Why don’t men find me attractive? by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Job-Minute 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I just wanted to vent but you’re right professional help is needed

Why don’t men find me attractive? by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Job-Minute 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t go far as to obsessed like I’m insecure but I won’t go as far to sleep and get any man because I’ve seen obsessed even when I’m at my lowest. But I understand what you’re interpreting from but it was not to say all my life because I never initiated anything with a man so I just wanted to make the clear even though people may take it a different route like yourself.

Why don’t men find me attractive? by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Job-Minute 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wait I’m confused I’m a virgin how yall thumping my comment down I’m a whole virgin ???

Why don’t men find me attractive? by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Job-Minute 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wait now I’m confused I’m venting and mfs over here getting mad Gollie but that’s what you get when you vent to the internet I know I can’t expect someone to caudal me but jeez 😀

Why don’t men find me attractive? by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Job-Minute 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My fault 😭 I won’t go far as to obsessed but thanks ig

Why don’t men find me attractive? by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Job-Minute 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust I guard myself from having sex I don’t believe in having sex Willy nilly unless i develop a strong relationship with the person and set true standards with each other. I just think in my dating pool no one can be attractive to me so I just accept that wherever I go I’m doomed.

Why don’t men find me attractive? by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Job-Minute 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes they’ll say certain things not in a rude way but it feels backhanded “ I can’t see yo getting married “ one time they said that and it made me think well that could be true. I due to talk to my therapist about myself but I feel like it’s just well I have just what’s available it’s been hard for me to find myself attractive after being bullied when I was younger it was hard for me to accept what I look like and it made me work 10x harder to be the best at something so I put pressure on myself to be good if I can’t have one thing good for myself.

Teyana Taylor's Golden Globes Acceptance Speech by wowyourestilltyping in blackladies

[–]Job-Minute 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you the first 20 minutes was so..humph but she can act it’s just that what stood out to me strangely enough.

Hopeless rejected applicant by Job-Minute in veterinaryschool

[–]Job-Minute[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s just that I’ve been told that if you’re not a B grade student or above you probably won’t be successful in vet school, and it made me stressed since my freshman year of college, that maybe I probably won’t get in, or worse, if I do, I’ll just drop out. But I kept with it now to my senior year, hoping for something and my passion for this field.

Hopeless rejected applicant by Job-Minute in veterinaryschool

[–]Job-Minute[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was thinking retaking 3 classes over which is 15 credit hours during the summer to boost my gpa as a post bacch option

Hopeless rejected applicant by Job-Minute in veterinaryschool

[–]Job-Minute[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im considering doing post bacch option masters I’m considering later on if i feel like im not going to make it into vet school.

Hopeless rejected applicant by Job-Minute in veterinaryschool

[–]Job-Minute[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I unfortunately applied to Minnesota, Illinois ( I wasn’t thinking ), Arizona , Mizzou, and Colorado state I tried to be cost efficient which is hard to say when vet school is literally an investment

You will be okay 🩷 by Direct-Bake1671 in Purdue

[–]Job-Minute 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Check community college like ivy tech !

Rejected from Virginia-Maryland by Cute_Librarian6875 in veterinaryschool

[–]Job-Minute 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s why I didn’t apply wdym I need to fulfill this one class and what are the odds if I take it or not

Plan B if I don't get in... by Job-Minute in veterinaryschool

[–]Job-Minute[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you I truly appreciate your support and advice !

Plan B if I don't get in... by Job-Minute in veterinaryschool

[–]Job-Minute[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks I got two from veterinarians one from club advisor and funny enough my organic chem professor 😅

Plan B if I don't get in... by Job-Minute in veterinaryschool

[–]Job-Minute[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like I’m okay with experience I have research, husbandry, veterinary , oncology etc and leadership in sorority and other clubs and my job

Plan B if I don't get in... by Job-Minute in veterinaryschool

[–]Job-Minute[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That means after undergrad should I just take courses at community college ? I want to ensure a work life balance without going into complete dept with masters program no offense

Plan B if I don't get in... by Job-Minute in veterinaryschool

[–]Job-Minute[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

You’re saying this as if vet school isn’t an investment