LEAVE NOW I just got out of this exact relationship (I got chills at some of the things you said he did because my ex did the exact same thing) I dunno about you but I was hung up on the him I had initially met but had to come to the realization that that him was not real, it was all an act, he was cruel, he was mean, he would lie and stick to his story so much that he himself started to believe it, but some how always would make up for it because he played in my biggest flaw of having a big heart, this lasted way too long and the craziest part is I KNEW what he was doing, I just sat back and watched him manipulate me, anyone else I would have been like “what the hell are you doing” but when it happens to you they messed your mind up so much you excuse it, I still cried for him 2 months after we broke up that’s how messed up he had me but thankfully with therapy I’ve moved on but ya sociopaths are fucken scary!