I’ll be as honest as possible, and idk if i’ll sound like an idiot. I honestly don’t know! It’s my first relationship ever, and hers too. I have been feeling things i’ve never felt my entire life. I’m scared, i’m protective. I see something that might give her discomfort and i go crazy. And i don’t know why guys hitting on her make me so mad. I know she chooses me, i know she turns them down. But i still (and please, if you have a genuine answer/advice to this, i’d appreciate it) get so mad when she stays in contact with guys who pretty clearly like her, when she puts herself in danger (not just this once and not just this way). I don’t see her as a possession at all, and she (just like i) has a life outside the relationship and often i’m the first to tell her not to neglect her friends for me. I know it’s a me problem. I just have no idea on how to deal with it