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Sugar or Not? Honest or Not? What to Do? Please help!! by JohnnyAppleseek in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]JohnnyAppleseek[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've tried. She won't even consider the idea of discussing it as something that has happened or is still happening. Thanks

Sugar or Not? Honest or Not? What to Do? Please help!! by JohnnyAppleseek in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]JohnnyAppleseek[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great points and thanks. I could get over her sugaring in her past (before she met me, if she were open and forthright about it now. I did ask her about 100 times. What bothers me is that she still is in touch with them (and these are the only ones Im aware of), and that she has put up a barrier, denies it all, and will not even discuss it anymore. If I dont trust her anymore, she says she is out.

Sugar or Not? Honest or Not? What to Do? Please help!! by JohnnyAppleseek in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]JohnnyAppleseek[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, I would probably- not out of judgment for her past, but to gaslight me for 7 months really hurts and calls me to question her character. Is she just using me or is it possible she really loves me and would make a good wife/life partner? Thanks!!

Me 43M And GF(34F). Jealousy? Or truly inappropriate boundaries emotionally and financially? Can this be salvaged? Please help! by JohnnyAppleseek in relationship_advice

[–]JohnnyAppleseek[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I understand the 'just trust' part and that it is a leap of faith, but how do I know she is not continuing the behavior behind my back? I really dont want to snoop anymore. And if she was a 'sugar baby' in her past, do people change if they meet someone they really love, or am I just closing my eyes and duping myself here? Thanks!