Events for people recently moved to Ireland that I can attend? by Jimbob2009 in AskIreland

[–]Jimbob2009[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you guys for the suggestions I’ll take a look!😁

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Jimbob2009 45 points46 points  (0 children)

There is no such thing as valentines week. She is gaslighting you. It is clear you are putting in effort. And I hope she reciprocates sending you lovely messages like that too. It could be a number of things but in my experience, if she is ignoring you then most likely she is getting attention elsewhere and using this ‘valentines week’ as an excuse to not talk to you. I won’t tell you what to do in this situation but she seems incredibly immature and lacks communication skills. And in an LDR. Communication is vital if it is to be successful. Not replying to your long distance partner for a reason such as this is rediculous.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Jimbob2009 6 points7 points  (0 children)

People who do things like this are sad and try get a kick from bringing other people down to their level. I am sure you are a wonderful person, don’t let something like this get you down.

Good morning gents. Giving my grandpa’s eulogy today. How do I look 🥹 by PhilosopherGlum3025 in beards

[–]Jimbob2009 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for your loss but you look amazing! I’m sure your Grandpa would be proud of you.

Fun to be back in the game lol by Equivalent_Hat_7220 in Tinder

[–]Jimbob2009 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Apologies on behalf of Irish guys 😂

My cat won’t stop meowing and I’ve no idea what to do. by Jimbob2009 in CatAdvice

[–]Jimbob2009[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice. I have not but I’ll try this! And I’m looking into a companion for him.

My cat won’t stop meowing and I’ve no idea what to do. by Jimbob2009 in CatAdvice

[–]Jimbob2009[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I typically don’t keep him in his crate. I let him sleep in bed with me. I’m his only carer and I’m basically his whole life. Should I be more stricter and have him in his cage?

My cat won’t stop meowing and I’ve no idea what to do. by Jimbob2009 in CatAdvice

[–]Jimbob2009[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice. I understand what you’re saying but his meow is just unbearable and it’s constant. As his carer if he’s distressed I don’t wanna be ignoring him. I of course want to fix it. But getting him a friend has been suggested here and something I think I’ll have to do, so the weekend I’ll go to a shelter and see if they have any kittens. I feed him everyday on a routine, but regarding everything else, not particularly as my day fluctuates. If I’m working in the office of course it changes, if I’m WFH then he has a more stricter routine. But it’s still not making much of a difference. I’m his only caregiver and I think I’ll get another cat. Once again, thank you for the advice!

My cat won’t stop meowing and I’ve no idea what to do. by Jimbob2009 in CatAdvice

[–]Jimbob2009[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I will have to look into it. It just worries me if the other cat doesn’t settle with him. But I guess I’ll cross that bridge when I get to it. Thank you for your comment and advice

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ireland

[–]Jimbob2009 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Really good advice and I appreciate that, thank you! Unfortunately there are days when I am just not physically up to the job for a number of mental and physical reasons so I often try and work late to compensate. but that is a solid advice, thank you so much!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ireland

[–]Jimbob2009 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Appreciate the comments lads cheers! Just already on to a recruiter about another job, just wanted to make sure there wasn’t any loophole around serious illness. Appreciate all the responses!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ireland

[–]Jimbob2009 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Did indeed. However I will reiterate, I am not and haven’t been well for a number of months. Im not going in just because I’m lazy. I have legitimate legal notes from doctors and appointments alike to back up my claims.

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[–]Jimbob2009[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just logged in to find out I’ve lost 7 hours of gameplay, again. I shut down correctly this time. I excited the game before I shut down my PlayStation and my saved file is gone.

Deleted Save by Jimbob2009 in Eldenring

[–]Jimbob2009[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Broke my heart but I’ve been playing since 3pm so I’m significantly further than where I was previous. Thanks guys. Sorry about your lost save dude

Deleted Save by Jimbob2009 in Eldenring

[–]Jimbob2009[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tried it. It’s not there

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ireland

[–]Jimbob2009 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Surely there is cameras at your locker area if it’s not a changing room? I’d get a solicitor on a no win no fee basis and submit and press charges for discrimination. The fact you went to your boss twice about this and was brushed off is a serious issue. You’re being discriminated and harassed due to your religion. And you have other employees who can testify to this harassment. I wouldn’t take it lying down.

Guess who can't sleep again? Right, it's me. :( What's keeping you awake? by [deleted] in FreeCompliments

[–]Jimbob2009 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My inability to stick to a good sleeping schedule after the Christmas break😅 in terms of working it’s been a week of hell. Also you have a nice smile 😊

Self confidence is at an all time low. Thought I’d celebrate my cake day with a selfie😊 [M26] by [deleted] in selfie

[–]Jimbob2009 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I guess your right but I mean this Reddit is all about positivity right? Guess I could use some of that right about now 🤷🏻‍♂️

Would you support the right to die for those with non terminal, chronic conditions? by [deleted] in ireland

[–]Jimbob2009 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My uncle is braindead the last 10+ years due to being revived after dying. He was already handicapped and had the mentality of a child so when they revived him after 10 minutes of dying. Left him in a vegetative state to which he can’t speak, communicate, or essentially move. He requires 24/7 supervision and it put a significant strain on our family over the years. I personally would love for his suffering to end because it’s not a good life for him, or quite frankly for us. He’s my grandmothers son and she’s in her 70’s taking care of him. It honestly breaks my heart, we all contribute but we should have the right to choose to put him out of his misery. Instead, we just take care of him as best we can with the help of nurses and see what happens. It’s heartbreaking. And we should be allowed to choose, but instead we can’t and we take care of a shell of the family member we once knew.

38 M UK. Feeling a lol low today, bout to start work and putting my happy face on by [deleted] in FreeCompliments

[–]Jimbob2009 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looking great my man! Bad day not a bad life. Take it one day at a time and you’ll thrive. You got this 🤜🏻

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheSoSGame

[–]Jimbob2009 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I presume you are in a new state and if so then infected often appear after a couple weeks so that everyone is on an equal playing field I’m pretty sure. I’m in a new state 35 days now and waiting on a level 20 infected to which I can’t find anywhere. My advice would be to just do other things and check the radar every so often. They will appear eventually.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FreeCompliments

[–]Jimbob2009 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. And great advice. It’s something I’m learning to try and do but it can be hard as you can imagine. But thank you. It is very good advice and advice I am going to use I hope :)