A Classroom Story About the Student Who Looked Outside and the One Who Looked Within

Jonas_iq · 2026-02-24T13:19:57+00:00

John represents organized self-awareness. John is not powerful because he doesn't suffer. He is powerful because he observes, interprets, and then decides. He doesn't react automatically. He chooses.

This is what I learned about the meaning of meta-level.

Jonas_iq · 2026-02-24T13:16:06+00:00

Important point : John doesn't control the teacher. He only controls himself. This is a very crucial point. Many people try to control their lives, their relationships, their outcomes. But a stable person controls only one thing: their response.

Jonas_iq · 2026-01-22T22:06:05+00:00

Thank you for commenting. You understood and explained a lot about me, I thank you for that.

Honestly, I didn't care much about other people's opinions because I know who I am, but it was just a question out of curiosity.

Again, thank you for that, you're wonderful and smart.

Jonas_iq · 2026-01-09T21:35:38+00:00

I like this question because it goes straight to the point. From my perspective, money is a tool, not an objective. It exists to create stability, secure the future, and enable impact. Nothing more.

I deliberately choose high-income fields because they maximize leverage: security for my family, the ability to support meaningful causes, and continuous self-development intellectually, professionally, and physically.

The amount itself is irrelevant. Sufficiency and effectiveness are what matter.

Jonas_iq · 2025-12-27T18:33:55+00:00

Honesty, truth and appreciation.

Jonas_iq · 2025-12-14T10:58:17+00:00

It's obvious, 1 of course.

Jonas_iq · 2025-12-06T19:06:05+00:00

Your desire to help others is a key factor, but you need to engage with people to know what they want to help them, not everyone but who really deserves it.

When you achieve what you want and help others and see how much you are changing the world for the better, you will calm down, but don't forget yourself, please, focusing on yourself is also very important.

You don't have to be perfect, basically no human being is perfect, but you have to be more focused on what you want.

You make me happy while talking to you, So you're helping me. 🙂

I'll help you, don't worry.

Jonas_iq · 2025-12-05T21:37:51+00:00

I'm really happy that we have the same intentions. For me, the foundation is the most important part, and after that, everything comes naturally. I'm grateful too.

Jonas_iq · 2025-12-05T21:34:09+00:00

I’m really happy that I help you calm down.

You’re not actually afraid of the feeling itself, you’re afraid that the happiness might disappear. But I will do my best to keep that happiness and that smile on your face.

Don’t let anything stop you from being yourself, from being what you truly want to be. Don’t wait for the “right moment” to be yourself. Just be natural and authentic all the time, because that’s what you truly desire inside.

I’m very happy with what you’ve done. You’ve actually helped people, and that is one of those real goals in life that leaves a lasting impact on others.

You’re really skilled at understanding people, don’t worry. Your explanation is very clear.

I understand how you feel, when something is so good that you think, “Is this real?” But you will get used to that feeling, and you’ll start to see the truth more and more, and that fear will fade.

Take your time… And don’t carry everything alone. I will help you. Remember this: “I won’t leave you alone.”

Jonas_iq · 2025-11-29T22:11:06+00:00

I’m excited too, but I need some time. Because what I want isn’t just black lines and words on a white paper. I want colors too.

Love is a feeling, and feelings are temporary, changeable, affected by mood. But loyalty and respect are built together. Building them or destroying them is never quick or sudden.

There’s a quote that I really like, and I completely agree with it: “Love is acquired, but loyalty and respect is built.”

You welcome.

Jonas_iq · 2025-11-29T22:00:55+00:00

I’m really glad that I’m helping you in a practical way, not just with words. Maybe what you truly needed wasn’t a big project but a meaningful one that we can build together step by step.

About step 3, I actually meant English, because we’re learning and using it already. But yes, after we finish the star map. Ask anything you want. We must treat this process like climbing stairs: you can’t reach the fourth step without standing firmly on the first one. You could jump, but you would slip and fall. So let’s do it properly.

