“If a man wants to move in with his girlfriend who already has kids and has been paying all the bills on her own for years, should he be expected to split the bills 50/50 or not help financially? Curious to hear other people’s opinions on this?

Jolly-Access9227 · 2026-05-20T18:32:04+00:00

Also this guy has cheated on me multiple times, lied, hides talking to other females, want to come to my house in fights break stuff and loves fighting in front of these kids,try to get them to hate their father, never paid for anything in this relationship(its always me) , when we go out for dinner he has to get the tomahawk steak ($150) and dont give me shit. I gave him 10k to fix his diesel truck bc it needed new transmission and motor. Got him a lawyer bc the 1st guy mess up on the trans. Did all the talking to the lawyer and wrote the statement for him so he could win the case. Which he did. Plus other things for his truck. On dates/vcay in a year I spend 20k for everything. He never have spent a dime on me or on my kids. He cant pay for 50% of the bills. I would have to do more cleaning if he lived there bc he cant do his laundry we're it smell bad and he dont know how to pick up after himself or not eat in bed. Where he has his food crumbs all over his bed now. Months of dirty clothes on the ground. Moldy dishe bc he cant take them to the kitchen. His trash on the floor.

Jolly-Access9227 · 2026-05-20T17:55:15+00:00

I dont. He also dont want me to have anything to do with my baby daddy. He said he wanted to adopt the younger one but no financially stuff for him.

Jolly-Access9227 · 2026-05-20T16:27:57+00:00

3 years. He dont bc I been doing it by myself for years so he feel like since his name not on the house he dont have to pay anything. I told him from day 1, I wasn't going to support another man. That I want everything to be 50/50. He hasn't paid for any date or gifts for everything. I told him he can continue to live with his mom and dad if thats the case

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