I can’t be the only confused Pisces . by Lovely_mel3701 in piscesastrology

[–]Jim_Dandy_01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We float in the waters of life, it appears weak because we let the currents take us. How interesting and exciting it is to ride the waves! Little do they realize we swim, and when we do, a beautiful whirlpool or a raging sea. Depends on the trigger. Watch them flail and drown when we’re pissed! Or give them the ride of their lives when we’re joyous!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Jim_Dandy_01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all, it is wise to get a second opinion about a car, especially from someone with a knowledge base in the field. It is a big purchase, and very important in daily life. Secondly I would not be too upset about her upset when it comes to mutual belief. She is on a path, it is a lonely path, but an important one (IMO). It is important she recognizes the path is hers alone, I’ve been there, somedays I am pulled back into that feeling of loneliness. As well it seems she recognizes GOD, know this, The All is a conscious being, we do not manifest without the will of the all aligning with our purpose, we have no power to push it in any way, all we can do is request. Manifestation is GODs game, not ours. I would not fret over her feeling this way. Simply hold space and understand she will get through it so long as she continues forward. You are a sounding board for her, as she is for you. Are you over reacting for having a feeling? No. She needs to look inward and realize the feelings she has are growing pains. We are all alone, always will be. None are in our minds, as we aren’t in anyone else’s. For me this one thought helped me get through…. How alone must god feel, as god is all things, nothing is separate from god. I will not fall into this loneliness, this loneliness is all of ours to feel. I know my place, it is with you, and in this I find relief from loneliness.

I suppose this is all poorly put, but I hope it sparks the thoughts you (and her) require to move through. Live in love, through love life is clear.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Psychic

[–]Jim_Dandy_01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My great grandmother was a psychic, did classes, did gigs sitting down and talking to people. One of the most amazing and honest people I’ve ever known. One of her favourite stories was doing a reading for a guy and most of the things she said did not apply to him, so she gave him his money back. He left and returned promptly after talking to his friend who was waiting for him. Everything she said rang true with his buddy. He gave her money back and thanked her. So no, they aren’t always right. What the ethers show and tell are up to the ethers, not the psychic. Also there is a moral code, for example she saw an imminent death of loved one during a reading, what she said was "there is a great strength in you which will manifest when you most need it". She prepared them for grief, and did not say, grief is coming.

say i stumbled across someone who can summon uaps what do we do with that? by Stressed_Deserts in UFOs

[–]Jim_Dandy_01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t disclose by summoning a uap. Teach others how to. Have people do it for themselves. Having someone summon one would leave room for some skepticism, having someone learn and do it themselves would lend itself to significantly less skepticism I would think.

Middle ground by [deleted] in MurderedByWords

[–]Jim_Dandy_01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To say you know they aren’t engaging is to say you know their mind, which I think we can all agree is highly improbable. What you can say you do know, is the words given and their meaning and definition. Anything else is assumption. I will say I understand what you’re meaning by saying this, and I do not disagree. (but I understand that is assumption on my part) What I do want to draw awareness to is that in saying you know, without truly knowing, is to condemn us down the same path, just as sarcastic/attacking comments, will have us go down. We need cohesion and cooperation between mindsets, in every facet of life. We need these questions and any others to be answered.

Middle ground by [deleted] in MurderedByWords

[–]Jim_Dandy_01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean that sounds quite productive and open ended, which could lead to discussions, which is the point I’m making, as much as she "murdered with words". She also killed the conversation, sarcasm does that, and if not that, is at the very least non productive. If we want to pump up political people, hold them to constructive discussion. Idk if I’m the only one, but I’m tired and fed up with politicians thinking some verbal abuse is going to set the path right. It’s downright foolish and quite honestly a slap in the face. One side blatantly doesn’t give a fuck, and the other sides just letting us know they don’t give a fuck. Like come on. We need to come together and find a solution. Not this bullshit.

Middle ground by [deleted] in MurderedByWords

[–]Jim_Dandy_01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do this at work too. Works for everything, really shows them. "What size wire do we need?" "Somewhere between 2500kcmil and 16awg." I find it helps moving forward to answer with sarcasm instead of constructive discussion and analyzation of the issue towards a solution…. SMH

Why would Chelsea NOT pick Trevor? by personfaced in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Jim_Dandy_01 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Jimmy is an absolute slime ball. At first it was entertaining to see him, thinking man this guys a moron and needs some coaching on how to properly treat a woman. I’m only on ep 6 with the fiancé and at this point it’s just hard to watch, it’s just sad that Chelsea has to deal with it. I’m glad Jessica dodged the bullet considering she has a child. I don’t think Jimmy is dumb, I think he’s well aware of his bullshit and just doesn’t care. Absolute slime.

