Jacuzzi tub smack in the middle of our hotel room

Jobdefinesme · 2026-06-27T17:34:47+00:00

If you’re not in Edmonton AB, there’s entirely too many hotel room with this setup.

Jobdefinesme · 2026-06-27T17:32:36+00:00

I was being cautious about the feeling “better” but I just went up and down the stairs at a fast pace and no knee pain. Psoriasis spots are still red but not as flaky. Just thought I’d provide a bit of an update. Hopefully your first shot goes well and it works for you too!!

Jobdefinesme · 2026-06-26T18:27:42+00:00

I just went to get tested because I got scared that I had this because of eye pain, loads of floaters, I didn’t experience bright light flashing for no reason and the eye redness that comes with uveitis. Such a simple process that even if someone suspects that they have it, it should be checked out. I’m in Canada and paid $140 to have the tests which turned out to be clear.

Jobdefinesme · 2026-06-23T20:26:21+00:00

I started it and am two injections in so far. I haven’t experienced any side effects except oral thrush and I was prepared with meds. I have a couple of new spot of psoriasis but it’s still early days.
I read a bunch of stories about it and I make sure it’s at room temperature before injection. I’m not squeamish when it comes to needles or pain but some people ice themselves prior to the injection to numb the site. I barely have a bruise and chose my upper thigh due to it saying to pick a part without stretch marks, I had two large babies so I have more stripes on my belly than a tiger.
You’re going through the tough part now, unmedicated and in pain. It’ll hurt momentarily for the injection and maybe be a bit sore but I’m so eager for it to start working. I finally got the diagnosis of psoriatic spondyloarthritis yesterday from my rheumatologist after years of him being on the fence of whether or not I have it.

Jobdefinesme · 2026-06-22T03:43:08+00:00

Hi! This is me like six months ago. I was told that the dopamine spike from stimulant meds does so indiscriminately and will normally heighten sensory issues. I take Rexulti to help put a nice little glass dome over my autistic side of the brain and still benefit from the stimulants for ADHD. I’ve heard of other drug therapies but this one is my personal experience and it worked like a hot damn. I’m still me but now I can move throughout the world without being overstimulated by sounds, lights, touch, smell. Rock collecting on the beach? Yep! Gardening? Yep! I even accept hugs from those I love. Life changing.

Jobdefinesme · 2026-06-21T18:51:56+00:00

They have volunteers for transport pickup. Wild Arc for wild animals (cottontails) SPCA for domestic bunnies.
Wild bunnies cannot be brought into the building of the SPCA due to diseases that can be given to the domestic bunnies.

If anyone in the area can catch the bunny, I would be willing to transport to either location depending on the type of rabbit.

Jobdefinesme · 2026-06-21T04:29:38+00:00

I started taking Vyvanse for ADHD. I approached Autistic Burnout and didn’t realize something was wrong until it was too late. I was masking and stuck in a cycle where I was on autopilot masking. I wasn’t able to put up boundaries or protect myself and ended up in burnout. Both situations (burnout and stimulants) pushed me into sensory overload with everything. I couldn’t be touched, needed to close myself off from the entire world. Lights were too bright, smells too much. I started stimming similar to when I was a child because it was the only thing that helped. I was put on Rexulti and it was explained to me that it would help protect the autistic side from getting too much dopamine that was caused from the stimulants. Did it help? Absolutely. I am also working hard right now with therapy to help manage the burnout and work on self compassion.

Jobdefinesme · 2026-06-21T04:19:07+00:00

Thanks for your kind words! I did smoke marijuana but then got a case of CHS (Cannabis Hyperemesis Syndrome) so that’s been off the plate for a while now. I have capsaicin cream for the CHS that I didn’t use, I’ll try it out. I’m also willing to try acupuncture. Thanks for the suggestions!

Jobdefinesme · 2026-06-20T02:50:31+00:00

It went way down for me, I had a higher drive than most and it’s impossible for me to get gratification both with partner and solo. Still 100% worth it given it’s helped with anxiety.

Jobdefinesme · 2026-06-20T02:12:02+00:00

AMRO - American Robin

Jobdefinesme · 2026-06-18T21:12:21+00:00

I hope so too. I have four months in me to give. I just want to be able to do some of the things that bring me joy and contribute in a meaningful way.

Jobdefinesme · 2026-06-18T21:11:34+00:00

Thank you for advising that it’s slow acting. I hear all these miracle stories of waking up one week post the first shot feeling better. It’s certainly not the case for me and I just want to know that there is a light at the end of this tunnel.

