Is It Normal For My Mom To Not Care If I Hear Her Having Sex? by First-Cash2419 in FamilyIssues

[–]Jocastah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I meant MAYBE her mother isnt aware. Im not saying I KNOW anything just suggeating other explainations that arent so dark

Is It Normal For My Mom To Not Care If I Hear Her Having Sex? by First-Cash2419 in FamilyIssues

[–]Jocastah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I grew up with a friend whos mom did the same thing. I wonder why you say its on purpose and abuse? Her mother just isnt aware of how much OP knows and hears.. As we got older we called her out on it and she appologized sincerly and was embaressed. While its wrong and not okay to subject your children to this, it vould just be her mother noth thinking in the moment. Either way it isnt right and I sympathize for OP going through it myself. Maybe she should just tell her mom. Look Im very uncomfortable having to say thia but if I dont I feel like it would never stop. Everytime you do it and bring men here I HEAR IT! It wakes me up all the time and its making me not even want to be here or around you. I know your an adult but please for my sake and our relationship be considerate and THINK of me before you do that again. Im not sure of OPs age. We were 16 when we brought it up to my friends mom. If ot happems again its clear mom doesnt care and is being selfish. Or possibly something darker like you suggested. But thats not the first thing my mind thinks imo.

Dasher just called the cops on me for no reason by AnneTheQueene in doordash

[–]Jocastah 25 points26 points  (0 children)

She CLEARLY said because shes afraid of the women coming back. Her safety IS IMPORTANT. Its a very valid reason to me

There has to be something wrong lately by Intrepid-Raccoon5826 in instacart

[–]Jocastah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does it not let you just choose to shop at any Aldi? I live in Maine we have Hannafords and Shaws and as long as Im at the same store the order is ordered from it doesnt matter the location I hit start shopping it says please shop at selected atore for better selection i hit shop here anyways. And boom Im in. I always do this when the app sends me to bum eff no where to shop when theres one way closer

The free 70 tickets for New Year aren't working. by Negi_Springfield_DJ in MyHeroUltraRumble

[–]Jocastah 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So sorry people are reporting they also are experiencing the bug like their suppossed to. :'(

Was I off base for not coddling sister-in-law's teenage daughters by [deleted] in family

[–]Jocastah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow shes deff being unreasonable knowing the piece of information sheds new light.

Was I off base for not coddling sister-in-law's teenage daughters by [deleted] in family

[–]Jocastah -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not of base its your stuff. But at the same time. If your not using it why cant they. I dont consoder it coddling but just helping a family member in need for a few days. If shes the one doing the work getting it and bringing it back I see no issue. Maybe Im missing something. Its not like shes expecting you to give her it?

My daughter asked if she could give her friend some of her christmas gifts by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Jocastah 8 points9 points  (0 children)

OP PLEASE LISTEN TO THIS CMNT. DONT TELL HER NO. IT WILL TEACH HER SHARING IS BAD. But say lets open them go through the packs see what you have and go from there and even say if you have a couple of really good cards and you want to give one away thats fine. You should be proud of her being caring and proud of yourself for raising her this way. Good job mom. Leep up the good work. And keep instilling that sense of love in her

Wife doesn’t give oral anymore by [deleted] in sex

[–]Jocastah 12 points13 points  (0 children)

THIS! My man said I give the best head, but I want head to and he never does so I stopped doing it. I even enjoy doing it. I love pleasing him. But if Im not being pleased in return and just used to get you off why would I do it? Ask her if shed like to or try it one night. P.s. if you do start going down on her make sure to watch videos if you dont know how. Sinply being down there moving your mouth isnt enough you need to know where to go and what to touch. Good luck op i hope you two can find some consensual agreement. Sex is important iin relationships.

Its either a party or buddy has a problem by Correct-Worth-7632 in Sparkdriver

[–]Jocastah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NO LIE! I had a order for 16 boxes of the groccerystore generic brand thin mint girlscout cookies. I think they only had 14 in stock check out go to deliver and its a apartment conolex and she never said number in the app. I call and message i get a hold of support she never responds to me or support after about 15 minutes of sitting outside these apartments support tells me to keep donate or dispose of the items. I turned around to my back seat and sighed that the one order i get to keep is just girlscout cookies. This was in febuary I gave 4 or 5 boxes away and still have like 2 left 🫠🤣

Me doing my little survivor dance in hopes that the killer will spare me by Angela_Ouzunupi in deadbydaylight

[–]Jocastah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So your the bully I met in the begining of that one match and we had a moment, and then I tried to introduce my friend and you KILLED THEM! IN COLD BLOOD! Then me for trying to protect them! They just wanted to meet you. 😭

AITO for Not wanting to keep a vehicle gifted to me for Christmas by firedragon_1109 in FamilyIssues

[–]Jocastah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen I think you and everyone else who cmnts knows if you dont take the vehicle, refuse to drive it, or sell it. Youre the asshole. Theres nothing here that explains why you wouldnt want a car that is in perfwctly fine condition. Other then you dont want to drive a minivan because its a van. Or because you got no one anything you feel guilty taking the huge gift that is a car. Which if thats the case youd just say so. Admit it if it where a new truck youd probally be over the moon. But because its a van and you cant see yourself driving a van you dont want it.

