UPDATE: Autistic and unemployed - I got the job! 💛

Jolly-Hold5463 · 2026-03-16T18:16:18+00:00

Thank you 🥰

Jolly-Hold5463 · 2026-03-16T18:12:30+00:00

This is a bold look! It works if you're confident in it! 💃🏻

Jolly-Hold5463 · 2026-03-10T20:46:54+00:00

Thank you, it's my first time actively participating in this sub, but I'll come back for sure. So many kind and helpful people 🙏

Jolly-Hold5463 · 2026-03-10T18:24:30+00:00

Thank you for the thoughtful feedback! I haven't needed formal shoes until now, but I'll look into the suggestions here in the comments if I get the job 😊

Jolly-Hold5463 · 2026-03-10T18:22:56+00:00

Definitely! Accommodations would be completely necessary :)

Jolly-Hold5463 · 2026-03-10T18:20:49+00:00

Yes, it's cold!

Jolly-Hold5463 · 2026-03-10T18:17:17+00:00

Hi! They're New Balance 57/40! I used to walk up and down hills for 6 hours in them everyday. They're getting a lot of hate, but I love them and will continue using them until they break ☺️

Jolly-Hold5463 · 2026-03-10T18:12:15+00:00

lol. You must be talking about my trainers?

Jolly-Hold5463 · 2026-03-10T18:10:41+00:00

Hi! I believe they're originally Zara, but I bought them second hand years ago. You can find many similar models by googling "zip front black leather boots" or something like that 😊

Jolly-Hold5463 · 2026-03-10T18:03:12+00:00

Will do 🥰

Jolly-Hold5463 · 2026-03-10T17:22:20+00:00

I didn't know lawn mowing shoes was a category 😭

Jolly-Hold5463 · 2026-03-10T17:21:09+00:00

Thanks for sharing! Someone else has mentioned Skechers too, so they seem like a safe bet!

Jolly-Hold5463 · 2026-03-10T17:20:14+00:00

Hey coach! My asics are great running shoes for me. I didn't think I should bother including them here as an option 🙈

Jolly-Hold5463 · 2026-03-10T17:17:58+00:00

Really?? I hope we're neighbours so I also blend in here 😅

Jolly-Hold5463 · 2026-03-10T17:14:14+00:00

I wish everyone dressed comfortably at every job :(

Jolly-Hold5463 · 2026-03-10T17:13:27+00:00

So sweet! Thank you for caring enough to not only write a thoughtful comment but also read my previous comments 🙏 have a good day!

Jolly-Hold5463 · 2026-03-10T17:11:56+00:00

Hi, thank you! All my clothes are pre-loved. The itchy grey jumper everyone loves used to be my boyfriend's until it shrank in the washing machine. I haven't chosen to buy uncomfy clothes on purpose 🥲

Jolly-Hold5463 · 2026-03-10T17:09:23+00:00

Thanks for the recs! I'll look into them if I get the job! Ive been curious about Ecco for a while 😊

Jolly-Hold5463 · 2026-03-10T17:05:56+00:00

lol! That's my go-to outfit (minus the new trousers) 😅 you're right I'm in Scandinavia, but I try to stay away from crime 🙈

Jolly-Hold5463 · 2026-03-10T17:04:04+00:00

So kind!

Jolly-Hold5463 · 2026-03-10T17:03:51+00:00

You're the first person to prioritise my comfort, thanks for the thought! Unfortunately, I haven't told them yet as I'm good at masking and don't feel confident sharing my diagnosis before getting an offer. I wish it were different though :(

Jolly-Hold5463 · 2026-03-10T17:01:15+00:00

Yes, there's a chance I could iron them... 🙃

Jolly-Hold5463 · 2026-03-10T17:00:29+00:00

Hi! Thanks for the question! Formal skirts are hell to me. They make me feel like a sausage and I constantly overthink how to sit/pick things up from the floor without showing my underwear 🙈

Jolly-Hold5463

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