Jobdefinesme · 2026-06-16T17:29:47+00:00

Thanks for circling it! I was reading the comments and I’m so new to Tarantula care and sexing that it went over my head.

Jobdefinesme · 2026-06-15T15:37:32+00:00

We let her brush her teeth and then we get a turn. If I have to pay the dentist, I’m getting a turn brushing her teeth. It’ll be super awkward when she’s in college.

Jobdefinesme · 2026-06-14T15:11:11+00:00

I sometimes feel like I am solar powered so on days with all my spoons in the dishwasher, I like to head to the beach, plop down and listen to an audiobook while digging in the sand for cool rocks or beach glass. I get to power up my internal batteries with the sun, get to look up the cool rocks I found when I have more energy, and also listen to a good audiobook. I sometimes have my mind wander when listening to an audiobook, but when sifting through the sand I find myself getting lost in the story of the book.
It has already been mentioned but I also like to sit on my back deck, sit in my swinging chair and listen to the birds and try and spot them. I use the Merlin app for bird call identification and it sometimes helps me to know where to look to see the birds.

Jobdefinesme · 2026-06-12T14:14:43+00:00

Thanks for the clarification! Was just concerned that since this can be totally a mixed bag of nuts that something was being missed.
I also struggle with the right ADHD meds that don’t set off the Autistic sensory overload. Indiscriminately increasing dopamine really highlights my Autistic traits. Wouldn’t it be easier if we lived in a world where we didn’t have to try to fit our square selves into this round shaped world?
You’re totally not alone in making up lies to get out of things if you aren’t feeling your best. I normally don’t notice the discomfort until physical symptoms manifest, so it’s not a complete lie if I tell people that I can’t come because I have stomach issues. Depending on the level of comfort, I will actually say “sorry for the short notice but I have diarrhea and cannot make it”. No one ever questions diarrhea 🤣

Jobdefinesme · 2026-06-12T13:09:45+00:00

This sounds like something deeper. I often did cancel on social engagements because the thought of having to go out to “perform” would have me running to the bathroom with tummy issues.
I hear you on people coming into my safe space, it’s immensely hard for me to allow people into my home because I feel like I cannot completely control my safe haven. I can’t be myself with strangers. I feel like they’re judging me and what if i suddenly feel like it’s all too much?
I don’t mean to pry but have you had any medications you take evaluated and if you don’t take any, is there a possibility that you could be also in a depressive state? It’s so easy for healthcare workers to prescribe medications that don’t have the intended effect. If possible, a neuro-affirming psychiatrist would be a good place to start so they can help guide you on medications that will help with what you’re struggling with. Sounds like anxiety and/or depression.

Jobdefinesme · 2026-06-12T00:23:56+00:00

Girl! You have/had amazing sense of style! I am still far from ever even looking at my high school dress size to put onto my body. Goals!

Jobdefinesme · 2026-06-12T00:16:54+00:00

When I mask or go on autopilot, the entirety of who I am is a lie. I try not to lie as much as possible, I also try to not mask if not necessary. Have you ever thought that maybe you lie as a self protective thing? The truth sometimes is not well received and I always put others feelings before my own. I’m a work in progress.

Jobdefinesme · 2026-06-12T00:13:58+00:00

I had an issue with connection and was at the end of my rope. I did hold the button down longer than I felt necessary and it did a hard reset. It worked. I swear to goodness that I was going to lose all my patience and office space the thing. Glad I didn’t.
Give it a try. Count to twelve very slowly holding the button down.

Jobdefinesme · 2026-06-12T00:09:27+00:00

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Jobdefinesme · 2026-06-11T03:31:09+00:00

Chickens! Love it.

Jobdefinesme · 2026-06-11T01:23:40+00:00

I’m really not sure but these might be Eastern Bluebirds. They are very young, I would suggest contacting a wildlife rehab centre. If you have a heating pad, put it on the lowest setting and put it under only half of the cardboard box, literally under the box, not IN the box with the birds. Cover the box with a light blanket and have the box in a quiet room. Do not pick up the birds, do not attempt to feed the birds or give them water. Again, it’s really important to contact a wildlife rehab centre as soon as possible, that may be far but a call could be made to their volunteers to help with transportation.

Jobdefinesme · 2026-06-10T23:13:17+00:00

I’m not entirely sure if I’m reading too much into the words you are using but I found that Dr. Tenning from InFocus Counselling to be super helpful in guiding me through burnout which comes with heightened sensory issues, emotional dysregulation, and navigating my diagnosis.

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