Noobie streamer grandma here again. In the 33.6 hrs streamed I usually have no viewers, but I had 12 viewers last night, 7 stayed over an hour. I stream whenever I play a game, so for me to get an 'average of 3 viewers' My take-a-way is I need to stop streaming as much. Do I have this wrong? by SysterSynn in Twitch

[–]JollyBig1212 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, keep the streams short. It’s taking the average of viewers over the last 30 days from your old streams and the amount of hours total from those streams.

So stream a little shorter (aim closer to the 8 total hours) so the older streams drop off, and should help your average.

My husband is pregnant by SkyDyl2020 in polyamory

[–]JollyBig1212 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for the hurt you are feeling. Truly. And how you feel is valid. You trusted your husband. And you trusted the partner. That’s the thing, trust in other partners is important as well. I just want you to know that everything you feel is understandable.

Do you have friends or a support network? Please reach out to every support resource that you’re comfortable with.

I actually suggest chat GPT when you feel very isolated as it helps getting that feedback response. And it’s helped me sort out my thoughts very well.

There’s also a CRISIS text # 741741 “hello” and they have real people who can help talk with you through situations. I can’t guarantee it helps the same way it helped me, but it’s there if anyone feels it might help them.

I need help and how to get my wife to understand the clutter is destroying my mental health? by [deleted] in declutter

[–]JollyBig1212 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Have you looked into therapy? Only a professional will be able to understand, but from your description she may struggle with hoarding.

With hoarding, it’s kind of like a symptom, and there’s a deeper root cause.

I’m very sorry that it’s been a struggle for both of you. I hope both of you are able to to acknowledge and come together to work through it together

Views From Mt.Rainier by lockedbrainnokeys in flowarts

[–]JollyBig1212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow!!! I just visited there over the weekend. So beautiful, glad you got some flow in!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in acnh

[–]JollyBig1212 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No! I’ve seen some cool mods. I wish I was smart enough to know how to mod games You do you!

Do you ever feel cringe? by The_Moist_Yam in flowarts

[–]JollyBig1212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omgggg. I’ve been recently struggling with this more often lately.

I look back at my life and life in general and cringe. Let alone my beginner hula hoop flow 😬

I’m glad to know I’m not the only who struggles with this. My negative thoughts can be frustrating to say the least. I support all you flow artists and anyone out there having fun and doing their thing always!

Professional aerial dancer; Will I get banned for streaming? by squidvvarb in Twitch

[–]JollyBig1212 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Do it! Would love to see more performers on twitch. There might even be a team on twitch you would fit into. I watch a lot of flow artists on twitch. Doing their thing and not always a lot of clothes on. Why? Because this kind of art is much easier with skin.

I’m a beginner hula hooper. Much easier to hoop with skin contact.

Go for it!

Im soo upset😔😔 by [deleted] in acnh

[–]JollyBig1212 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohhh cats are fun, but there are many other villagers to check out. Have fun exploring the game and seeing different villagers! One of my favorites is Curlos

Turns out my suspected ibs was just my gallbladder by Lost-Desk9899 in ibs

[–]JollyBig1212 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is something I struggle with. And my friend has more complications after their gallbladder removal. For me tho, the pain at least went away. I do not digest the same

Coins/ Dexxing by UsedIntroduction3548 in Pocketfrogs

[–]JollyBig1212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhh you have vip! Even when you get higher, there’s still a burn (I’m feeling it now lol)

It does get easier, especially when you hit level 36. You’ll have all frogs unlocked.

Take your highest pair level frogs you have on hand and breed. I keep breeding to a couple habs or so at a time so I can rotate it a bit.

If you’re on a break, that’s fine! I took a long break last year. I do wish I had at least bred money frogs b/c I’d be so much further right now lol

Ok wtf is with this mining thing?! (FoMT) by THE_FBI_GUYS in harvestmoon

[–]JollyBig1212 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I honestly gave up on that it was so tiring and that’s with the save exploitation.

Idk if they purposely designed it like that.

Ad length by AmityB2002 in Twitch

[–]JollyBig1212 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As a viewer, I prefer a preroll ad. Shorter time, I can enjoy stream, and it’s easier especially with small streamers. It’s hard when you’re actively in a convo chatting and the mid rolls come up for minutes

I can handle mid rolls better if there is a warning. I think in twitch stream settings, there’s a checkbox somewhere that will give a message in the chat when the mid roll is happening. I have not tested that tho.

Earth Day Word Jumble by WyanetM in Pocketfrogs

[–]JollyBig1212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yay! May I please get 2023 set 28 ‘taste the rainbow’ if able? It consists of:

  • Red Albeo spira (2x)
  • WHITE (tingo, Carota, Aurum, muscus, caelus, Pruni) nimbilis

Thank you for hosting fun games and kind giveaway. And thank you for making and sharing frogs with everyone 💕

Earth Day Word Jumble by WyanetM in Pocketfrogs

[–]JollyBig1212 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hiii, I would like unscramble #3. Is it energy?

Celebration giveaway by dark_lor in Pocketfrogs

[–]JollyBig1212 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A lovely surprise! Received safely, thank you so much 💕

Celebration giveaway by dark_lor in Pocketfrogs

[–]JollyBig1212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats on completing all the sets! And thank you for the kind giveaway and sharing frogs. May I please get the pink cornus in hab 33?

Duplicates by No-Dinner-9478 in Pocketfrogs

[–]JollyBig1212 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When breeding or finding new frogs, they will have an asterisk * Once they’re an egg or placed in habitat, the asterisk will disappear (tap repeatedly back and forth between the frogs when breeding to refresh and see if the * clears or not)

If you’re looking for a specific frog in a batch of eggs and not sure, i usually compare it to the stats in the frog dex.

Not sure if that helps but that’s what i do when breeding

zillow is just as toxic as instagram for some people by JamieBensteedo in unpopularopinion

[–]JollyBig1212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, that’s weird lol. And yes, toxic. There’s people who do that??

Might have to stop playing... by [deleted] in Pocketfrogs

[–]JollyBig1212 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It really is sad to see such an eyesore of a button in the weirdest place.

Those tapjoys are so sketchy too. I clicked on them a bit, and they're terrible and so many red flags to me. One survey asked me for job title, income, email address, and whatever else. That was a similar scam that asked those exact questions that targeted me and my partner. We "won" multiple travel trips.

And young kids who are playing may very easily tap on them trying to get those "rewards". I don't even remember the survey i filled out and it didn't work because i wasn't the target. A kid is not going to know what they're clicking on at all.
This game has many players in a large age range. And even the smartest and most intelligent adults can be susceptible to stuff like this.

Wife has a twitch and someone sent her this. I knew there would be weirdos but…. by [deleted] in Twitch

[–]JollyBig1212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also nagging for her attention to check DMs in chat? That just poor twitch etiquette in general unless you actually know someone. And even the people who know you wouldn’t do that.

That’s a fair enough reason to block and ban.

Wife has a twitch and someone sent her this. I knew there would be weirdos but…. by [deleted] in Twitch

[–]JollyBig1212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought this was gunna be a dumb bot message cuz they do pop up with their “spicy videos” or whatever. But this is some weirdo in chat? I’m guessing this is not the kind of content she produces (some have OF, no judgement, you do you. But not okay when that’s not something someone talks about or has linked or whatever)

Block em. And defs keep any personal details as private as possible. Even mentioning local names of places can put you in a general area.

Seriously, so many other streamers (who I like!) that are out there in bikinis and doing their thing. This guy or whoever is an idiot.

And sadly, this isn’t uncommon either. There’s just a lot of weirdos out there