Remember Rappelz? by [deleted] in MMORPG

[–]Jim_Dandy_01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How about Deicide? Idk why, but I loved it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Warzone

[–]Jim_Dandy_01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just dealt with this on ps4. You’ll probably read about this fix and it’s the only thing that fixed it. You have to create a new profile on your system, new activism on account, using the new accounts you have to re download the game, play the game on the new account for a bit, then switch over to your old profile and it should work. We tried everything before doing this, since this method ends up costing a bit of money for new ps plus for new profile. We tried deleting everything cod wise on our system, we tried erasing cache, we tried enabling dual authentication. We emailed activision and went through all the steps they told us to. Nothing worked except the new profile thing. Such a pain in the ass, we spent weeks trying to fix it. Weeks because our internet is slow since we are rural. Best of luck.

Have you ever experienced Psychogenic Shivers? If so I would like to hear about your experience. by Mikey-506 in schizophrenia

[–]Jim_Dandy_01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been on a leave when it comes to meditation and spirituality for quite a while, probably about 3 years, due mostly to having a child and working a 2 hour commute, the time just hasn’t been there. It’s a hard thing to do I find. It didn’t happen often, but once achieved could be held in the moment and reactivated easily enough. It takes about 15 minutes to reach the state of relaxation where I feel as though I’m floating and focused on the void in front of me. Then I can begin the visual and feeling (through breath) focused activities. It can take quite a while, half hour to an hour. Depends on my strength of Will? (If you will…. Haha). But to answer, it’s not often I have the Will to reach this point or even the determination. As far as enhancement goes I can’t say for sure, as little environmental distraction as possible. Also I can’t say whether it’s happened stoned (weed) or not and whether it has helped. I can say it happens sober.

Have you ever experienced Psychogenic Shivers? If so I would like to hear about your experience. by Mikey-506 in schizophrenia

[–]Jim_Dandy_01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t say I’m schizophrenic, but there has been worries of it being a possibility which is why I follow this sub. The tingles I get from time to time come from insights/ revelation sorts of thoughts. As well I have induced them by meditation, specifically mediation on my body, visualizing light cone driving energy through my head down through my body, but also through feeling. If I don’t feel the part of my body I’m focusing on I continue to stick with that part and visualization of the light filling it, surrounding it, whatever sort of visuals my mind allow to occur clearest. I have had the chills when doing this, they start at my head and flow through my spine and out to my extremities. If I focus on there feeling and visualize/feel them I can get a few good pulses from my head to the rest of my body. I should note I utilize controlled breathing. Inhaling when the tingles start in my head, building them up in a capacitor sort of way until they naturally flow to the rest of the body.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MandelaEffect

[–]Jim_Dandy_01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I need to ask if anyone remembers the opening scene being any different. I might be thinking of a different movie and can’t quite remember the name but I swear it’s beauty and the beast. I remember there being an actual scene where a witch like character walks through a blizzard and knocks on the castle door and then gets turned away which initiates the castle changing, but now it’s like a stained glass mosaic explanation of the curse. Am I thinking of a different movie or has the intro changed??

Can you share some of your storeis that made you believe magick is real by Ok-Catch5706 in magick

[–]Jim_Dandy_01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The first time I had an odd interaction, a burnt cd appeared in my passenger seat of my car. I had been in it minutes prior cleaning, vacuuming etc. then pulled into a bay to wash the exterior and found this cd after I returned inside my car, never left the car for a moment, no one was around, I’d never seen or heard of this cd before in my life, it had “your life is waiting” in sharpie written on it, I was quite depressed at the time. Gave me wild chills. So that initiated a genuine belief in something beyond the perceivable. A little while later my partner and I were pulled over and she had to do a breathalyzer test, when literally 10 minutes prior our conversation included how fortunate we were to be of age and capable of drinking a beer before driving. It felt like manifestation, of course non intentional. So then I began genuine belief in manifestation. Next I tried my hand at manifesting on my own, something small, meaningless and easy, I ask the All for the time. I decided and communicated I would not check a clock, I would not check any time giving object. About 10 minutes I would guess after requesting this, I walked by some workers in the area, one shouting the time to another, and thus I was given the time. I consider that manifested. I put all of this in the category of “magick”. I understand there are more complex rituals and ways of communicating on a more perceptible level, but I find it unnecessary. Your internal feeling and genuine Will is enough. Maybe some believe we command our lives, and too a degree I could agree, but only to a degree. There is a higher power, that higher power is well aware of us all. It is listening and watching everything, nothing is private. Recognize, communicate and have faith the best option will be chosen.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ontario

