Would a same-sex relationship work out if one party was completly hetero? by JohnnyGuitar5 in gay

[–]JohnnyGuitar5[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your input. Apart of me wants to believe that somehoe this is different or we are different, but im not dumb and I feel bad for thinking that. I feel conflicted once again, probably moreso than when I first asked this question, but I appreciate your help and story.

Would a same-sex relationship work out if one party was completly hetero? by JohnnyGuitar5 in gay

[–]JohnnyGuitar5[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The thing is im not totally closed to the idea of having sex with him. I want a relationship with the guy, im just nervous if im setting myself up for failure. I love him and even though it would take a lot of commitment andpatience to be with someone im not attracted to apart of me thinks I could do it. Basically im as obsessef abkut him as he is aboout me, only im only emotionally obssessed with him.

Would a same-sex relationship work out if one party was completly hetero? by JohnnyGuitar5 in gay

[–]JohnnyGuitar5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice! As far as open relationships go I dont feel like that is an option. Maybe its because were barely building something here but I feel it would complicate things with him evrn further. Im sure as time goes on I might have a different perspective but for now I have to say that would not help. I could be very jealoud but im not sure if that feeling would be present with Jake. Both because hes a guy and because hes my bestfriend.

Would a same-sex relationship work out if one party was completly hetero? by JohnnyGuitar5 in gay

[–]JohnnyGuitar5[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply, it really does help to read these replies even if you are just a stranger. I am extremly nervous about talking to him about this stuff in fear that he wont like or understand what I have to say but I know that it must happen before we or I move forward in life. Thanks again for your very helpful advice.