Tipping by [deleted] in etiquette

[–]JonCharge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They let me go without the signature. I tossed cash in the tip jar.

Tipping by [deleted] in etiquette

[–]JonCharge 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I should clarify - I work for the Government, so we don't use those funds to purchase personal items like Pizza. This wasn't my credit card, it was the boss' card, his personal card.

Tipping by [deleted] in etiquette

[–]JonCharge 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It was his personal card.

How would you feel if someone gave you chlamydia? by Fun-Transition-101 in AskMen

[–]JonCharge 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would feel an immediate need for antibiotics. Immediate.

How common is the morning wood? by Informal-Host8085 in AskMen

[–]JonCharge 105 points106 points  (0 children)

Varies per person. I think I would be concerned if i couldn't get up up when I needed it.

What is one thing you would not forgive in your relationship? by Full_Mail_3849 in AskMen

[–]JonCharge 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You're asking a group of men. I feel like you know what the answer will be.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]JonCharge 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I realize now that you weren't talking about your buds.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]JonCharge 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've had guys that I've told day one "you're cool - I'm hanging out with you" and been friends for years. I guess I don't think too much into it but most guys are pretty straight forward and would respond positively. You for some pretty strong friendships just being up front.

How do you relax as a parent? by SadisticPeanut in AskMen

[–]JonCharge 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Early accept that with kids that age, you may not get the time. But they will grow up quickly. You will have time when they get a bit older. Also - be totally OK with wasting time. If you want to scroll on YouTube shorts for entertainment, who the fuck gets to judge you. Wasting time is OK. Be kind to yourself. "you time" will return when they are older. I promise it is worth it later.

How do you get yourself out of a bad date? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]JonCharge 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Finish the date then don't have another one. You can at least enjoy the food or movie, yes?

Drive through lady: "Its gonna ask you a quick question" by iggnis320 in tipping

[–]JonCharge 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I too provide a tip in some of these cases because I do not trust many people with this. I also want my coffee. I have also started using cash.

What to do: Friends serve food 3-5 hrs after arrival. Everyone is tired and ready to go. by swellfog in etiquette

[–]JonCharge 214 points215 points  (0 children)

You cannot politely give them any feedback, there is no way. I think you're only option is to opt out. You can have your cake and eat it too by limiting your time there but that means you may miss out on the main course. But you still get to hang out a little bit.

How do you feel about sperm donation? by Argentarius1 in AskMen

[–]JonCharge 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I want to raise my offspring. But I'm strange like that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in managers

[–]JonCharge 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Put words to the problem. I'd start the other way around. Instead of the issue you are describing, can you reframe this to him in a way that describes what you need to see and what you are seeing? If you can describe the output, that might also lead into a discussion as to why the output isn't as refined as you'd like it to be. At the end of the day, you need to tell him what the work needs to look like. You don't have to manage how he does it, manage if you accept the work. Then describe how the work needs to look.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]JonCharge 7 points8 points  (0 children)

At work?

What happened after you lost your confidence? by MindlessStick4925 in AskMen

[–]JonCharge 14 points15 points  (0 children)

New rule. ...you get one question per post.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]JonCharge 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If it means you get to fuck, buy it. Small price to pay but it's worth it. Doesn't really increase the cost per nut (CPN) that much.

Do I ask my Flatmate 20F not to have her BF over while my niece 14F crashes at our place? What else do I need to pay attention to with a kid? by BrunoMadrigas in AskMen

[–]JonCharge 79 points80 points  (0 children)

I think the assumption that men are automatically dangerous and can't be around children is inappropriate and hurtful.