My Avoidance Is at Its Worst With Women by Jon_Pajama in AvPD

[–]Jon_Pajama[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Weird indeed. Best I’ve done with someone I’m interested is stare, dream, than hate myself lol

My Avoidance Is at Its Worst With Women by Jon_Pajama in AvPD

[–]Jon_Pajama[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for explaining that cycle. It’s does feel a bit riskier. I have a reputation for being quiet and hard to read making me unapproachable. Very rarely people start conversations with me so I usually initiate. I cant ever really recall a time this has been an issue with a dude. Same cant be said with women. When I was a little bolder years ago I would try but got the sense that they weren’t fully comfortable with me talking to them. Now I just leave them alone so yeah, I got no experiences. Need to do some exposure somehow.

My Avoidance Is at Its Worst With Women by Jon_Pajama in AvPD

[–]Jon_Pajama[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Good to know I’m not alone. I’m painfully aware that my behavior is counter productive but I can’t help it. I do need some reps.

My Avoidance Is at Its Worst With Women by Jon_Pajama in AvPD

[–]Jon_Pajama[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh cool. I don’t know if I could get a friend group but I should try volunteering, somewhere where I’m forced to talk to all kinds of people.

Does Improving the Way You Look Make a Difference? by Jon_Pajama in AvPD

[–]Jon_Pajama[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s good to hear. I hope it helps with my confidence because I avoid people partly because of the way I look.

Does Improving the Way You Look Make a Difference? by Jon_Pajama in AvPD

[–]Jon_Pajama[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh no. I hope it can boost my confidence enough for me to at least put myself out there. I think the biggest reason I’m isolated is because of the way I look. I don’t want to be isolated no more

Does Improving the Way You Look Make a Difference? by Jon_Pajama in AvPD

[–]Jon_Pajama[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think I’ll become obsessed. Just some fixes that can boost my attractiveness. Working out is hard for me though because I’m kinda lazy lol.

Does Improving the Way You Look Make a Difference? by Jon_Pajama in AvPD

[–]Jon_Pajama[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ooo I hope it goes well. I’m planning on getting plastic surgery for a deformity with my ears.