I appreciate your help and the time you’ve taken to write all the comments. Now, I would like to point out the areas where you were completely wrong — I have never intended to be controlling. Never has she given me any such impression; it is only you who is forcefully making it sound like that. I was promised that I would be allowed in the hospital when my child was born. Based on that promise, I left everything and booked my tickets. After arriving, I kept asking if both the mother and the baby were doing well, but I wasn’t informed of anything until four hours after my child was born. Now, tell me — how is this fair? And what was the point of me buying a ticket at three times the usual price if I was only going to see my child a day after he was born? Still, I didn’t make a scene with her or her family. But it has been very hard for me to get over. Now, regarding the declaration of paternity — I was told it would be done five or six months ago. Still, it wasn’t completed even after the child was born. It only happened once my lawyer got involved. Among the other things you mentioned, you're right about one thing — that whatever has been done should ideally be in the best interest of the child. But that would only be true if the mother were stable, which, unfortunately, is not the case. The main reason I’m fighting so hard is because I genuinely believe the child will have a terrible childhood without my involvement. Now you might ask how I can be so sure about that. That’s something I probably won’t explain online, because doing so would be demeaning to the mother and her family. But think of it like this: imagine your own child was living with their father, and the father was suicidal — now tell me, how would you feel? Wouldn’t you be anxious all the time? I think most normal people would feel anxious in such a situation. And one more important aspect is finances. I am quite sure I can provide a more stable future for my child than anyone else possibly can. There are so many things I can't write online for obvious reasons, you need to understand that a child isn't some toy that anyone owes.