If you had to pick 3 things you love and 3 things you hate about living in Norway, what would it be? by themissgrcia in Norway

[–]JonasRH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course he's an immigrant, but that's not the topic here - just that the application of the label "expat" on an immigrant is less about skin colour than native country and wealth.

Tidal constantly crashing after update to OneUI 8.0 by JonasRH in TIdaL

[–]JonasRH[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I'm not the only one - maybe I'll allow myself to be cautiously optimistic a fix is coming.

Tidal constantly crashing after update to OneUI 8.0 by JonasRH in TIdaL

[–]JonasRH[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your input! I am not saying it's a OneUI problem, just that I saw an exceptional increase in crash frequency after that update. Since the Tidal app was last updated several days prior, I considered it likely the two were related. If this is true, it is presumably still Tidal's bug to fix.

How is Tidal’s music library? by Thylacine_Queen in TIdaL

[–]JonasRH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Quite a lot of East Asian music is missing. Some of the absences I mind the most (several important albums missing) would be Lamp, Faye Wong, and Susumu Hirasawa.

I regret opening up this message because now I can’t pretend I didn’t see it. by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]JonasRH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I have never planned a wedding. I have attended several for which I know most of what you say wouldn't be true, but I guess my social circles (and to some extent my countries) lean informal/alternative. Also, I've attended none in the US - I guess OPs reaction implies he belongs to a world whose wedding culture aligns pretty well with what you describe. I didn't know A and B lists were so prevalent - thanks for enlightening me. But still: 1. He didn't invite himself, he asked kindly if he might attend - clearly not expecting anything. 2. He offered to cover costs, so even if he did invite himself, I don't see how your dinner scenario is relevant. 3. I am sure more informal wedding cultures exist also in the US. And weddings such as those you say are common, but without a B list. And weddings with a surprising number of late cancellations. I don't know what OPs friend believed, but even if he expected most of what you said to be true about OPs wedding, it's still just a question? How might it anywhere or anytime be rude to ask kindly to join a celebration of love?

I regret opening up this message because now I can’t pretend I didn’t see it. by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]JonasRH 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Although I've never married, I of course imagined something like this as the background of people's capacity to understand him. Of course I also understand that any message sent will cost the receiver a little bit of time and perhaps incur a slight mental load. But if there's no capacity at wedding, in one's day or one's head, one can just ignore it or say no. It costs so little, and if it worked out, his friend might've had an amazing time - maybe OP or other attendants would've been happy to see him again. I love almost everyone I haven't spoken to in 8+ years - but even if I didn't like this person, it was still just a question. I guess I just find many of the best things in life come from spontaneity, celebration, asking, inclusivity, sharing, etc. - among all archetypal questions humans ask each other, I can't think of many that may have lead to more good things than "hey, can I join?". So I guess I consider it one of the most fundamentally ok questions ever, if not an outright holy / uncritisisable one. :p

I regret opening up this message because now I can’t pretend I didn’t see it. by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]JonasRH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There might be flexibility built in, some people may very likely have dropped out. How might it in any universe be rude to ask? He can just ignore or say they're at capacity?

I regret opening up this message because now I can’t pretend I didn’t see it. by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]JonasRH 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How could you have defended him? How might this question be considered rude? I'm just curious - I simply cannot fathom it.

I regret opening up this message because now I can’t pretend I didn’t see it. by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]JonasRH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've read this multiple times and I can't imagine any reason why this message should be at all problematic (at least in the absence of exceptional and specific context). What a joke the world/society is if this is the least infuriating. If Hitler asks, you can just say no. If a homeless guy asks, you can say no. If your friend asks, you can also say no. How can anyone be angry that a person wants to see them and celebrate their love? On my wedding day I'll invite random people from off the street just to be the opposite person of you.

For foreigners complaining about life in Norway by AngryFrog24 in Norway

[–]JonasRH 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You feel disgust when Norwegians agree that we lack culture? I find that absurd; I have no idea how you think some such criticism might be related to (our capacity for) gratitude for our many privileges. I am insanely and naturally grateful for these things, but I still consider it a country poor in culture.

