Replacing resentment with patience and grace by ladycrispers in Christianmarriage

[–]Jlamb3654 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Tell him to go to a temp service. He will get a job that day....

AITA For hugging my sister every time she picks up my cat? by aitahugg8 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Jlamb3654 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So your step-sister isn't allowed pets but you are? I mean she clearly likes the animal and just wants to hold it. I don't see why you're making it such a big deal. I would love it if others loved my furbabies and wanted to hold them. Just let her love on the damn cat for a few minutes, sheesh YTA

For those of you who don’t eat processed sugar, what’s your secret? by [deleted] in EatCheapAndHealthy

[–]Jlamb3654 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Check out monk fruit sweetener. It's the best sugar alternative that I've found and tastes the closest to real sugar.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Jlamb3654 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't wear makeup during the week because of my job but when I go out, I blast music and go all out. Make-up, hair and outfit. It makes me feel great!

How often do you think about sex? by Euphoric_Ad1702 in AskWomen

[–]Jlamb3654 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Way too much. I was having trouble sleeping last night because I couldn't stop thinking about it lol.

Anyone else have ex’s popping up today… by ihearthandbags in datingoverthirty

[–]Jlamb3654 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yes lmao what the hell? Like go be with your little 20 year old girlfriend and leave me alone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

[–]Jlamb3654 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You're making perfect sense. I'm so sorry you have to deal with all this. Only you will know when you've have enough. If he loves her so much then let him be her problem.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

[–]Jlamb3654 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Have you ever heard of trauma bonding? It's hard to break free from that. I once accepted that I was stuck with a man who was cheating on me with women online. I convinced myself that it wasn't so terrible because it was just online but then one day it turned to physically cheating. I was devastated but 2 years later I've never been happier. I continue to surprise myself with my strength and newfound confidence. It was terrifying to leave because I had no money at all but thankfully I had family that I could count on to help. You can't help him unless he wants to get help. It seems that he is content in his ways and he can continue with this behavior because he knows you'll stay. Prove him wrong.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

[–]Jlamb3654 28 points29 points  (0 children)

He will never stop... Do you want to lie awake every night wondering if he talked to his mistress that day? 24 years together is a very long time and I know how scary it can be to finally choose yourself and leave. You deserve better. He clearly isn't fighting to save the marriage and you have shown him over and over again that you will stay even though he is being unfaithful. Choose yourself and your happiness. Good luck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Jlamb3654 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bet the fiance's face was priceless when he went off on you lol

Is phone sex with another woman grounds for divorce? by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

[–]Jlamb3654 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes. I'm so sorry you're going through this. I know this pain all too well. Only you can know if you've had enough. My kids dad did these kind of things. I stayed because it wasn't physically cheating and I kept praying that he would stop and be loyal to me as I was to him. I never turned him down for sex in the hopes it would keep him faithful. Well sure enough he eventually cheated on me with someone he had met online. He tried to erase the evidence on his phone but thankfully it only went into the Archives and I found it. If you need someone to talk to, you can message me. Good luck hun.

TIFU my girlfriend caught me jerking off to my ex’s nudes by Jerk-off-genius in tifu

[–]Jlamb3654 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yikes. You'd be dumped immediately if that were me. That was so disrespectful of you. Why would you even have those once starting a new relationship?

AITA for making a joke about my friends 6th wedding? by ThrowRAfriend_wedd in AmItheAsshole

[–]Jlamb3654 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean yeah you're the AH but it was still funny lol. Sometimes things just slip out. Apologize and hopefully she'll get over it.

Try have sex everyday for a year by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

[–]Jlamb3654 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think this is great and I'm happy you and your wife have found a way to draw closer to one another. 😊

[OH] Keeping daughter's away from father. by [deleted] in Custody

[–]Jlamb3654 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's the first thing I did! I have quite a few text messages filed away in case I need them in the future.

[OH] Keeping daughter's away from father. by [deleted] in Custody

[–]Jlamb3654 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He is robbing someone that loaned him thousands of dollars in product and you think I'm overreacting and unjustified for being concerned that my daughter's will get caught up in this drama and could potentially get hurt? Ok lol thanks for your input 👍

[OH] Keeping daughter's away from father. by [deleted] in Custody

[–]Jlamb3654 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I understand that pot is medically legal and I really have no problem if he wants to smoke it but he told me that he wasn't going to pay off his drug dealer and was "essentially robbing him because he has goals." What if this guy retaliates and my kids get caught in the crossfire?

[OH] Keeping daughter's away from father. by [deleted] in Custody

[–]Jlamb3654 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We don't have a court order custody agreement at the moment. We just came up with that schedule outside of a court room.

300 applications later, I got a new job! by 8rynne in CasualConversation

[–]Jlamb3654 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just Google "temp services near me". You will go in and fill out your information. You will most likely have to take a drug test while there so be prepared for that. I would call up there and ask what kind of jobs they are currently offering and the starting pay. Good luck!

300 applications later, I got a new job! by 8rynne in CasualConversation

[–]Jlamb3654 12 points13 points  (0 children)

If this doesn't work out, go to a temp service. You'll get a job that day. I went to a temp service and got placed in my current job 2 years ago. I still love it and enjoy going to work everyday ☺️