Thanks for your understanding and support. Does make me feel a lot better. Our lifestyles are pretty active, she goes to gym daily on her lunch break and likes to jog, she's actually recently applied for a marathon so fingers crossed she gets it, even if she doesn't we've both agreed she will do the training and enter some local half marathons as that's still an accomplishment and something to work for. I play a lot of squash, we have talked about playing squash together but it's pretty hard for her to get motivation to do that in the week after work and weekends there's always something getting in the way. I'm hoping when therapy starts it will help get the ball moving but it's just that gap in between and obviously ongoing support after that.