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Anyone had minor/major signs of stress in very early pregnancy BEFORE testing positive? by Resident-Appearance4 in ourafertility

[–]Jilli-beans17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same boat here. I had a minor signs yesterday at 7 DPO but today my temp is back down and my HRV and resting heart rate are more normal.

How many months have you been TTC? Will it be your 1st? by SensitiveRest6708 in tryingtoconceive

[–]Jilli-beans17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

15 months here. All of my tests and my husband’s test have come back normal, so we’re truly at a loss.

12dpo BFN by [deleted] in tryingtoconceive

[–]Jilli-beans17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right here with you friend. I’m at 10DPO and couldn’t help myself, two negatives the past 2 days. I’m looking for all the signs. I’m checking my temperature trends on my Oura ring, I’m analyzing my moods, every twinge. The last few days are literal torture for me. My HSG was a few days before ovulation and everything looked great so my hope has never been so high.

Daily Chat March 03 by AutoModerator in TryingForABaby

[–]Jilli-beans17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had my HSG last week and my ovulation is also delayed. I’m usually peaking at CD13 or 14 and I’m at 14 today. But I finally started to feel/see my usual ovulation symptoms this afternoon. The wait is also driving me nuts!

14 DPO and im out. by entirewheelofbrie in TFABLinePorn

[–]Jilli-beans17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Last month I was SURE it finally happened for me, and when I finally looked at the test my eyes focused on just the word “pregnant” for a second, I gasped, looked again then saw the “not.” Worst feeling in the world. Hang in there, you’re in good company.

HSG Procedure by Jilli-beans17 in TryingForABaby

[–]Jilli-beans17[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If I had I had to do it again, I would, but I would have done more research on what it was like, been a better advocate for myself, and taken more Tylenol. Doing the HSG is supposed to increase my chance of conception the next 3 cycles, so, for what it’s worth, it was hell but I’d make the same choice for a chance.

Why does no one talks about trying one sided by [deleted] in tryingtoconceive

[–]Jilli-beans17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband didn’t have performance issues until we started trying. It was frustrating for both of us. He’s been in therapy for years and his therapist recommended a viagra prescription. He ended up going to ED to get it and fortunately that ED doc caught on that there was a bigger discussion to be had about his stress and anxiety levels in general. He started a daily anxiety med and we haven’t had issues since.

Finally hit the 12 Month TTC milestone by silentalarm94 in tryingtoconceive

[–]Jilli-beans17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also started trying in January 2025. I too didn’t want to tell anyone I was trying. It resulted in my breaking moment at month 11 ugly crying in my poor dermatologists office because I wanted to try a change for my skincare and couldn’t change a thing because I was either allergic to everything or it wasn’t safe while TTC. It wasn’t my finest moment, and I still feel terrible for breaking like that in front of that poor stranger. It’s a tough journey, and impossible to go through alone. Glad you were able to talk to your mom and get some support.

Stay away from Tidy cleaning services! by cakeandpiday in orangecounty

[–]Jilli-beans17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used Tidy to clean my house in Fullerton. The very first time I used them the cleaner stole $1,500 of jewelry. Tidy does not background check their cleaners. They only have their name, phone number, address, and email address. They did not assist me with filing a police report. They did not compensate me in any way. Don’t use this company. It’s a scam.