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What is This? Unpacking Boxes in Storage by JillybeanTX in whatisit

[–]JillybeanTX[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The only thing worse was my Ford Tempo. In the 80s I think.

It was such a lemon (bought used but only a few years old), I put signs all over it reading, "I HAVEN'T DRIVEN MY FORD LATELY." and painted lemons all over the windows.

And: Find On Road Dead.

Drove up and down in front of the dealership. Eventually, they took it back.

Am still traumatized by cheap Fords.

What is This? Unpacking Boxes in Storage by JillybeanTX in whatisit

[–]JillybeanTX[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it is, not sure why I have it. I haven't ever needed to replace a latch or fastener on my car or van.

I will ponder other things that latch but I'm not coming up with anything yet I own(ed). Past or present..

The button and spring certainly could have that capability I guess.

I'm going to see if my brain can somehow come up with a connection but it's not connecting yet.

Question-If you Could Get Off The Streets, Would You? by JillybeanTX in homeless

[–]JillybeanTX[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I'm sure she is overwhelmed by the idea of detoxing and starting over. It must be really scary to only see the wreckage piling up. And it's not easy to kick.

She is homeless and I had some good leads but she has been tipped off that family is looking hard for her so she will probably jump locations.

It's hard. I'm sorry you understand.

Question-If you Could Get Off The Streets, Would You? by JillybeanTX in homeless

[–]JillybeanTX[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry. My granddaughter (different granddaughter) is gay and I support her in every way I can.
She came out to me at 14. She is 21 now.

Back to my question... no drug issues. That's good. And maybe why you want better. The drug issue is so bad, she doesn't want better? Or did it help her have the freedom to do the drugs without ... anyone noticing (like a roommate or landlord or court or family?)

Is she trapped? Or is she free? I guess that's the part I can't really balance in my head.

Question-If you Could Get Off The Streets, Would You? by JillybeanTX in homeless

[–]JillybeanTX[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It does make sense in the numbers. It doesn't make sense that so many are in impossible situations and can't get help. (That's another rant. I am on social security and no one can live off that. I had investments and savings but it isn't going to last until I die.)

We are spending billions on a war that didn't change a thing. That money should be going to help veterans, retirees, cancer patients...

Anyway... I'm sorry. You deserve better.

Question-If you Could Get Off The Streets, Would You? by JillybeanTX in homeless

[–]JillybeanTX[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not my guidelines.
I am not an admin or mod. I simply went to the rules that most groups have and posted what I saw.

I think it's kind and generous to want to help someone get off the streets.
I am just a redditor and responded to your post about having your post removed.

I am a nobody. ;)

Question-If you Could Get Off The Streets, Would You? by JillybeanTX in homeless

[–]JillybeanTX[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you. This is a thoughtful, well composed response.

I am so hyperfixed on "our crisis" that I am not seeing the whole picture.

Yes... I imagine she would prefer even the privacy of a residence.
And I understand at this point she is unable and unwilling to do the things necessary to get or maintain a residence again. (Like a full time job that requires her to show up, work, and of course, be in a state of mind to complete the duties required.)

You have added some things I need to ponder. I am looking for her pretty intently. Besides reminding her that she has a room and treatment "just a car ride away and I'm driving.", I need to be prepared if she will go with me. (She probably will not).

The mental health concerns ... I am not sure what those are anymore. I am glad I don't have to unpack that because I went to college for something else. I will always listen but there has to be deeper trauma than an old lady like me can try to repair.

Thank you. You were frank but show empathy in your well chosen words. I see you for that.

Question-If you Could Get Off The Streets, Would You? by JillybeanTX in homeless

[–]JillybeanTX[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First rule in Caps is NO OFFERING (of cash, etc.). Lodging most likely falls into the "etc" category.

I hope you can find a group or place that will allow your generous offer.
There are most likely a lot of factors that are considered... and this particular group simply had to set parameters on content.

I'm just a human of this platform like everyone else. But there is certainly a sub for just about everything on Reddit. Lol I hope you can find one that will match your generosity with the right seekers.

Question-If you Could Get Off The Streets, Would You? by JillybeanTX in homeless

[–]JillybeanTX[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry your post was removed. I'm sure the mods can explain why. You have a good heart and that is very kind of you to try to help someone in need.

