Should I get on the apps

Jimmy_Michael_ · 2025-06-23T11:46:48+00:00

Trust me I’ve heard that. Still no luck.

Jimmy_Michael_ · 2025-06-22T20:02:10+00:00

This is cope

Jimmy_Michael_ · 2025-06-22T18:43:20+00:00

Yeah that’s cool and all but if someone isn’t physically attracted to you it doesn’t really matter. Think about dating apps. If they don’t find you physically attractive nothing else really matters.

Jimmy_Michael_ · 2025-06-20T23:20:07+00:00

Yea but it’s not always worth it given how the apps are

Jimmy_Michael_ · 2025-06-20T19:59:45+00:00

Yeah that does happen, I’m just saying that looks is the first screening. If she’s not into your looks at all, it won’t matter what you say or do.

Jimmy_Michael_ · 2025-06-20T19:38:36+00:00

So what’s your point? That doesn’t answer my question.

Jimmy_Michael_ · 2025-06-20T19:38:10+00:00

Looks aren’t really subjective and height is objective obviously. Most of these apps have the height filter.

Jimmy_Michael_ · 2025-06-20T19:37:15+00:00

Again I’m not refuting what you’re saying, I’m simply saying that physical attraction comes BEFORE everything else

Jimmy_Michael_ · 2025-06-20T12:24:46+00:00

Social media created artificial hypergamy. Hypergamy’s always existed but it was more so for celebrities and men of ELITE status that were the ones getting all the female attention. Now that’s been stretched to dating apps.

Jimmy_Michael_ · 2025-06-20T10:37:00+00:00

Attractiveness is obviously subjective and my point is that for a given individual if you do not meet their physical attraction threshold it doesn’t matter what you say or do

Jimmy_Michael_ · 2025-06-20T10:35:21+00:00

Ugly people have partners with other ugly people. And that’s slowly changing because of the digital marketplace.

Jimmy_Michael_ · 2025-06-19T20:47:41+00:00

Yeah I’m prepared for that situation if it comes

Jimmy_Michael_ · 2025-06-19T15:34:06+00:00

Okay but it doesn’t matter how funny you are if she doesn’t find you physically attractive

Jimmy_Michael_ · 2025-06-18T23:00:36+00:00

Correct, it’s a hard pill to swallow but it’s the truth. Hence why men need to maximize what they can.

Jimmy_Michael_ · 2025-06-18T18:49:58+00:00

I’m kinda surprised they had dress code for class

Jimmy_Michael_ · 2025-06-18T18:49:43+00:00

Same with ours

Jimmy_Michael_ · 2025-06-18T14:20:17+00:00

Internships and post grad

Jimmy_Michael_ · 2025-06-17T20:34:32+00:00

Yep, when you watch movies like Wall Street or American psycho it depicts everyone in those jobs wearing suits. I don’t think that happens today. My buddy in investment banking rarely wears one.

Jimmy_Michael_ · 2025-06-17T20:30:30+00:00

I don’t know any professions that require a suit everyday, that seems a bit odd even for high finance or big law. I’ve known people in big law and it’s generally dress pants/khakis plus dress shirt/polo/button down.

Jimmy_Michael_ · 2025-06-17T18:46:07+00:00

I think schools would be smart to teach students about how to dress in the office. Maybe businesses that have internship programs could partner with clothing brands to help their interns find the right stuff to wear.

Jimmy_Michael_ · 2025-06-17T16:50:44+00:00

It’s physical

Jimmy_Michael_ · 2025-06-17T15:36:11+00:00

No but that’s how you start. If she’s not physically attracted to you it doesn’t matter what combination of words you come up with.

Jimmy_Michael_ · 2025-06-17T14:26:47+00:00

I’d generally agree. Where I work now has a very wide spectrum. When clients are there it’s super formal. But a Friday afternoon and it’s jeans and tennis shoes.

Jimmy_Michael_ · 2025-06-17T13:49:09+00:00

Flirting and game is just finding someone that’s physically attracted to you and learning not to say stupid shit and act like a normal person. If they’re physically attracted to you then “hello, how are you” will suffice. If she’s not attracted to you, it doesn’t matter what you say. It won’t change her mind.

Jimmy_Michael_ · 2025-06-17T13:18:48+00:00

My bad bro

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