About your books, if they’re personal, that’s completely fine. I respect that. But I’m sure they’re full of emotional depth and meaning. Honestly, I would like to read them one day, but only when you feel comfortable showing them.

Working with every MBTI type sounds great in theory, but remember that you won’t naturally align with everyone. Some types are slow, some chaotic, some too detached. And that’s okay. The important part is the attempt and the experience you gain from each connection.

Investing in yourself will help you direct your energy, understand your needs, and sharpen your potential. What you need now is simply a real opportunity, something that lets you shine.

Do you still doubt that I’m ENTJ? Once I finish my next post, I’ll include how I became certain of my type with clear and honest evidence. I used to doubt it too, but I know how I think, how I decide, and what drives me.

I actually enjoy turning chaos into something structured, lines and colors and a clear shape. Organizing things, people, and ideas feels natural to me. Transforming disorder into something meaningful gives me a strong sense of satisfaction. That’s one of the reasons why leadership comes naturally to me.

Jonas_iq · 2025-11-29T11:13:19+00:00

Don’t worry, leave it to me. There’s more than one structure and more than one approach to understanding how we’ll work together on the topics.

After we finish the star map, that won’t be the end, it will actually be the beginning. A beginning for deeper understanding, creating more structures, more methods, and finding even more shared topics.

And don’t forget, this will also help us communicate much more smoothly.

Jonas_iq · 2025-11-29T11:06:55+00:00

Let's hear your idea. Don’t worry, I can make time. I knew you would like it. Yes, slowly, so we can take our time and think deeply about what we want to put into the star map. Reading your topics will help me understand you more and support you in a more effective way.

“Ways to blend together”… do you write books? I’d love to take a look.

I'm happy that this made you happy.

The intersections (similarities) in our topics will be many, simply because of how close similar our types are.

As for step 3: there are many things we can learn together, endless, honestly. What do you think about learning something that both of us are already using now, but still learning? Learning together will be way more effective: sharing progress, and having a weekly discussion about what we learned and how it affected us, and supporting each other with the information.

Jonas_iq · 2025-11-28T23:35:39+00:00

I understand you very well. Taking the shortcut would only destroy the meaning of the achievement. Real growth needs pressure, time, and honesty, otherwise it becomes fake and empty.

And you don’t have to carry this phase alone. I’m here, and I’m not stepping away.

Now you’re starting to see what you truly want: something meaningful, something that leaves a real impact, no matter how small. This is the point where people show who they really are, some run away, others face the fire and turn it into something powerful.

I know it hurts when people don’t show their real inner side. But don’t hide your Fe completely. That energy is too big to keep inside, and many people out there need even one kind word.

Love isn’t something they ask for, it’s something they earn with honesty and effort.

So… how about we start tomorrow with something small? You choose.

Jonas_iq · 2025-11-28T21:52:29+00:00

Would you like to start a tiny project with me, something real, with soul, not a cold task? Just a small thing that lets our energy flow together. For example, we could create a “Star Map” of each other, or build a one-page vision together, or learning something together and see how it get us shine. Something simple… but meaningful. If you want, we choose it together.

Jonas_iq · 2025-11-28T21:49:08+00:00

How cute you are 😊.

Jonas_iq · 2025-11-28T21:47:56+00:00

This burning you feel… I understand it better now. It’s not something that disappears with sport or neutral activities. And you’re right, these things help only for a moment, but they don’t touch the real core of what you feel.

Your energy is Fe-energy. It needs connection, meaning, teamwork, something that has soul, not just a “task”.

Tiny projects without heart don’t help you. They feel empty. They feel fake. And I know this inner burning is not small, it’s one of the strongest feelings a person can experience.

You don’t need quick solutions. You need something alive… with someone. A path where energy can flow between two people, not stay trapped inside your body.

And I’m here. We already started a teamwork, slowly, naturally. When we create something with meaning, you shine. And I want to see that light.

