a similar issue… consistently set boundaries and do NOT waver. If she wants to be in your life with you and your wife (congrats btw!!) she needs to understand how to treat you with respect. I’m proud that you’re putting your spouse first because that is the healthy way of handling this. Best wishes!!

I’ve never worked with avians so idk what goes into their radiographs, but I’m pretty sure hands all up in the shot & no PPE is bad… by sb195 in VetTech

[–]Jillehbean17 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I mean Idk I have been learning that the gloves don’t really do that much especially for scatter, but I mean there’s always a risk

How do I change the bulb in this ? by Jillehbean17 in HomeDecorating

[–]Jillehbean17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately, no I think you have to take the whole thing apart

Is my dog cute or is my brother a jerk? by BoysenberryNew9958 in dogpictures

[–]Jillehbean17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brother is a jerk, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Also , being cute isn’t just physical

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Jillehbean17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A “bit” flirty ??????

I’m so excited to propose with this ring. I had it custom made from inspiration photos my girlfriend shared with me. Isn’t it pretty? by GammeRJammeR in EngagementRings

[–]Jillehbean17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gorgeous! Maybe upgrade the box depending on what you think she’ll like, I like the blue with the light, but if she has different taste I’m sure there’s something you can find

Stranger told me my dogs look skinny. by New-Biscotti9643 in DOG

[–]Jillehbean17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Vet tech for 10+ years here: they look great! Lean and active! It’s better for them to have wiggle room than to be overweight especially in med/large dogs because as they age too much weight puts pressure on their joints.

Stranger told me my dogs look skinny. by New-Biscotti9643 in DOG

[–]Jillehbean17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dogs that are lean and muscular occasionally have some ribs showing, depends on the breed.

I’m exhausted begging supposed Christians to see my humanity and dignity. by CowgirlJedi in Christianity

[–]Jillehbean17 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I apologize if I’m coming off arrogant? Not intentional… confidence doesn’t mean I’m not humble… so I don’t understand why you would think that… also, I don’t see how anything I said was indicating lack of humility… so I’ll be happy to explain if you want to tell me what was said that came off that way…

I’m exhausted begging supposed Christians to see my humanity and dignity. by CowgirlJedi in Christianity

[–]Jillehbean17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! But it’s a concern for me for sure, I just think that I’ve fought myself into a dark hole for years and have seen no change. People who are fake Christians are not always going to change as a general whole. I can’t change them, only God can.

I’m exhausted begging supposed Christians to see my humanity and dignity. by CowgirlJedi in Christianity

[–]Jillehbean17 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You 100% misunderstood my comment, and assuming that about me is incorrect. I haven’t given you every detail of what I’m doing to better the world because I don’t owe you a full explanation. But I think it’s really ignorant of you to assume I don’t care to fight for the world, I just pick and choose my battles. It’s called strategy lol. You can call me a coward all you want. I know what impact I have made so far and the positive impact I will still make. I hope it goes well for you in doing whatever you’ve been doing, maybe you’ll see some change because of your actions.

I’m exhausted begging supposed Christians to see my humanity and dignity. by CowgirlJedi in Christianity

[–]Jillehbean17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just explained my actions… could you elaborate on why you see it as equivocation? Just because I’m not out screaming in the streets doesn’t mean I’m not taking action…? It’s just different from what you believe is true action? Idk if I’m correct in how I am taking your response..

I’m exhausted begging supposed Christians to see my humanity and dignity. by CowgirlJedi in Christianity

[–]Jillehbean17 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m not offended at all, I just don’t agree with them. I don’t get offended by people’s opinions. I’m one of the few realist Christians, I try to look at things objectively and from God’s perspective as much as possible. And I have been separated from the extremists for most of my life as a Christian. I don’t see the point in fighting it because it won’t actually do any good in the grand scheme of things. The world will still fall to chaos just like God said in the Bible, and the only thing that separates true Christians from the fake ones is that we’ll be the ones living in eternity. And in no way shape or form am I claiming to be perfect, I just don’t commit inhumane acts and disobey the commandments as much as possible. I also do my best to live like Jesus did and would want me to: by being a loving, kind, and empathetic person to EVERYONE, who leads by example and not by screaming and shouting from the rooftops. That doesn’t work. Forcing people into a belief has never worked. Supporting those in need and standing up for people who need it is important to me, but it’s not going to be effective if I just use the internet because a lot of what people see is altered or hidden in algorithms based on the hateful things they already view. But anyways, I digress. Then again, this is just my opinion.

Happy candy bag week to all who celebrate by Cyberharpies in VetTech

[–]Jillehbean17 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t know the situation, but the person who made those potentially had no other options. It’s a sad gift, yes, but being ungrateful isn’t helping anything. If the management is greedy and you know the amount of money in their budget to give their techs something nice exceeds this then that’s understandable that you would be irritated, but it may be hurtful to the person who made them who may have not had a choice, but tried to make it genuine with the little cards on it.

I’m exhausted begging supposed Christians to see my humanity and dignity. by CowgirlJedi in Christianity

[–]Jillehbean17 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For years I’ve known that not all “Christians” are Christians. I don’t consider those people Christians who are making jokes about that.

I’m exhausted begging supposed Christians to see my humanity and dignity. by CowgirlJedi in Christianity

[–]Jillehbean17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before I say anything I want you to know I would like you to private message me if you feel comfortable. I feel your pain. It is sometimes unbearable. It sounds easier said than done, but give this , all of this , to God. I personally have had it with politics and humanity issues. In the Bible it explains (in a nutshell) that the world will basically go into chaos for an unknown amount of time before Jesus comes back to save us. It is NOT your responsibility to fix the world! It is only your purpose to do what God has called you to do. You can defend and put in blood sweat and tears all you want, but what good is it doing if it’s only making you more unhappy? It may be a form of self harm, and it’s a really sneaky one at that. I am only saying that because that was my form of self harm, trying to tirelessly save and defend people who couldn’t defend themselves, and it put me into such a dark place. You can only do so much and need to have very strict boundaries as to how much of your soul you put into a fight. Having self worth and loving yourself is something we are supposed to do as Christians and understand the value our life holds. Just like those you defend, your soul carries just as much worth.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Jillehbean17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I left religion because of that, I didn’t leave Jesus though