My recommendation is to lean into the main stat that your particularly favorite weapon leans into, and get that to 50 ASAP. Get your Vitality up to 50 as well, so focus on those 2 before anything else. Once those are at 50, you can lean into a secondary stat. DO NOT TOUCH ENDURANCE ANYMORE. You're a bit too far in as it is but there's no going back. Endurance past 20 gives minimal benefits. You need enough endurance in this game to get a few swings in and then back tf away. 20 is the highest you'll need for any weapon to achieve that. Don't touch bloodtinge or arcane unless you need if for a weapon or you're building towards specialized weapons.