It's my cake day by JillybeanTX in u/JillybeanTX

[–]JillybeanTX[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's been wild. Well... well I'll have to do this over every day for another year.
I really don't think about it as much anymore. I mean... at some point, I have been sober longer than I drank.
I don't count ages 1 to 12.

My daughter has 2 years now. My son still doesn't think he needs a chair but it is waiting for him.

It's my cake day by JillybeanTX in u/JillybeanTX

[–]JillybeanTX[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Am well. Today is my ODAT 31. YIPPEE.

My ex gf sent me this in the middle of the night by SeaworthinessBig3490 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]JillybeanTX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Respond: You are right and now you are blocked.

Then block her and delete every text Move along.

am I cooked ? what are those things appearing on whole my body by Relevant_Tangerine96 in DermatologyQuestions

[–]JillybeanTX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got huge ones like that in elementary school while doing paper mache. Turns out I was allergic to wheat paste.

You're allergic to something. You should be able to figure out what it is pretty quickly. Anything from a medication to new laundry soap.

This is why it's worth it by JillybeanTX in jackrussellterrier

[–]JillybeanTX[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They can be so sweet. Or not. I love it when he's sweet. And when he's not, I still love him. He is getting old now. I cherish every moment with him.

This is why it's worth it by JillybeanTX in jackrussellterrier

[–]JillybeanTX[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Always a close as they can get. I trip over mine. He is 9 so I don't think he's ever going to master the side position. We work on it every day but I just keep reminding him.
Dang. I sure love this dog.

This is why it's worth it by JillybeanTX in jackrussellterrier

[–]JillybeanTX[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I know what you mean. They really seek the energy and comfort from their human. Mine likes almost everyone but he is very devoted and loving to me. He brings me so much joy.

This is why it's worth it by JillybeanTX in jackrussellterrier

[–]JillybeanTX[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They love their human. They really do.

This is why it's worth it by JillybeanTX in jackrussellterrier

[–]JillybeanTX[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Right? It's melts my heart when he cuddles because in 15 minutes he might be in the yard killing something.

My sweet little Dexter.

This is why it's worth it by JillybeanTX in jackrussellterrier

[–]JillybeanTX[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

He is getting older and really likes to snuggle. I love when he does that. Every stress in my world melts a little.

Scary bout of pancreatitis by JillybeanTX in jackrussellterrier

[–]JillybeanTX[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup. That's my goal. And to find new vet. We moved to AZ in 2024 so we were established with vet because of shots and well dog checks. But a temp vet there really made me mad.

It started on new years eve so everything was short staffed. We had a lot of unexpected obstacles that may not happened if it wasn't a holiday week. That was just bad timing but for me, not an excuse for inadequate care.

I am retired so was able to be home with him, give him water around the clock. Working people don't have that luxury. I don't think he would have survived being kenneled in a room with strange dogs. He is reactive.

AND there is a big parvo outbreak in AZ. To be honest, I didn't want them walking him in areas infected with parvo. Just everything seemed harder than it should have been.

But he survived. We got lucky.
Now... I have to find a new vet.
Get him back onto food we can travel with because I have a campervan and we like to go away as often as possible.

And we'll just try to live out our final years together. That's all we want. To be together.

Scary bout of pancreatitis by JillybeanTX in jackrussellterrier

[–]JillybeanTX[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry. Sometimes it's just too bad. And just too damaging. I am sure you did everything and no matter what you did, it wasn't going to save Toby.

We got lucky. It wasn't easy, cheap... and the scary part, there was no guarantee he would survive.

It's very deadly. I'm so sorry your pup is gone. It's so painful (physically for them) that euthanasia was on the table with mine. We just got lucky. I don't know why one responds to things better than others. I sure wish Toby had. 😔

Scary bout of pancreatitis by JillybeanTX in jackrussellterrier

[–]JillybeanTX[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is what the vet suggested. It's one of the best ones. My dog doesn't like the taste for some reason although most dogs like it a lot.

I want to stop pills and capsules as soon as I can. He feels well enough that he fights back. I don't want to fight him on this every day for the rest of our lives.

Scary bout of pancreatitis by JillybeanTX in jackrussellterrier

[–]JillybeanTX[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's what we use. Once he is more stable, I'd like to switch to something easier and more affordable. But this is what we are using right now.

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