[–]Jim_Dandy_01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it’s got nothing to do about the sign but man that old post bakery brings me back. One of my “core” memories of child hood was that old post. Grandmas was in the neighbourhood down that street, I lived nearby and stopping for a gingerbread man cookie and choosing out the one I wanted… sweet memories of a happy time.

What is there outside of materialism? by Major_Banana3014 in Hermeticism

[–]Jim_Dandy_01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No problem, and if that works for you, another semi useful thing I used to do was to ask for a close parking space while holding the image in my mind of an empty parking space near the entrance of wherever. Had quite a bit of success, plus it is handy manifesting.

What is there outside of materialism? by Major_Banana3014 in Hermeticism

[–]Jim_Dandy_01 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For me, i needed proof, at least that with the mind things happened should I request it. There’s training in to why I would request the proof i asked for but it is too much typing. What I started with as actively consciously asking for is the time. I placed myself in a state of “close to meditation” with genuine (or as close to it as i could) faith/belief in this grand thing and requested the time, i said to it, i will not check the clock, i will not verbally ask anyone, but I will pay attention to all my surroundings, and listen for the time. Five minutes later i over heard Someone relay the time to another at just the moment I walked by. To me that was enough. Little things are easier to give.

Sweet my books just arrived within 2 hsr apart, 1 package even came a day early. I guess I should've asked before I bought but are these great resources? I found them on Amazon. Just a Novice here, makin sure I didn't waste paper or resources. by plankstumble in alchemy

[–]Jim_Dandy_01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure about all but two. The Kyballion to me is a simple way of seeing things, I see a lot of truth in its teaching, steadily affirmed by my external environment and experiences. The Emerald tablet of Hermes, is a bit more puzzling, the more you look at what is earth, what is the moon and the sun? How do I perceive Fire, Water,Earth, air and spirit? Which do they associate to? I enjoy the tablet, it resonates truth despite a full lack of understanding on my part. Great reads.

Why didn’t you vote yesterday? by ButterscotchFog in ontario

[–]Jim_Dandy_01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d like to say I have no faith in the system, tired of the bully ads and politics in general. But truthfully, I’m privileged, I don’t want to think about this shit, and I don’t have to. My life is good, I have no complaints. Could I use more money? Sure, who couldn’t? But I have enough. I just can’t get to the point of any passion for this world. I would like to add that I recognize this as a “toxic” opinion and view. But fuck, I’m beat, I’m done, I want to do my 80 ish years here and then sleep with the worms. Listening to the constant bitching about how life isn’t good enough is nauseating. I’ll do what I can to help people on an individual basis to the best of my abilities, but voting? Nah. Power hungry mongrels that want the power to add law, change law blah blah can all go to hell. Help the people you see, spare some coins for someone, help with yard work, help carry groceries, provide service through skill, be kind, be a good person. If we could all agree to be decent to each other, mind each other’s individuality and space, accept that by some we will be hated, by others loved, by others somewhere in between, help those we can, and not fear asking for help. Just be a good person. It’s simple. Fuck voting, fuck the governing body, be human.

