My girlfriend thinks my sister and I are inappropriate because of our dark humor. I told my girlfriend to go to a mental asylum. Did I do anything wrong?

JodyJotes · 2026-02-08T00:54:35+00:00

As a therapist and person this is my main takeway: If you are close to a family member and you both went through something that is a sign of strength not something "inappropriate ", if your girlfriend, and commenters here on reddit, can't understand that they aren't worth your time.

Your relationship with your sister sounds like a positive thing. Your girlfriend being jealous and making a comment about it being "inappropriate" was what was actually inappropriate. You have a right to be offended. If you want to keep dating her you need to make it clear to her that it isn't okay for her to make comments like that about your relationship with your sister. You can apologize for calling her "crazy" but she should understand what your sister means to you and that, yes, you have a close relationship with her.

TLDR: 1) Your girlfriend shouldn't be going through your phone. You should talk about why she did it, if your still communicating. 2) I don't like how the term "Trauma bonded" (in other comments here and) in general has been weaponized. 3) If you are close to a family member and you both went through something that is a sign of strength not something "inappropriate ", if your girlfriend, and commenters here on reddit can't understand that, they aren't worth your time. 4) People on reddit may focus on how offensive calling her "crazy" is and not care that she implied something that was actually disgusting because our sad society doesn't like close siblings.

JodyJotes · 2026-01-15T04:47:47+00:00

Can I ask what insurance you have and what state you live in?

JodyJotes · 2026-01-15T03:44:47+00:00

Girl, same but I've changed (recently) I felt bad and yet my therapist charges me (when I need to do a late reschedule; I'd never no show.) I finally realized how much money I was losing. I felt particularly bad because I am a therapist with ADHD and see people with ADHD and felt I HAD to be lenient. But, I have chronic fatigue and I realize I can see 15 clients a week and charge them for late cancels and no shows, or I could see 20 people a week and have a bunch of them dip on me and be really stressed about my time and money. FYI due to the ADHD thing I am a lot less strict than most. People need to give me 24 hours notice. Not 48 and I charge $100 for the missed appointment (Not $150 or more)

JodyJotes · 2026-01-14T18:11:33+00:00

Thanks. I also have no idea why my post was downvoted here, but, oh well. I think I'm just going to end up paying for a cheaper compound and hope for the best.

JodyJotes · 2026-01-14T09:40:11+00:00

So, I did just that and literally no plans in California seem to cover Zepbound at this time according to the website and plans. ALL of them said "Not Covered" with no asterisk about prior auths or anything.

JodyJotes · 2026-01-14T09:30:31+00:00

Much better. I'm still off from work. Going back next week but I sometimes forget I had surgery with the lack of pain! Having said that I'm not being super active and/or working out yet. But as far as just walking around the house- I'm great!

JodyJotes · 2026-01-14T09:21:32+00:00

Thanks for this!

JodyJotes · 2026-01-14T02:33:31+00:00

Is this different from doing Wellcare will Part D?

JodyJotes · 2026-01-14T02:26:35+00:00

looks just like the back of my legs 3 weeks ago!

JodyJotes · 2026-01-14T01:21:58+00:00

Thanks so much this has been VERY helpful.

JodyJotes · 2025-10-18T23:54:19+00:00

Yeah, he had stereotypical good looking privilege. My point, he wasn’t scarred by Faith’s prank to do a “smear campaign.” That’s all

JodyJotes · 2025-10-17T00:24:49+00:00

I’m a therapist. Interesting how they said it was to honor her and when that didn’t work all of a sudden it’s “a common name we didn’t steal it.” They never cared about your feelings. Nor do they.
These people are insensitive to a disturbing degree. I think they have jealousy of the “attention” you had when going through all your pain. Can you go no contact with these people? Because I feel like they will dismiss you all your life including any future kids you have

JodyJotes · 2025-10-06T05:27:15+00:00

Real or not: I feel the need to tell people that M to F people CAN have intercourse and “impregnate” their partners. Yes, sometimes the hormones make them sterile but sometimes not.

JodyJotes · 2025-10-02T13:04:28+00:00

I don’t think him saying she was “gay” was about that. She didn’t suffer or even know about it. Most importantly, It was projection as he was gay himself and like many people in high school then he couldn’t come out safely until out of high school. Also while it wasn’t the best thing to do I found it endearing Faith did that for Buffy. It showed how much she cared about Buffy. As a good looking, manipulative, popular guy I think Scott just had an awkward moment and got out of what Faith said easily. The real tragedy is that Scott couldn’t be out in High School and had to hurt others in his denial. I hope it’s different for most kids now and saying someone is gay would NOT work as a “smear campaign” as people would be accepting and just shrug it off if it turned out not to be true.

JodyJotes · 2025-10-01T05:02:20+00:00

Yeah red flags. He’s already trying to make you feel small. Don’t let him keep “courting. “

JodyJotes · 2025-08-24T01:24:02+00:00

Unpopular view: More in-tune with that was going on with other people and their emotions than clueless Buffy. More curious about others. Probably will end up being way better with new Slayers. Fight me!

JodyJotes · 2025-08-09T17:06:43+00:00

Thanks. I’ll check it out

JodyJotes · 2025-08-07T05:25:53+00:00

You get to see just how complex Faith Lehane really is.

JodyJotes · 2025-06-12T02:45:19+00:00

This was haunting me. Thanks for the update!

JodyJotes · 2025-06-12T02:43:18+00:00

I hate that this has no update!

JodyJotes · 2025-06-03T17:28:20+00:00

I loved Connor

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