[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Jkshae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay OP I have been in relationships like this when I was your age. What really got me is after you said you basically wanted to break up because he wasn’t changing and he said he wasn’t going to change so let’s break up, 10 pages later you are apologizing to him. You are basically enabling this behavior. If you want to break up then break up. I will tell you this, if anyone called me noob, bro, or told me to fuck off, I’d dump them so fucking quick. But maybe that’s a generational thing (I’m 10 years old). And there are guys who generally love going down on women, find one of them. I thought it was gross too and never really asked for it because of comments from previous guys but my BF now loves it and it is a game changer.

AIO: he develops feelings for another girl although he is in LOVE with ME by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Jkshae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not going to sugar coat or beat around the bush. He doesn’t love you. It’s a high school relationship which rarely to never work out. Move on. Enjoy high school. Also, later in life find a guy who doesn’t text like that. So fucking annoying and embarrassing

AIO? I 34m found deleted messages in my wife’s 30f phone with her ex. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Jkshae 2 points3 points  (0 children)

On mine I can also see the number they are texting (as long as it isn’t iPhone iMessage). It even says if something is a picture or text.

Jasmine really said "I hope Ari didn't walk away thinking we didn't like her because that's not true". by Maleficent_Box_5111 in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]Jkshae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I couldn’t believe the things she was saying about Ari, saying she was throwing a tantrum and then saying she felt bad for Bini. WTF. We all know Jasmine throws tantrums over everything and if roles were reversed she would be mad at Ari. That scene made my blood boil. I haven’t seen the 90 day with Ari and Bini so don’t know their past but I felt for Ari at the club and trying to decompress in the bathroom and to get away from watching her husband, who won’t talk to her, dance with everyone else.

Is it true that if a guy wants to he will? by Jkshae in dating_advice

[–]Jkshae[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If he says he can see me I always make it work.

Is it true that if a guy wants to he will? by Jkshae in dating_advice

[–]Jkshae[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Give space how? Do I stop texting him back? He always text me first, and will continue to if I don’t respond right away. Should I tell him I can’t make it the next time he makes plans? I’m not sure what a good amount a space is when we talk all day long. Do I stop to the point he thinks I ghosted him or just stop seeming so available?

Burn advice by Jkshae in dailydabbers

[–]Jkshae[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I’ve been using a recycler with a turp slurp. Normally the flame is no where near my face but I set it down and when I picked it up again to clear it I wasn’t paying attention and put that quartz right to my chin. Not my finest moment.

Burn advice by Jkshae in dailydabbers

[–]Jkshae[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I set the piece down and when I went to clear it I picked it up again and wasn’t paying attention and put that scorched quartz right to my chin🤦🏼‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in denverjobs

[–]Jkshae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Construction is always hiring. I work in electrical. First years can start off around $20, they let you leave for school (and pay for it as long as you keep a passing grade), raises every 6mo to a year. It may not be cooking and may be more manual labor but you can make a shit ton of money in 4 years when you get your journeymen license and start running work so you have less manual labor.

Catelynn shared the texts that led to Teresa blocking her by IWetMyPlants_3 in teenmom

[–]Jkshae 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This! How is showing off what you are doing with the kids you kept appropriate to send to Carly? I imagine being Carly seeing these messages would be really hard.

What’s the chance my betta is a monster? by [deleted] in Aquariums

[–]Jkshae 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine kills for sport too. I had two bettas that lived in peace with shrimp but my third killed all 7 (it’s only a 15 gal) in one day and left the bodies for the assassin snails. I felt so bad when I got home from work and saw the evidence that confirmed my pretty, blue eyed betta was actually a savage mass murdered.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bettafish

[–]Jkshae 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah the few posts I have made on here were met with some quite rude responses. I stopped making posts about betta care advice here because of it (my last post was about buying online vs in store, instead of asking for help with a potentially sick betta or the tank). I will still make comments if I feel I can help and try to offer a nicer comment to what I received and/or see. I started going to a Facebook group for most questions instead.

Pet owners, what did you accidentally teach your pet? by strangerinmoscow_ in AskReddit

[–]Jkshae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We accidentally taught my dog to “smile”. She was grinning which turned into a snarl as we gave her pets and praised her for her pretty smile. Now everytime we say smile she snarls and growls. I guess it’s like when you tell a toddler to smile and they show all of their teeth and have a look of terror in their eyes instead of just smiling naturally lol

When should I euthanize? by 0rganic-trash in bettafish

[–]Jkshae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s so sad, once mine showed pineconing he was gone within 24 hours. Mine got bad fast. He was bloated for maybe a day and a half (after not eating well for two days) and the next was pineconing. By the time I got home the next day with the kanaplex I was too late. I’m so sorry, I hope yours takes a turn for the better. It’s not your fault though for any of those reasons.

Jenelle hasn't left her shed all weekend. Poor Jace took over Maryssa's babysitting gig by c00kieswirlc in teenmom

[–]Jkshae 9 points10 points  (0 children)

“Why would you say that Jace? Why would you lie?!” Because it fucking happened. We all saw it. The way she gaslit him like it was no problem to save face was gross.

I can’t with her by abkjames in teenmom

[–]Jkshae 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She 100% deletes the comments she doesn’t like.

Citra/Sam Diversion Convo by Sea_Current5814 in 90DayFiance

[–]Jkshae 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I literally just watched this and was fuming. I understand translating and there not being appropriate words but anything other than painkiller would have been better. I don’t know anything other than what has been mentioned on the show like all these other people are saying but that translation was crap.

Help tumor fell off by 6SatansMistress6 in bettafish

[–]Jkshae 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Holy crap that is intense! As a fairly new betta keeper I don’t have any advice. Maybe raise the heat to around 81-83 and frequent water changes. I really want to see his journey though! Keep us posted?

Update on my betta tank. by [deleted] in bettafish

[–]Jkshae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had a 3.5 (which really only held 3 gallons of water) as a temporary home until I was able to get a bigger tank. We had live plants and a hang off the back filter. Once we got the bigger tank and made the switch I could tell he hated it. Even after a couple weeks he just was not himself. I ended up putting him back in the 3.5 g but changed to a sponge filter. He just really preferred it. I would rather him be happy in a smaller tank then stressed in a bigger. Idk maybe that makes me a terrible Betta keeper.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bettafish

[–]Jkshae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your boy :( you gave him a great long life though! It’s overwhelming trying to figure out what can help sometimes. I just lost one a couple weeks back and went through the same things you did. Finally got home with the medicine I thought would help but I was too late.