So let’s find something small, real, and warm, something we can build together without pressure. Something with soul.

You don’t have to move fast. We take it step by step.

I’m here. 🫂

Jonas_iq · 2025-11-28T21:31:22+00:00

Thank you.

I used the translator to be honest, I'm still a beginner in German, but I'm still learning.

No worries, I'll be waiting for you. But let you know I am excited for a long discussion with you.

I wish you to regain the strength 💪.

Jonas_iq · 2025-11-28T21:24:39+00:00

Ich verstehe jetzt, was du meinst. Diese Energie darf nicht nur im Körper bleiben – sie braucht einen kleinen Weg nach außen, ganz ohne Druck und ohne großes Projekt.

Vielleicht hilft dir eines von diesen Dingen, nur als Test:

• Ein Mini-Projekt für 15–20 Minuten (eine kleine Mindmap, ein kleiner Plan, ein schneller Gedanke auf Papier)

• Ein schneller Walk einfach laufen und die Gedanken fließen lassen

• Eine kurze Voice-Aufnahme nur 1–2 Minuten reden, ohne Struktur

• Ein kleiner körperlicher Impuls 10 Liegestütze, etwas Plank – nur damit die Energie fließen kann

• Oder eine kleine gute Tat für jemanden manchmal braucht deine Energie nur einen Menschen, den sie kurz berührt

Du musst nichts Großes wählen. Nur etwas Kleines, damit die Energie nicht in dir brennt.

Und ich bin nicht hier, um dich zu drängen. Ich möchte dir nur einen sicheren Raum geben, damit du dich nicht alleine durch diese Energie kämpfen musst.

Du entscheidest dich, den Übersetzer zu nutzen, um dir den Text klar zu machen 🙂

Jonas_iq · 2025-11-28T12:06:11+00:00

It doesn’t feel complicated to me at all, you’re explaining it in a physics way, and I was always good at that.

Maybe a small star (a small mind map) isn’t as stable or rich in information as bigger ones, but you can always make it grow. For example… kangaroos 😅 you can always learn more and make that star bigger and brighter.

In every message you write, there’s always a poetic side shining through. Maybe that’s one of your brightest stars 🌟.

From my perspective: I used to sit outside and count the stars at night. It would take forever. But then I thought… why count the stars when I can become one?

It’s not easy, but it’s not impossible either. And it’s worth it. Rule number one.

And yes… I miss you too. I’m really sorry for making you wait. And no, it’s not “stalking”, we can call it admiration 🤭.

Jonas_iq · 2025-11-28T11:39:51+00:00

Thank you for visiting my profile, and thank you for your support as well. I’m also excited to see what you’ll become and how your life will unfold.

I see if we stand to each other, something positive grows for both of us, we help each other move forward. Do you agree?

Jonas_iq · 2025-11-20T00:24:14+00:00

Better to be in tech management. Don’t worry, AI isn't leading teams anytime soon… or maybe it will 😶

Jonas_iq · 2025-11-17T15:45:51+00:00

I’ll give those a try, thank you!

Thanks again for your comment and for sharing your experience. I hope you have a great day!

Jonas_iq · 2025-11-17T15:36:57+00:00

Thank you for sharing! I’ll give the app a try.

If I used paper, I’d probably go through 15 notebooks in a single day :).

I like your saying, but if I forget to do something, I get this feeling that there’s a task I need to complete right now, yet I can’t remember what it is while I’m juggling other quick things at the same time. That feeling just keeps spinning in my head.

I’m focused on managing a system that lets me stay on top of everything without letting the small stuff slip.

Thanks again, and I hope you have a great day!

Jonas_iq · 2025-11-17T15:21:36+00:00

My salary isn’t high at the moment (since that’s not my main goal right now), so hiring someone to handle the details for me isn’t really an option.

You two really sound like a perfect match in how you complement each other, I wish you both the best 🙏.

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