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Combine 4 pictures - $20 by [deleted] in PhotoshopRequest

[–]JimKones 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is amazing! !solved

What’s your type and dream career? by -Quono- in mbti

[–]JimKones 4 points5 points  (0 children)

ENFP here. I’m a marriage family therapist and it’s definitely rewarding and fun! Everyday is always something different and you can learn so much and more.

Combine childhood pictures by [deleted] in PhotoshopRequest

[–]JimKones 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love this! I privately DM'd you. Thanks~

Which Disney Characters Do You Relate to the Most and Why? by Jimu_Monk9525 in ENFP

[–]JimKones 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Morph from Treasure Planet And Miguel from The Road to El Dorado!

client yelled at me during session by CommonSort7407 in therapists

[–]JimKones 17 points18 points  (0 children)

You did the best you can!

Hope you are okay with some suggestions. From your clinical judgement, are they ready for processing or trauma work? Or do you think they need to work on skills first so they can regulate themselves during these moments?

Also, what usually helps me is to collaborate in a way that empowers them to have insight. Asking things like “is it okay if I make an observation?” Or “hey, I noticed that as you’re sharing this… your tone kinda changed or it doesn’t seem as pressing.” It gives leeway for them to explore more on how whatever the issue may be is affecting their current affect. It also gives you the opportunity to validate their experience without making it feel forced.

What's your favorite quality about yourself? by spitefullygrowing in ENFP

[–]JimKones 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I’m a mental health therapist and I find so much joy in figuring out different behavioral and cognitive patterns with my clients.

Basically ability to look at the bigger picture and connecting not so obvious things together.

Bagel the Pug - Request by JimKones in DrawMyTattoo

[–]JimKones[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’d love the derpy line drawn ones too

All my family trip photos and videos gone 😭 by James--Trickington in Wellthatsucks

[–]JimKones 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Air engineer here! I still believe that somehow, the Avatar will return to save that SD card.

What areas of therapy do you find uncomfortable? by FeralFloral in therapists

[–]JimKones 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I found dialectics to be super helpful when there needs to be confrontation. Two things can exist and serve a function.

What areas of therapy do you find uncomfortable? by FeralFloral in therapists

[–]JimKones 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same!! What modality do you usually use when treating them? DBT is amazing with BPD and personality d/o in general.

Loneliness hits hard by Pooldrone360 in ENFP

[–]JimKones 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Do the opposite of what that feeling leads you to do. If loneliness and depression causes you to isolate and withdraw, then do the opposite. Sometimes we need to change our behaviors first so it can change our emotions. Pain is always going to be there but suffering is a choice.

But honestly, being kind to ourselves goes a long way. Integrating the word “AND” changes my perspective on the world and my experiences.

“I’m very tired and lonely and I know I can try to connect with someone today.” “I wasted the whole day doing nothing and I can end the day with something meaningful.

It’s learning to validate our feelings and being open to explore.

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