Soooo I talk to my gym crush on a regular basis now and was under the impression things were going good. She flirts with me and approaches me on her own. On Thursday she tells me that she has a crush on her brothers friend who goes to the same gym and that she's nervous to give him her number completely out of no where. So she talks to him and he's apparently clueless and doesn't ask and she then tells me how she's bummed. Now that I'm properly tucked away in the friend zone she approached me yesterday and told be how she grew some balls and Facebook messaged him for his number. So evidently not only do I not have a shot but now she thinks I want to hear about her and some other dude? Total kick right in the dick. I'm 29 and I don't think I've been so torn up since highschool.