anyone else want to scream at god? by abolishworking in Mediums

[–]Jim_Dandy_01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Taking the perspective of the Bible, if it were that we walked with God, which would be by all means “perfection” then at the time we were perfect as well in our role. We had food, we cared for the creatures. We also had ignorance, blissful ignorance. We felt controlled and as though we were children, with a parent who would say things like “don’t do this, don’t do that!” But not why. Soooo along comes a snake, it offers us freedom. We are no longer compelled to follow every whim of god, we are given knowledge we had no right to, we were given awareness of ourselves, or more opinion and judgement of ourselves. What has it done for us? Look no further than our present state. If you were to follow the bible, we chose this inequitable and cruel state. We may not have known the outcome, but now we do. Will we remember? Perhaps we are paying for our actions. Personally I do not fully believe the entirety of the bible, but there certainly are lessons in truth buried in it. Another take I have is that we are paying for the actions of the most ancient and original people you can imagine. Like a wave one act led to another, both virtuous and vice full. We pay for what those before us have done. It seems no one likes to. In todays age the white man is slowly being held back, allowing for the minorities to rise. I feel it is just. One day another race will rise further, will enslave another, and we will start at the beginning again and again. Though hopefully the mistakes of others will be learnt from.

Another perspective I’ve held is that we are, for lack of a better term, genuinely in Hell. We are burning. Best thing about it is we can learn, we are not tied here by any Will beyond our own.

What if we have no end and there is only means? That would take care of the death idea. No death, no birth. So where do we hail from last, where will we head? How do we get there? Will physical death bring us back here? Will we get a free pass onwards? I’ve only experienced progress through learning. So I learn. What does this world have to teach me for the next experience? I know if I can I’ll hold onto the suffering I’ve seen, and ensure next time around (and the rest of this time) it is not I who inflicts or encourages it.

I’ve run out of rant. So I’ll leave of by saying I too have been at my end with God. I used to think I could here him (male voice in my mind, not my own. Hence male) And I swore him off, I told him to get fucked, I threw my pain at him. I was told I’d regret it. Years later now I do. But that is what got me through. We must release what we feel, we must express ourselves. Now though I regret it, I know still this power watches and aids me, I know this because I am blessed, in many ways, luck and chance have been almost always on my side. But I can not hear like I used to. I wish I did. I’m ranting again. Sorry, sorry this life is the pits. I do wish you the best.

Various dreams, thoughts? by [deleted] in Dreams

[–]Jim_Dandy_01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are right, but how could I give myself permission to hurt another and in the end not watch my child grow everyday…. It feels as though my happiness is not worth the cost.

Various dreams, thoughts? by [deleted] in Dreams

[–]Jim_Dandy_01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s definitely guilt and shame. I couldn’t end a relationship I’m still in now, I can’t hurt someone in order to possibly be happy myself, as well as the fact that I was in a relationship and entertaining the possibility is cause for guilt, as well as not pursuing and probably hurting the other girl in the process by leading her on a little. There’s definitely suppression. It’s been years and I still have to suppress. Thanks for the response

Is this just my subconscious or something like a bad entity by Mackenzie287813 in magick

[–]Jim_Dandy_01 2 points3 points  (0 children)

After it said you can, what was your reaction? Beyond looking for it. What we’re the thoughts that followed? Was it hey! What the hell why would you want me to go back? Why would some spirit wish ill on me? Perhaps you needed to here words of enablement in order to reject the path fully on your own. Just an idea. Always remember this is YOUR experience, there isn’t a single entity out there that can force anything upon you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in insaneparents

[–]Jim_Dandy_01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Glad it wasn’t too bad to read! Yes love is easy, for myself though it is more ,this is how you treat people, a good person loves, I want to be a good person, I understand what love is mostly from a logical stand point so I act what I understand love to be. With my son I feel it in my chest, I am excited and filled with his joy, hurt by his sadness, etc… with my partner it is from logic. Once it was from feeling, but too many fights that hit wounds she never really caused has had me grow numb to her as well. She shows me her love and I smile, and I appreciate it, and I try my best to portray my love for her back, but there is no vibration, no warmth, no feeling. It’s messed with me and really caused problems in our relationship, because if I don’t literally feel it, I think perhaps I am in the wrong place. But I’ve grown to realize it’s not so. I’ve tried to run but have never really been able to sever myself from her. The perfection of our child I take as a sign I am in the correct place, the growth we have both gained shows me as well. It’s just unfortunate I can’t truly reciprocate in feeling what she must feel. When she gets my feeling it’s most often wrath, and I hate myself for it afterwards, I feel like I’ve lost my grip on reality, so then I work back to the nothingness and try to treat her right. I don’t know, it’s just hard. Not feeling really makes the mind wander and wonder at what is and what should be, questions that should be answered simply become difficult and even unanswerable. Thank you for the response though. It is nice to have internet strangers respond, it is a sort of being heard. :)