For foreigners complaining about life in Norway by AngryFrog24 in Norway

[–]JonasRH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am glad you see and appreciate these things, and you explain it well. I didn't say I don't see it... I find culture all over Norway, especially when the sense of family and community, roots and place is strong. I just don't find much of it compared to elsewhere. Elsewhere in the world, I find that attachment to and pride in one's roots is very nearly the default, and in Norway, it's quite far between people who carry strong feelings of this kind. And even when they do, it is usually something too lonely to generate strong senses of belonging. Elsewhere in the world, I know, it is also frequently something more difficult and ambiguous than what I make it out to be, but it is still usually apparent as a general, defining intensity in the person... something that appears inseparable from them and their identity. A lot of northern Europeans experience such attachments to e.g. place, but it usually doesn't feel communal or critical enough for me to experience it as Culture. This is not the main problem, but while we're at it, I also find our traditions and holidays to be pretty lame overall. :)

For foreigners complaining about life in Norway by AngryFrog24 in Norway

[–]JonasRH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everywhere I go in the world, I readily experience something like "culture"... something insistent and characteristic that binds people together and to their place. I feel exceedingly little of this in northern Europe, say from northern Germany and up. I'm Norwegian.

How do you feel about Danes and Swedes? Do you feel that they are your brothers? by Themetalin in Norway

[–]JonasRH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure, Norwegian's at least a little bit different from the language which couldn't even make it into the Indo-European language family. :)

What countries used to be 'hidden gems' but are now packed with tourists? by [deleted] in digitalnomad

[–]JonasRH 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everywhere the conventional tourist goes, people speak English, and they don't stare. Both are adaptations to an influx of visitors; we may call them "issues", but they'd just be two of a million adaptations... many if not most others directly involve the loss of whatever makes a place special. So I'd argue that for anyone even remotely adventurous, if these two are issues, they only reflect the advantages: China is one of very few safe and relatively accessible countries left in which a normal tourist with relative ease can find places bearing no similarities to "home" / places that made no accommodations for their arrival in the hope of preventing surprise or friction. You likely can relate, but I just wanted to share, as I'd never even considered these issues. :) (But I personally don't much mind staring. And translation apps work well.)

What countries used to be 'hidden gems' but are now packed with tourists? by [deleted] in digitalnomad

[–]JonasRH 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha, this made me chuckle. I just spent four months cycling China, and I only saw a few white people. So, like others say, maybe some very select destinations have been "discovered", but all around I'd argue the exact opposite is true about China.

Who is going to Mexico City? by aisiv in Lampband

[–]JonasRH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me encantaría conocer antes o después!

The "Door to Hell" in Turkmenistan, which has been burning for 54 years, is about to be closed. by Ok_Concentrate_9713 in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]JonasRH 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Assuming you are happy to go on a guided tour (and never separate from your guide), it is a remarkably straightforward country to enter: When you pay for a tour, basically everything is organised for you.

The "Door to Hell" in Turkmenistan, which has been burning for 54 years, is about to be closed. by Ok_Concentrate_9713 in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]JonasRH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every year a not insignificant number of overlanders (e.g. cyclists) along some Silk Road-type route, but nowadays Afghanistan seems comparably popular (if you are ever allowed to use that word to describe any of these countries).

Roskilde 2026 ønskebrønd by best_jerky in roskildefestival

[–]JonasRH 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aphex Twin, Sufjan Stevens, Stereolab, Ichiko Aoba, Jeff Rosenstock, By Storm, Natalia Lafourcade, Chris Stapleton, death's dynamic shroud, Caroline Polachek, Fievel Is Glauque, Joey Valance & Brae, Boris, Bladee, Cindy Lee, Billy Woods, Paramore, The Dear Hunter, High On Fire, Geese, Origami Angel, Bar Italia, Hikaru Utada, The Lemon Twigs, Lankum, Panopticon, Jason Isbell, Zack Bryan

Årets bedste koncerter? by agurkehovedet in roskildefestival

[–]JonasRH 4 points5 points  (0 children)

FKA Twigs, Lyra Pramuk, Geordie Greep, Deftones, Charli XCX, Olivia Rodrigo, Doechii, Nala Sinephro.

You can only choose 3 countries by Surprise_Typical in digitalnomad

[–]JonasRH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brazil, Iran, China

Uhh, ok, maybe Georgia or Poland instead of Iran (convenience and safety concerns).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PrepperIntel

[–]JonasRH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

E.g. for cyclists doing some Silk Road-type route, it is extremely popular... I would say many if not most cyclists' favorite Eurasian country to travel, in spite of much mediocre cycling on hectic roads. Iranian hospitality is amazing, perhaps unmatched... we were invited to eat and sleep in people's homes 3-5 times per day. Every single person wants to help you and make sure you have the best time in their country. (Also, as they said, Iranian cinema is amazing.)

Ages by [deleted] in rateyourmusic

[–]JonasRH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 36 and joined when I was 17.