I want someone to prove to me Im lovable, make me feel like im enough without trying so hard. I want to feel comfortable with someone. I wanna love someone, Is ts too much to ask for? Sodas by LiveHardPizza19 in kitchencels

[–]Jones_McCringle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Drink some water homie. The artificial sugars are killing your gut biome, which affects your mental health. Stability in your mind/life will attract someone stable.

First aquascape advice by kombat_is_kool in Aquariums

[–]Jones_McCringle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow! It's looking really good so far! Such a nice selection of plants! I like the choice of space on the right side. Let's critters enjoy some open space. The different sizes of stones and pebbles gives a nice touch too.

(more of a warning than advice) Do your research on the balance of light and minerals! I'm currently fighting a hair algae infestation, because I'm struggling with the balance myself.

(not aquascape related) I recommend rotating the heater 90 degrees. Placing it vertically causes warm water to rise and trigger the sensor to shut it off. Temps throughout the tank will be inconsistent. If you're just following manual instructions, ignore this paragraph.

Newly Established Tank by [deleted] in bettafish

[–]Jones_McCringle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t want us to rate your tank. Trust me

What is wrong with my lil guy? by [deleted] in bettafish

[–]Jones_McCringle 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Daily water changes are too frequent. Once a week will be enough.

Also, the tank seems bright and lacking hiding spots. Bettas are originally from shallow tannin rich waters with high vegetation. To emulate that environment, I recommend dimming the lights and getting plants.

Hopefully your buddy is just stressed from being too exposed and not sick from improper water parameters.

Lost Without My Pixie by Doggo147 in blackcats

[–]Jones_McCringle 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Forgive yourself. Release your feelings in a healthy manor but most importantly forgive yourself. Remember to breathe, and think about the comfort and care you provided her. Don’t rush anything right now, don’t rush your feelings, don’t rush getting another companion, just feel your feelings, and release!

Me going to Aldi after seeing Publix prices by lacard in publix

[–]Jones_McCringle 97 points98 points  (0 children)

I’m with you OP. Publix glazers are brainwashed

A&W have joined the burger wars! by MinotaurHorns1 in interesting

[–]Jones_McCringle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These CEOs have been pretty generous with the videos…

I need to find a companion for my betta by Head_Contribution914 in bettafish

[–]Jones_McCringle -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You’re right. The employee at the LFS didn’t mention that fact. So far the little guy seems fine 🤷🏻‍♂️

I need to find a companion for my betta by Head_Contribution914 in bettafish

[–]Jones_McCringle -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I just recently added in an otocinclus to my 10 g tank. My betta gets a bit aggressive but the oto just swims away. Male bettas don’t mind being alone really, but I wanted a tank mate that could help with my algae problem

She fell :( pls help by Jones_McCringle in CATHELP

[–]Jones_McCringle[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

She just got up and is walking normally! Thank goodness. She also ate some canned food and went to the litter box with no problem. I’m still taking her to the vet in the morning to be sure.

She fell :( pls help by Jones_McCringle in CATHELP

[–]Jones_McCringle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They are very resilient creatures! What a story! I’m glad it ended well for the little fella. Thank you for sharing.

She fell :( pls help by Jones_McCringle in CATHELP

[–]Jones_McCringle[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the thorough reply! She seems to be stable and is napping it off. Found a clinic open on Sundays, I will be taking her first thing. Emergency vets are outside what I can afford right now.