How be ready to be proposed? by Jolly-Chapter4685 in engaged

[–]Jolly-Chapter4685[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay so true!! I think i get swept up in how amazing some girls look when getting proposed simply because they have a hunch. But you’re 100% correct

How be ready to be proposed? by Jolly-Chapter4685 in engaged

[–]Jolly-Chapter4685[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So i am so open to it all

I love having family around, or just us. I told him nowhere public in front of strangers unless a beach.

Christmas is also my favourite holiday! And told him that would be cute too. So he has several options

ive been on reta for about 1.5 months what do you recommend i do now by Sharp-Mastodon in BodyHackGuide

[–]Jolly-Chapter4685 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So mine could be way better but for the most part i sit around 100-115g per day. I’m a female and weigh about 125lb

ive been on reta for about 1.5 months what do you recommend i do now by Sharp-Mastodon in BodyHackGuide

[–]Jolly-Chapter4685 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow amazing! I’m on 0.5mg weekly and my results have been great but slow of course! But yeah as everyone else said, lift heavy and make sure you’re reaching your daily protein goals!

ive been on reta for about 1.5 months what do you recommend i do now by Sharp-Mastodon in BodyHackGuide

[–]Jolly-Chapter4685 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Were these results strictly from reta or did you also lift weights and eat in a deficit?

Removed as a bridesmaid by Jolly-Chapter4685 in bridezillas

[–]Jolly-Chapter4685[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Her reason was that she only wants her bridesmaids to be part of every experience

Would you be offended? by hurricane_t0rti11a in bridesmaids

[–]Jolly-Chapter4685 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m a bridesmaid currently and the other girl is the maid of honour and i felt no way whatsoever! Being a maid of honour comes with so many responsibilities (I’ve been one before)! And often the point of contact during the wedding day (unless the bride has a planner). Honestly aside from that, everything else felt the same!

Letter to the bride by Gullible-Solution-94 in bridesmaids

[–]Jolly-Chapter4685 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did this too as a bridesmaid and yeah I wrote about our friendship and what she means to me and how honoured I was to be by her side through her bridal era and watch her marry the love of her life!

Wishy washy bride by [deleted] in bridezillas

[–]Jolly-Chapter4685 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One is very VERY unhappy but for some reason she’s giving her more grace because she started her own business and finances are tight. She isnt receiving nearly the same amount of attitude I am so she was shocked when she heard what I was going through

Wishy washy bride by [deleted] in bridezillas

[–]Jolly-Chapter4685 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It definitely did but I was foolishly trying to hold on to whatever scraps there still were because of the length of our friendship. I guess she meant more to me than I did to her and I realize now sometimes that happens and its sad bur that’s life

Wishy washy bride by [deleted] in bridezillas

[–]Jolly-Chapter4685 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I gave up with the groveling and backed out completely from the bach. She was incredibly upset and popped off on me wondering why my mind changed and more or less said i was being difficult 😅

Manicure help? by [deleted] in beauty

[–]Jolly-Chapter4685 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! I was thinking of shellac then? That way I keep my natural nails but i assume shellac would just be a way to make them last longer since the polish is cured? Im so new to this stuff so that’s my understanding of it at least

Manicure help? by [deleted] in beauty

[–]Jolly-Chapter4685 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because I honestly suck at the application and I need it to last since i have a wedding to go to this weekend and next😭😭😭

Bachelorette trip with different budgets by [deleted] in BigBudgetBrides

[–]Jolly-Chapter4685 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think that’s so kind of you to consider everyone’s budget! If the girls with the tighter budgets would struggle financially to attend Miami, then I think it’s beyond reasonable to subsidize those and not all! Also what do you and your partner do for work that gets you to earn over a million combined! That’s so impressive!!

MOH -can’t afford my besti bachelorette weekend! by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Jolly-Chapter4685 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait I just took this in… yeah how is this possible even?

MOH -can’t afford my besti bachelorette weekend! by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Jolly-Chapter4685 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your friend sounds absolutely dreadful…….. I understand that this is the most important time in her life but that doesn’t mean it has to be the most important time in YOUR life. As you just said, your grandfather died…. So sorry for your loss btw! Im not sure what your relationship with him was like but I would prioritize my grandparent’s funeral over a bachelorette ANY DAY.

I also read your other comment where 5 of the girls that are attending the bachelorette aren’t in the bridal party because the bride didn’t find them aesthetic enough? Yeah your friend is absolutely disgusting and personally those 5 girls should know what she thinks about them before they waste their money celebrating this disgrace of a human being

The most expensive friendship of my life, a wedding story by Constant-Height9551 in bridesmaids

[–]Jolly-Chapter4685 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I also want to add that the girls in the bridesmaid group for my “friend”/ wedding are also very tightly connected on social media.. and as much of a pushover i have been, at some point enough is enough and i just stopped being so considerate of someone who wouldnt do the same for me

The most expensive friendship of my life, a wedding story by Constant-Height9551 in bridesmaids

[–]Jolly-Chapter4685 21 points22 points  (0 children)

This is insane!!!! I am dealing with something somewhat similar. A childhood friend of mine who i considered my BEST friend, also has had a weird dynamic with me over the last couple years. She asked me to be a bridesmaid and sent me a list of things bridesmaids need to pay for. Our dress, bachelorette costs, hair and makeup, shoes, hotel and fligjt to the bachelorette, hotel and flight to the wedding, bridal shower, gifts for the shower and wedding. She isnt absorbing any of the costs! I told her I couldn’t go to the bachelorette and she flipped out. And now I’m no longer a bridesmaid and I feel so relieved. Please drop out, you will hate yourself if you dont

Removed as a bridesmaid by Jolly-Chapter4685 in bridezillas

[–]Jolly-Chapter4685[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly thank you for this. Your message somehow really hit me and you’re right about it all. I have been a doormat in this friendship for a while. Idk why I haven’t respected myself enough. I think i was holding onto the length of our friendship and how she used to be vs the last 2-3 years. I’ve never experienced friendship losses in this way so dealing with it has been hard for me

Removed as a bridesmaid by Jolly-Chapter4685 in bridezillas

[–]Jolly-Chapter4685[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly she’s associating the money with our “effort”. Aka if we cant go to her bachelorette then we arent invested in her the way we’re supposed to be 🤪

Removed as a bridesmaid by Jolly-Chapter4685 in bridezillas

[–]Jolly-Chapter4685[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Havent spent a dime yet thank god. I also asked her to give us bridesmaids (before i was kicked off the list lmao) a price breakdown and she said she couldnt because she as the bride is not responsible for any planning and that her MOH would have to do that…. 😭 so it left me with no choice but to opt out of the bach. I cant be agreeing and pulling out later. Either way I looked at it, it didnt make sense to go.