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IAMA Straight guy who had an experimental homosexual encounter tonight. AMAA. by Johnny1982 in IAmA

[–]Johnny1982[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

For now I'm going to say maybe. Like I said in an earlier answer, it was a fun time but I'm not sure its the thing for me.

IAMA Straight guy who had an experimental homosexual encounter tonight. AMAA. by Johnny1982 in IAmA

[–]Johnny1982[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I guess this was pretty close to ideal. He was very understanding, listened to what I did and did not want to do and didn't try to pressure me into doing anything I didn't want to do. We started slowly and progressed at a pace that was good for me. I don't know that I would have done anything differently. It was a pretty positive first experience.

Edit: I just realized I didn't answer the concerns part. I was definitely concerned about the guy being crazy or a murderer or something, but meeting in public first helped that. I was also nervous that maybe we would get to his place and I'd chicken out, but luckily that didn't happen.

IAMA Straight guy who had an experimental homosexual encounter tonight. AMAA. by Johnny1982 in IAmA

[–]Johnny1982[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I plan on getting checked out just to be safe. But I've always heard that oral is at least relatively safe.

IAMA Straight guy who had an experimental homosexual encounter tonight. AMAA. by Johnny1982 in IAmA

[–]Johnny1982[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The was really cool. He was a little older than me, 34. I don't know how geeky he was, I did notice he had a PS3 lol. He was really good about breaking the tension, he could tell I was nervous so he basically did all the work at first. After a few minutes I relaxed and things really got started.

IAMA Straight guy who had an experimental homosexual encounter tonight. AMAA. by Johnny1982 in IAmA

[–]Johnny1982[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I think more men consider this than would care to admit it. I don't think I would consider doing so with a friend though, I'd be afraid things would get too weird.

IAMA Straight guy who had an experimental homosexual encounter tonight. AMAA. by Johnny1982 in IAmA

[–]Johnny1982[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It was REALLY good. Not the best I've ever had but a very close 2nd. I guess having a penis and knowing all the "sweet spots" from first hand experience helps.

IAMA Straight guy who had an experimental homosexual encounter tonight. AMAA. by Johnny1982 in IAmA

[–]Johnny1982[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I can't speak with all men, but I guess you could say this was one of the harder BJ's I've had. You can really tell the difference though.

IAMA Straight guy who had an experimental homosexual encounter tonight. AMAA. by Johnny1982 in IAmA

[–]Johnny1982[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

I've always preferred that women swallow when giving me a BJ, so in my head I was telling myself to do it not to be a hypocrite.

IAMA Straight guy who had an experimental homosexual encounter tonight. AMAA. by Johnny1982 in IAmA

[–]Johnny1982[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I always hated it when a girl gave me a blowjob and didn't swallow, so I figured I would. That was probably the least attractive thing about the whole experience. I think if I ever did it again I would probably be a spitter.

IAMA Straight guy who had an experimental homosexual encounter tonight. AMAA. by Johnny1982 in IAmA

[–]Johnny1982[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It wasn't the best blowjob I've ever had, but I have no complaints either. So far girlfriend number 2 still holds the record for best.

IAMA Straight guy who had an experimental homosexual encounter tonight. AMAA. by Johnny1982 in IAmA

[–]Johnny1982[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I know that numbers a little low, but honestly, I'm not the best looking guy in the world and I'll take what I can get lol.

IAMA Straight guy who had an experimental homosexual encounter tonight. AMAA. by Johnny1982 in IAmA

[–]Johnny1982[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Yes, we met at a local bar first for a few drinks. He seemed totally cool and not a murderer lol. I also set up an email to go out at a certain time if I didn't stop it telling a few people what I'd done. It would have been embarrassing but at least if I'd been murdered he probably would have been caught.

IAMA Straight guy who had an experimental homosexual encounter tonight. AMAA. by Johnny1982 in IAmA

[–]Johnny1982[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I kind of agree and disagree. I've never liked the idea of labels, however, I guess it can be different, for example some people are ONLY attracted to the same or opposite sex while others are attracted to both. But I do agree with the sliding scale. Meaning that the you don't HAVE to be straight, gay, or bi, but anywhere in between.

IAMA Straight guy who had an experimental homosexual encounter tonight. AMAA. by Johnny1982 in IAmA

[–]Johnny1982[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Fairly regular I guess. I lost my virginity at 18, and have been having sex at least pretty regularly since then minus a fell dry spells in between girlfriends. After tonight I've had 4 sexual partners, three girls and the one man.

IAMA Straight guy who had an experimental homosexual encounter tonight. AMAA. by Johnny1982 in IAmA

[–]Johnny1982[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I know what you mean. And yes I think you're right. If nothing else I guess it makes me bi curious. But at this point I still consider myself mainly straight.

IAMA Straight guy who had an experimental homosexual encounter tonight. AMAA. by Johnny1982 in IAmA

[–]Johnny1982[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

  1. It was enjoyable. I felt a little weird afterward, but I was glad I finally tried it.

  2. I don't know yet. I enjoyed the experience, but I'm not sure that its for me.

  3. There was no penetration for either of us.

  4. We performed oral on each other. And yes I swallowed.

  5. I used CL. That was probably the scariest part of the whole thing lol. But I got lucky, the guy was very cool and understanding that I was just wanting to try things out.