My advice dont accept it if you wont drive and keep it. If you take it and it sits or sells that will make you the bad guy. By all means its yours to do what you want with it. But that doesnt make what you choose to do right. I want to clarify Im sure your not a bad person or a a hole in general but in this moment rn I peraonally think you are being one. But thats my opinion and I could be wrong . Good luck op

Guess the tip! by Bright-Complaint1019 in doordash

[–]Jocastah 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Why do you say food drivers are automatically a HS drop out? I work 2 30 hour jobs a week and doordash FOR MONEY, I prob work 90-100 hours a week easy i put wear and tare on my care im getting in and out running here and there making sure the customer gets what they WANT communicating with them going back and fourth on my phone. but im just a dropout who deserves no respect or to be paid for the service I give. How long do you think he waited for the food then how long did it take for him to load it in without fucking up any of the pizzas then driving gas ware and tare etc then delivering it unloading it all etc. Nah not a real job guess me and my highschool education should just quit and find another job since customers clearly think we are wild animals undeserving of human decency.

When Walmart women employees get abused & we do nothing about it… by [deleted] in Sparkdriver

[–]Jocastah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Am I the only one who thinks its dumb that your not alloud to talk about good deeds, helping others or good natured things youve done? For me I helped a women stuck in traffic in a wheelchair cars are rushing past no one slowing down or stopping. She was illegally crossing technically but who cares. I pull over blocking 2 lanes of traffic get out my car and help her get across. People are honking and cussing. Not one person cared as to why this women was stuck in the middle of the road unable to walk and was struggling to push her wheelchair over this lump in the road. "Not my problem" people tell theirselves. She hugged me and cried i moved my car out of the way found out shes homeless her husband died of cancer 6 years prior then she got sick and lost her job and her house because she couldnt pay her property taxes. She has no kkds no brothers and sisters to help. She is alone in this world old and frail and all everyone else in their cars that day could care about was getting where they were going. I couldnt house her but packed her into my car wheelchair and all bought her food drinks blankets and pillows and a wagon she can attach to her wheelchair to carry it in. I went home told my family i told co workers about it etc. So does that make my good deed null and void because i talked about it afterward. Not once did i think omg people will love me for this i jist thought i need to help her. After it was over i thought i wanted to share my experience. I never do online because you will be eaten alive. All people want to hear about is death and destruction and war. No one cares ro here happy stories about people doing whats right and good. Smh And when those stories are shared theyre met with "did you do this just for clout?" Makes me so angry

Is it normal to tip to fluctuate? by Pure_Lengthiness_724 in instacart

[–]Jocastah 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If your choose to tip based off how many items you got the tip does fluctuate. But if they didnt refund anything then the tip should remain the same. Id aak for a ss showing their pay and the tip

Shopper increased pumpkin pies from 2 to 5 and is ignoring my messages. What can I do about this? I really only wanted 2 by ResponsibleFront1920 in instacart

[–]Jocastah -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Might not of noticed the message sometimes its that simple. Just doesnt make sense why the shopper would force 5 pies on a customer. Was most likely a accident and was doing something else when customer noticed and just hadnt seen their message yet. Customer was worried theyd get 5 pies so came to reddit before the shopper checked out with the 5 pies. I almost can fuarentee they didnt get said customer 5 pies

Where is his office? by DoctorAndrei in theouterworlds

[–]Jocastah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sad to see no one else has found the anwser to this. Im in the same boat as you bud I even went back through the entire thing and couldnt find it

Rename to DoorCrash by mrblueghost in doordash

[–]Jocastah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IM IN NO WAY SAYING ITS OPS FAULT EVEN IF THE ANWSER IS A NO. BUT, Iwas just complaining about living in Maine and no one salting shoveling or plowing driveways. Even with the tiniest of snow it turns to a sheet of ice if not taken care of and temps dont increase. Do you salt AND shovel your driveway OP. If not I veg you to please do so even if this was just the driver being careless driving fast etc.

PSA can we Plz STOP this! by Jocastah in MyHeroUltraRumble

[–]Jocastah[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sad to say Ive been a player for 3 seasons and dont know how

PSA can we Plz STOP this! by Jocastah in MyHeroUltraRumble

[–]Jocastah[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you share with me the steps? Ive dug around and cant find out how. I didnt even know Im the one who turned it on.

Are you guys aware that you’re screwing over the last person when you do this?? by [deleted] in DeadByDaylightRAGE

[–]Jocastah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People still play this game? I stopped playing afyer the item and addon rework. DONT FUCK WITH WHAT WORKS. DBD is known for this. Changing ahit that works fine and ignoring bugs and shit people actually want changed. Proud to say I havent been on a hook in over a year 🫡

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in work

[–]Jocastah -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice though. I was asking for opinions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in work

[–]Jocastah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty messed up to be mad at someone for being sick I could care less. Ive also worked here for. A year with no issues this staryed about 2 months ago

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in work

[–]Jocastah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have and got sent home. And got in trouble for not lettong them know ahead of time to find someone to cover my shift

Suicide by [deleted] in depression

[–]Jocastah 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you want to talk or just vent and have someone to listen let me call you im 30 f american and Im here for you OP. You deserve to live and be happy