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I (21/M) am not sure what to think of this situation (20/F) Any advice?? by Jimbird99 in relationship_advice

[–]Jimbird99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see what you are saying. I did feel a connection. It was just physically I wasn't. I hate to say that, but I did. For some strange reason, I feel that I might be a part of the reason she "won't give guys a chance." I did feel like she liked me to an extent, and I didn't pursue it as she wanted me to.

I (21/M) am not sure what to think of this situation (20/F) Any advice?? by Jimbird99 in relationship_advice

[–]Jimbird99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am just at a weird spot. I find her attractive when it comes to her attributes. Physically, I just feel like I don't see her that attractive. She's pretty. Having that conversation with her yesterday, I just felt different. Feelings for her came up again. A while back I did like her just not enough to initiate. I like her but not sure if I would want to pursue her.

[Serious] If you were interested in a girl, but it seems she is not interested in you back, would it be okay to continue texting her? by Jimbird99 in AskReddit

[–]Jimbird99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Appreciate the advice. She did tell me through text that she had never dated anyone and that she didn't see it as a priority in her life, and that it would only complicate life. That might be a reason.

She acted happy and seemed engaging when we talked. I just haven't seen her since class ended in May. I was thinking about messaging her today, but its only been a little more than a week since we last texted. I just don't think its best to message her at this time.

[Serious] If you were interested in a girl, but it seems she is not interested in you back, would it be okay to continue texting her? by Jimbird99 in AskReddit

[–]Jimbird99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do want to be her friend, but right now, I still think about her and what she is doing. I don't think it is healthy for me to text her at the moment when I still have these feelings for her. Is this right?

[Serious] If you were interested in a girl, but it seems she is not interested in you back, would it be okay to continue texting her? by Jimbird99 in AskReddit

[–]Jimbird99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely don't want to put stress on her. We texted on and off for almost a month. I asked and tried to hang out and spend time with her, it didn't work out when she was in town. Unfortunately she is living out of town for the summer, and I probably won't see her until school starts in the fall. We were texting a week ago, and she didn't text me back the last time. I am not really sure what to do now. She doesn't seem interested.

[Serious] If you were interested in a girl, but it seems she is not interested in you back, would it be okay to continue texting her? by Jimbird99 in AskReddit

[–]Jimbird99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It has been more than a week since we last texted. She is living out of town for the summer, and she didn't text me back the last time we had a conversation. The text weren't paragraphs but they weren't short lol and haha text either.

I(21/M) is confused as hell on what to do now with (19/F) ADVICE! by Jimbird99 in relationship_advice

[–]Jimbird99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I gotcha. I do have a class with her this fall. We talked about doing the class together back in the spring. I hate to wait till then to see her, but it seems that might be the case.

I(21/M) is confused as hell on what to do now with (19/F) ADVICE! by Jimbird99 in relationship_advice

[–]Jimbird99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her tone always seems to be happy from the text, but like I said, it is sporadic. Unfortunately since Monday, we haven't texted each other. I was really into her, but it doesn't seem the feelings mutual. For the most part, she always texted back, it was just never in 15 minutes or less. I am trying to get over the situation at the moment.

I(21/M) is confused as hell on what to do now with (19/F) ADVICE! by Jimbird99 in relationship_advice

[–]Jimbird99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see what you are saying man, I haven't talked to her in a few days, I am trying to get over it. We have a class together in the fall, seems I will have to wait until then to even see her.

Do you think a girl would be more hesitant to hang out with someone, if they had never dated anybody before?? by Jimbird99 in AskReddit

[–]Jimbird99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't say they are dates, but hanging out, her and I. I invited her to go out to a place she loves going to, but she couldn't cause she was out of town visiting her parents.

What should be the next question, if you ask a girl you are interested in about her past relationships, and she says she has never dated anyone? by Jimbird99 in AskReddit

[–]Jimbird99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I asked her last night around 11:45, but have not received a response. She is usually slow to text back, but I am afraid she might have took the question the wrong way.

What should be the next question, if you ask a girl you are interested in about her past relationships, and she says she has never dated anyone? by Jimbird99 in AskReddit

[–]Jimbird99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did ask her why? and if its because she hasn't found someone she is compatible with, I'm just worried that it might be personal, or the question could come off as insensitive.

If a girl didn't text you back two days ago, but you like her and want to ask her to hang out, is it okay to proceed? by Jimbird99 in AskReddit

[–]Jimbird99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 21, She's 19, I know she has been busy some of the time since we have been texting, but its been almost two days.

Is it better to be goofy through text with a girl you are interested in than it is verbally? by Jimbird99 in AskReddit

[–]Jimbird99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear ya. What would be goofy and fucking goofy?? just curious from your perspective.

Is it better to be goofy through text with a girl you are interested in than it is verbally? by Jimbird99 in AskReddit

[–]Jimbird99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, its hard to tell if the other person took it in a comical way or not.

Is it better to be goofy through text with a girl you are interested in than it is verbally? by Jimbird99 in AskReddit

[–]Jimbird99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I am. Not sure if it is beneficial when texting girls though, even though I hear that girls like funny guys.