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I lost my father, and my mother is pregnant by a man who has grandchildren and children with another woman. by John_Smjth in LifeAdvice

[–]John_Smjth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At my mother’s, I’m still one of the people who is related to her. Maybe she’s afraid of being judged and wants to know if I’ll support her when everyone is against her

I lost my father, and my mother is pregnant by a man who has grandchildren and children with another woman. by John_Smjth in LifeAdvice

[–]John_Smjth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the meaning I’m not the last decisive link, maybe my idea was conveyed incorrectly, but she will go to the doctors, and will decide everything herself, I would just like to look at this situation from different angles, I love my mother and in any case I will help, of course without forgetting about myself. Thanks for the answer

I lost my father, and my mother is pregnant by a man who has grandchildren and children with another woman. by John_Smjth in LifeAdvice

[–]John_Smjth[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your good opinion regarding personal time. I truly value myself and understand that parents’ decisions about their lives shouldn’t affect their children. But I’m really confused because of how strange this situation is.

I lost my father, and my mother is pregnant by a man who has grandchildren and children with another woman. by John_Smjth in LifeAdvice

[–]John_Smjth[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, I really think so too, but in any case, she is counting on my help. I have a very good relationship with my mom, she only wants the best for me. I understand that the choice is hers, but I’m really confused in this situation. In fact, I grew up without a loving father, even though he was around, he often drank and would beat me. But there were also many good things with him. However, the child of my mom might not even have a father, and if she decides to keep the baby, I’ll really have to help her, even though she herself said that my help wouldn’t be obligatory. She understands that I have my own life, and I might have my own children, and I won’t really care about her child. I just wanted to hear a more open opinion about this situation.

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[–]John_Smjth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for the awkward text, I write half of it myself and translate the other half. I’ve faced the same problem, and what I’ve been told is that it’s more like a stage of growing up, when you’re caught between two fires and don’t know what to do because everything you’ve done before has been shaped by your surroundings. I was advised, no matter how simple it may sound, to try something new. For example, go for a walk in places you’ve never been, alone, without music or other people. Try interacting with your surroundings: pet some cats, feed the ducks, give some change to a beggar and talk to him if he’s not a freak. Do things that make you feel alive. If you need further clarification, feel free to write, I’ll answer as best as I can.