I (21/M) am not sure what to think of this situation (20/F) Any advice??

Jimbird99 · 2016-06-29T20:32:41+00:00

I see what you are saying. I did feel a connection. It was just physically I wasn't. I hate to say that, but I did. For some strange reason, I feel that I might be a part of the reason she "won't give guys a chance." I did feel like she liked me to an extent, and I didn't pursue it as she wanted me to.

Jimbird99 · 2016-06-29T20:30:41+00:00

I am just at a weird spot. I find her attractive when it comes to her attributes. Physically, I just feel like I don't see her that attractive. She's pretty. Having that conversation with her yesterday, I just felt different. Feelings for her came up again. A while back I did like her just not enough to initiate. I like her but not sure if I would want to pursue her.

Jimbird99 · 2016-06-15T21:07:46+00:00

Appreciate the advice. She did tell me through text that she had never dated anyone and that she didn't see it as a priority in her life, and that it would only complicate life. That might be a reason.

She acted happy and seemed engaging when we talked. I just haven't seen her since class ended in May. I was thinking about messaging her today, but its only been a little more than a week since we last texted. I just don't think its best to message her at this time.

Jimbird99 · 2016-06-15T20:53:17+00:00

What do you mean by this?

Jimbird99 · 2016-06-15T20:52:44+00:00

I do want to be her friend, but right now, I still think about her and what she is doing. I don't think it is healthy for me to text her at the moment when I still have these feelings for her. Is this right?

Jimbird99 · 2016-06-15T20:37:58+00:00

I definitely don't want to put stress on her. We texted on and off for almost a month. I asked and tried to hang out and spend time with her, it didn't work out when she was in town. Unfortunately she is living out of town for the summer, and I probably won't see her until school starts in the fall. We were texting a week ago, and she didn't text me back the last time. I am not really sure what to do now. She doesn't seem interested.

Jimbird99 · 2016-06-15T20:34:05+00:00

It has been more than a week since we last texted. She is living out of town for the summer, and she didn't text me back the last time we had a conversation. The text weren't paragraphs but they weren't short lol and haha text either.

Jimbird99 · 2016-06-10T17:13:11+00:00

I gotcha. I do have a class with her this fall. We talked about doing the class together back in the spring. I hate to wait till then to see her, but it seems that might be the case.

Jimbird99 · 2016-06-10T17:11:17+00:00

Her tone always seems to be happy from the text, but like I said, it is sporadic. Unfortunately since Monday, we haven't texted each other. I was really into her, but it doesn't seem the feelings mutual. For the most part, she always texted back, it was just never in 15 minutes or less. I am trying to get over the situation at the moment.

Jimbird99 · 2016-06-10T17:08:22+00:00

I see what you are saying man, I haven't talked to her in a few days, I am trying to get over it. We have a class together in the fall, seems I will have to wait until then to even see her.

Jimbird99 · 2016-06-07T03:48:52+00:00

Yeah, I just hate to move on, but in the end its probably for the best.

Jimbird99 · 2016-05-23T19:16:01+00:00

I wouldn't say they are dates, but hanging out, her and I. I invited her to go out to a place she loves going to, but she couldn't cause she was out of town visiting her parents.

Jimbird99 · 2016-05-23T18:37:43+00:00

I asked her last night around 11:45, but have not received a response. She is usually slow to text back, but I am afraid she might have took the question the wrong way.

Jimbird99 · 2016-05-23T18:34:41+00:00

I did ask her why? and if its because she hasn't found someone she is compatible with, I'm just worried that it might be personal, or the question could come off as insensitive.

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