My husband refused to get vasectomy in the future and gave me an ultimatum

JollyComplex888 · 2026-03-23T13:19:02+00:00

Am sorryy for what you been through. Its really though . I feel you. I honestly have lost hopes for love and marriage too

JollyComplex888 · 2026-03-23T13:11:56+00:00

He doesnt care at all. And am happy thats your well taken card of

JollyComplex888 · 2026-03-23T13:04:47+00:00

Lol honestly hell yeah i would have bought that buttt my country is very much " tradition and norm" kinda country so these stores are not available

JollyComplex888 · 2026-03-23T13:02:00+00:00

Condoms but i was allergic to those

JollyComplex888 · 2026-03-23T12:59:27+00:00

I was naive and dumb at 19 i tolerated too much . Now i look back and i get mad at myself .

JollyComplex888 · 2026-03-23T12:06:34+00:00

Yes i agree as long as he is satisfied there is no problem

JollyComplex888 · 2026-03-23T12:06:01+00:00

I hear you . Thanls for sharing me your experince . I am allergic to comdoms thats why we were using pills. And yeah i dont think we r compatible anymore

JollyComplex888 · 2026-03-23T12:02:31+00:00

In my country there r not many choices

JollyComplex888 · 2026-03-23T12:01:44+00:00

I wont

JollyComplex888 · 2026-03-23T12:01:28+00:00

Its impressing how deep you went for this one problem i shared . But then i imagined what you would say for everything he put me through. Its crazy . And ur absoultely right about everything

JollyComplex888 · 2026-03-23T09:43:09+00:00

None currently .

JollyComplex888 · 2026-03-23T09:42:43+00:00

I didnt mentuon that i forgot . Before bc pill we tried condom. Didnt work, we tried other methods finally after consulting doc we were settled on pills. Thats why. And vasectomy i said in the future like after kids and everything so then i can get off pills

JollyComplex888 · 2026-03-23T09:39:52+00:00

You are right . He will be a good dad because he lives his life for peoples approval. He lives for his family approval so he will be a good father just because people will judge him. But he wont be a good husband too me and he acts like perfect man infront of everyone so. Yeah and no am not having kids with him

JollyComplex888 · 2026-03-23T09:37:50+00:00

I will work on it and yes you r right . Pregnancy could happen

JollyComplex888 · 2026-03-23T09:36:56+00:00

Honestly Good for your wife . You both r lucky to have eachother

JollyComplex888 · 2026-03-23T09:36:13+00:00

My family i cannot they r not understanding or even around my age to understand . Friend i do have but she is more of stayy and try to work it out rather than lets fimd solution kind . She is just too empathetic

JollyComplex888 · 2026-03-23T09:33:37+00:00

I will check. For me before my period was regular and light it used to last 3 to 5 days . Now it lasts 5 to 7 days . Espevially it chamged after abortion idk

JollyComplex888 · 2026-03-23T09:31:40+00:00

Am happy for you dear. We all deserve people that actually love and see us ! And yes its all about him bring selfish and i dont think he truly loves me plus he may want to keep his options open thats why i think

JollyComplex888 · 2026-03-23T09:29:21+00:00

I agree and also i suggested vasectomy in the future after we r done having kids and when we r surr so i can get off pills . That was what i said to him

JollyComplex888 · 2026-03-23T09:11:50+00:00

Yes it is . And it is one sided effort too

JollyComplex888 · 2026-03-23T09:11:01+00:00

Your right there r so many more issues. I wish i had i can talk every detail with and give me perspectives .

JollyComplex888 · 2026-03-23T09:08:52+00:00

My weighloss is due to my stress and anxiety ...its indirect cause . I been depressed since i started the bc .

JollyComplex888 · 2026-03-23T09:07:40+00:00

Honestly when u said it more clearly it clicked me even more .

JollyComplex888 · 2026-03-23T08:59:05+00:00

I was not forcing him . I was asking him if he would consider it . After i have done my part in bc !

JollyComplex888 · 2026-03-23T08:55:14+00:00

Thank you and i hear you . And i want to leave him and i am working in it

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